HellFrost666

This I agree with wholeheartedly... But, on the relevence of spells... Believing a Spell will work is no different then believing a Prayer will work. They are pretty much the same thing, but inbedded in two different belief systems.

There are websites out there with pictures of various, um, abnormaities... Go find one and see if what you have looks like any of the pictures. But you still need to see a doctor.

Stop letting them push you around. Respect yourself first.

I can't really give you answers for your questions. I have questions for you... How much do the symptoms you have affect your life, really? Because most people do suffer from some (if not a few) mental disorders. If having these symptoms is getting in the way of you living your life then you should seek professional help, and not worry so much about the diagnosis.

The guy who told you this is out of your life now, and I am guessing your new boyfriend doesn't think she is better then you, so why worry about it? Also keep in mind that imitation is a sign of respect, so, in a twisted kind of way, you are showing respect for her.

No more wrong then him "dropping" you with no real ending. Ask him but be civil about it.

Maybe he thought you weren't interested anymore because you weren't being more agreessive? Just a thought.

Well, I am sorry to say it, but you played and now you are paying. Did she trust you before you cheated? Assuming you don't cheat on her anymore maybe she will learn to trust you again, but it will take a while.

Yes, it festers if you don't dela with it directly. We have argued about some stupid things... but the really dysfunctional relationships are the ones where people never argue.

I did the allnighter thing all through college. Not every night, but often enough.

Well, if you are really attracted to somone you know right away.

There was a thread like this a few months ago... rather then try to re-create what I wrote I got lazy and went and dug it up. So this is my closure letter for the second time.

If people are mean on text they have the capacity to be mean face to face. If there is that much meanness in a relationship then the texting isn't the problem.

I am up for anything, seriously. But tying her up is always fun. We also like the risk of being caught.

I am not going to give the amount. I really don't think anyone on here needs to know the ammount, but it is below $500. I'll tell you that much. I don't even care so much about the money so much as the principle. I know that sounds hokey, but this woman did my girlfriend very dirty after knowing her for so long, and she said things on the phone to me that I wouldn't say to my dog. I will admit it, I just want revenge. The money would be nice, but I am just out to teach her a lesson.

We have tried to "negotiate" with this person. When I have talked to her she has called me quite a few names that I won't repeat, and she went into my girlfriend's place of employment a few days ago and tried to start something while she was working. The check she canceled was for our time. She gave it to us five minutes after we got there. (Acording to her) she hasn't even seen her photos yet. We gave her the pictures on CD, but she claims they won't come up on her computer. My girlfriend had hard copies printed for her. Those hard copies have been sitting on our bookshelf for two weeks now. At this point the likelyhood of us going to court coiuld go either way. We are trying to reach some resolution out of court. It just doesn't look like it will happen right now.

A check is a legal contract here also. And we have the check. It was mailed to us with a statement from the bank.

My girlfriend loves this position.

We have considered getting in touch with the other injured party. If they are up for filing together we are all about it.

Just an update on this whole thing... This morning my girlfriend called three professional photographers in our city to ask them a few questions. (Somehow in the conversations she had she was asked out for coffee and offered an assistant job by one of them, she amazes me at times...) But all the pros charge at leat three times the ammoutn to do a wedding that we were supposed to be paid (One charges about 5 times the amount). Also, all of them take between two weeks and a month to get proofs to thei customers. SInce she copped such an attitude about the price being too high when she handed us the check, and since two days after the wedding she was on the phone yelling and screaming since we didn't have her proofs ready we wanted to get these two questions answered by the pros. So, then she called the bank to see what kind of fees she was being charged for the processing of the check. Of course its a rediculous amount. So then its time to call this couple, more particularly the bride since she is the one we have dealt with from the beginning. The reason she stopped payment on the check just blew my mind. She told me (I called her) that she didn't appreciate the nasty remarks that were made on the wedding video by my girflriend, and her whole family was so offended, and that is why we aren't getting paid. So, what is a nasty remark in this woman's opinion? When they were feeding each other cake my girlfriend was obviously right there taking pictures, and she jokingkly said "Shove it in his face." and laughed while the Bride was feeding the Groom cake. The video camera picked her saying this up. Oh well! It was meant in good humor and I think most people are familiar with that particular tradition at weddings. We have all seen wedding pictures of the newly married couple smashing cake in eachother's faces. But she said they (and their entire family) were extremely offended by that remark and that is why the payment was stopped the day after the wedding. You have got to be kidding me!? So after 15 minutes of being (pretty much) verbally abused on the phone, I finally told her that I am not stadning there arguing all day, we need to come to a reolution here. She still wanted to be nasty, so I told her to call me back when she is ready to deal with this like an adult, I told her to have a good day, and hung up.

How close minded of you to assume that we gave her "poor quality" work? We know this woman, she knew we weren't professionals, yet she asked us to do it, she offered to pay us, she handed the check over, and for the third time, she stopped payment before seeing the work. Are we clear on that now? Jeez. And my girlfriend took excellent pictures. She has been doing this for years. It just isn't her job, so thereforeeee she is not considered a pro. If they decide to countersue for bad work, all the judge has to do is look at the pictures to see they are good pictures. And we didn't get paid half what a professional would have been paid. So its not like we demanded professional money for bad work, it was more the other way around. Sorry for being defensive but how many times do I have to repeat myself?

Oh no, they aren't getting anything until we get our money. My girlfriend gave them a CD with proofs on it, but they are very low resolution and have watermarks on them. So not much can be done with them. Then The Bride called complaining because she couldn't see them well enough on her computer screen, so my girlfriend went and had hard copies printed, (still very low res, and with watermarks on them). But she (bride) never came and picked them up after two times trying to contact her. No, there was no written contract, but there was a verbal contract made when we all were present. They were well aware we are not professionals. And they canceled the check before even seeing our work.

Well, when we got the notice the bank sent the actual check with it, so we have it. That right there is a good ammount of proof. I would think so anyway. If they didn't agree to pay us, they would have never written the check and handed it to my girlfriend. She (the blushing bride, lol) copped an attitude when handing over the check, but she still handed it over. We haven't called them because we weren't sure if it was a good idea. If we call they might try to say we are harassing them or something. And I am in the United States, if that matters.

Has anyone ever taken anyone to Small Claims Court? Or has anyone ever been taken there? I am thinking I may have to sue somone and I have no idea what to expect in doing so. My girlfriend took wedding photos for an aquaintance of ours, and I video taped. We were paid a decent amount to do this. We deposited the check, but got a notice today that it was never deposited because they stopped payment on it before they ever even saw the photos or the video. We are not professionals. My girlfriend is a good photographer, but she hasn't had any real training in it, just a lot of trial and error experience. And I have ran a video camera maybe three times in my life. Just so everyone is clear on that.

You are in a tough spot. I know you probably think you could never stand up to them, but you should consider it. You don't need to yell and fight with them, but tell them you are not doing anything wrong and you deserve a little freedom. Also tell them that you are afraid of going wild when you go to college. You might be surprised how well this works.