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    Who cares? Seriously... And if women weren't interested in sex, then we wouldnt be here. What really got me is, "perverted". Now, thinking about sex is perversion? Wow, for a second I felt stuck in the middle age. Lets see, a dog, a spider, a cat, a whale, a seal, a bird, an elephant, etc. All of them have sex, and most of what the male do has to do with sex, or getting a partner... so... Every animal is perverted!!!! I don't know your personal background, but I know you are a human, and that means you are a product of sex. What is what really bothers you so much about sex? What makes you think so negatively about one of the most natural and basic instincts? What is the source of so much rejection?
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    Ehh? No. Seriously, is that even a question? If I knew she cheated on me, I wouldn't even bother wasting my time dumping her.
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    U seriously want to be with someone that on purpose wants you to feel down? Damn, you must be some kind of masochist, or just plain blinded by her lies.
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    It can't get easier than that, its plain simple as this, she is a selfish female dog. She didn't cared for you, but she wanted the attention she got from you. Having you wallowing at home about losing her made her feel important. Now that she knows you are not at home wallowing/crying/suffering for her, she noticed she was not that important to you, and didn't liked that. She is mad because of that. It is all about her, nothing about you.
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    To be fair, Xal does have a reason to feel like that. On the other hand, you are constantly trying to make up a reason for Xal to dump you.
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    If you reject the idea, you'll never grasp the concept. I can type for hours giving you examples, and if you don't want, you won't understand it, you'll just keep coming with worse and worse examples. The club one, you can give it MANY interpretations like: - I'm glad I'm not stuck with her, so I'm free to meet someone I really like - Whatever, I didn't liked her that much - Her boyfriend is lucky, where do I get one like her, maybe I'll ask her if she has a sister - ETC And by the way, you already got the main one, just try to interpret it correctly: a) she doesn't like me.... - Because how i aproached her? b) she must be having a bad day and she really missed out on a great opportunity to get to know fantastic ME!! - Her loss Next time I'll be more confident when I aproach her, avoiding to babble whatever I say (or whatever you think you did wrong), and, in fact, she is missing the oportunity to get to know a great person. Can you go out and run the marathon? (OK, maybe you run as excersice) Can you go out and drive an F1 car and beat Fernando Alonso? Of course you can't. You've got to train yourself, train your mind, the more you do it, the more your mind will get used to do it, keep doing it and at one point it will be almost automatic for you. Though, if you don't really want it, you'll find a way to interpret it the worse way possible.
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    OK, so you are basically doing everything you would do as her boyfriend, but getting nothing in return. She is having her cake and eating it to. Next time she'll ask you to drive her to a date... Man up and do yourself a favor, get out of there.
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    Nope. You are not changing the way you think, you must change the interpretation. The event by itself means nothing, it will mean what you make it up to be, or the interpretation you give it. Again, change the interpretation, not the way you think. What about... gasp.... taking responsibility? c) Next time I'll be a good man to my partner, I'll make sure I'm satisfying her at an emotional and phisical level, and I'll commit to a relationship with someone that actually meets the expectations I'm looking for in a partner. See, c is both of yours, a and b together, but, it is not puting the blame on anyone. A is playing the guilty role, "oh, I'm so bad, I deserve to die!", B is the victim role "oh, she was awfull, she deserves to die". None of them are constructive. By being constructive you are giving yourself a chance to move on, and learn from your past experience: If the relationship failed: - Were you fully commited? - Were you trying hard enough to make it work? - And last, but not least, were you with someone you truly could see yourself forever? Even if she was a coldblooded stone hearted female dog, hate to break it on you, but you chose her as your partner. So for the next time: - Commit to the relationship - Do your best to make it work - Get into a relationship with someone you truly can see yourself with for a long time What can we get from your "b" option: "b) i was TOO good to her and she has self-sabotaging issues and couldn't handle such a good relationship." Oh, well, I'm perfect, she didn't deserved me. So I'll just keep looking for someone else. Notice that there is nothing on yourself to improve? What can we get form "a" option: "a) i wasn't good enough to her...the sex was bad...etc." "I wasn't good enough to her" So I'll settle with someone with lower expectations, so next time "I'll be good enough". Note: Just an example based on your example. Not to resemble any real event.
