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iam sorry but she is in a difficult situation right now and any girl in her position wont know what to do.. Also girls are not boys, she needs time to think about these stuff because girls mostly are the one who gets hurt in a relationship.. Imagine you in her poistion, you wont be able to know what you want exactly.. Everyone of us get confused by different situations in life.. Putting her infront of a yes or no question will make pressure on her.. Yes like if too short but the problem is long love takes time too.. Anyways, decide what you want to do..

hi John M, The girls seems to be a little bit confused and having hard time deciding what she exactly wants.. It seems like she likes you and respects you but she dont want to get into anything now till things settle down.. She still dont know whether she is over with her ex or not.. She dont want to being something new with you and in the sametime she still didnt get her ex out of her heart completely.. It seems like she kindda still likes him too.. It also looks like you are a goog guy and really likes her.. but the problem is that there is nothing much u can do about this.. She told you what she honestly thinks.. She said that because she dont want to hurt you if things didnt work and leave you.. So she dont begin something which she thinks could end quickly.. She wants you and her to be friends till she sees whats going on.. Either she leaves her ex completely and become with you or return to him or even find someone else.. Thats why she told you if you found someone else you can be with go on.. She is afraid that you wait for her without any benefit.. So what should you do ? You could wait for her and try to show her that you two can be together.. Without asking her or any pressure on her.. Keeping pressure will make her run more.. Show that you care about her but dont say it.. There is no gurantee that she will come to you at the end but this is the best you can do.. Or just be her friend and forgot about it.. If you two are meant together it will happen.. Hope this helps, Wish you get what you want..

i would think she is a flirty girl ! If you want better answer give more details.

Hi, That sounds so nice... but i dont think relationships are that simple.. You can do these stuff if you are married for example with a woman for 20 years.. But these stuff are not the main points to look for when trying to reach a girl or at the beggining of any relationship.. As sweet as they sound, they are nice in specific situations only.

Iam sorry that i was out of the topic.. I just said an opinion.. I dont think i hurted anyone by this ! i dont think by saying something like that in someone's post is " Hijacking" if thats what u want to call it.. They are just words written.. Sorry again

hi , I lately found out that strange things do happen.. I dont know this life is strange.. I really dont have an answer for you.. But all that i know is that if you are going to really try to understand how the world is going, u will get crazy at the end.. As friends come and go.. Strange things come and go.. We need to learn acceptance and surrender to the things we cant change.. Things beyond our ability.. I could be out of the topic but i also want to say that i should not waste alot of time thinking about things in life.. Iam looking forward for the eternal life if you believe in it.. I believe that God created us and we shall be back to him.. 2 simple reasons why God exists !! First, can u wake up at home and find for example a camera in your room suddenly ! or there must be someone who made it and put it in your room. so imagine your amazing eye that works in a strange precise way.. Second thing, Look at your body, look at things around you.. What makes the sun comes from the east everyday.. If you study anything about your body (physiology for example ) see how the body mechanisms work.. work in a perfect way.. All the body systems in harmony.. Who taught it to be like that ? how created these complicated systems ? That doesnt mean you dont work or dont think about the problems you have ( like the one you got) but do your best then dont ever worry about it.. so think,see what you should do, do it and then never worry..

Hi, No do not chase her.. Be direct and upfront... Leave her a while.. She still sounds not ready completely.. Chasing means you are going to begin playing games and you dont wanna enter silly games.. Be available if she wants you, but dont chase her..

Hi lulu, This happens all the time.. You need to be yourself and go on with your life normally.. Dont try to do something special to find someone.. Go with the flow..

Yeah he doesnt seem so interested.. Maybe he is