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    Not liking your body is not the problem. It is just that you don't like yourself, not liking your body is just a way to project that dislike of yourself in something more tangible. From your measures you have a rather nice body, yet you are not comfortable with it, and you know you won't be comfortable with the results if you properly work out. I say this, because I recall from your posts, that you have already done that, and still dind't liked it. I know I'm not THAT overweight, I know I look fine, I know I can get attention only because of my looks. Yet I feel that I could only stand a chance to an overweight deformed whale in a beauty contest. I know that what I don't like is not my body, but myself. Sometimes, I feel just plain weird, I even freak out myself, and those days I can look up to the mirror and actually like what I see. Have you noticed that most of the time, the most confident persons are not the most beautiful? And have you noticed that some of the most insecure persons are extremely beautiful?
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    Lapdance

    Süsser Tod replied to bat's topic in Sex and Romance

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    No I havent. I went to a doctor, but not a neurologist. I don't know the name of the speciality, but its the kind of doctor that knows about everything, and if he finds an specific problem he will send you to a more specific specialist. They are the ones that take care of the Intensive care units. He didn't thought a neurologist was necesary, he just gave me prescriptions for painkillers after checking that everything else was working fine. I guess I'll have to go to one now, it is way too tiring and disruptive of my normal life. I just hate feeling like this, its like sabotaging myself, eventhough I'm not doing it on purpose, but at the end I'm not being able to do what I should be doing. I'm going to study now, hope the migraine doesn't get worse in a few hours at least.
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    I'm so pissed off at myself!!! I'm going to cancel the test for next Tuesday, I just have not been able to study thanks to migraine! Thursday I studied until late in the night, so Friday I was sleepy. I came home after work and went for dinner with my dad. Came back and decided to sleep a couple of hours and then study, I had the alarm set up, and it worked, I woke up. I woke up with a really bad migraine! I've been in bed since then, right now I more or less feel fine, still a little bit of headache. But now I feel like poo, I've slept like 20 hours. I feel like if I had drank too much, maybe a painkiller hang over? Migraine has been rally bad in the last month. Just last Tuesday I had the worse migraine I can recall in this year. I came from work straight to bed, I was almost throwing up because of the pain. I has planned to make up for the lost study time this weekend, I hate it!!!
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    After 5 years I can't see any reason why a divorce could take more than a couple of months to be final. Go visit him, greet him, get him to sign the papers and kiss your past goodbye. Karma got him, real bad. But that is not of your bussines.
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    I'm in Mexico City, not a cheap place to live in, not even by international standards.
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    WOW!!! In two hours you make as much as I make a day, and I'm an IT engineer. It has to be nice to live in the US.
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    well, maybe you can transfer to another school for the extra semester If there is will, you'll find a way to do it, the rest are excuses.
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    Just imagine the brilliant future ahead of you as a "highschool dropout"... Man, I'm not a believer of University degrees, but highschool is a must, unless you REALLY like working at McDondalds.
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    Is now dancing an intimate act that is considered cheating??? But if it is considered cheating, then why is it ok to commit incest (dancing with family members)?
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    Oh boy, did I learned that the hard way... Now that is the first thing I check if a girl gets my attention, learnt the lesson very well.
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    I think she should. Otherwise what else can she do in there, drink?
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    Happily, I'll be trying it soon GF is on the other side of the world now, but she is coming back soon!
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    Hmmm, good question... I guess when I first kissed my gf. She was really hard to get! We were at her sister's place wathing a movie, and we were both on the same couch, I was hugging her. The DVD player was on an ackward position, so I had to lean forward and move the remote so it would work. I think we were watching the special features on the Bride Corpse, and one time that I leaned forward she gave me a little peck on the cheek. I returned a kiss on her head. After the same thing three times, I looked at her, and we kissed, it went from a small kiss on the lips to a full blown french kiss. And we were like that for like the next three hours! Best part was next day in the morning. When I lit up a smoke I pain in my lips and tongue! They had a very good excersice last night. All I could think was, WOW, that was amazing! I had never kissed someone for so long, and we set new records like the next 3 times, up to 5 hours of kissing.
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    Mushrooms are bad, its a shame my gf likes mushrooms on the pizza... Glad to know you're fine.
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    How long has she been broken up with the ex? To me it looks like she is not ready yet for another relationship.
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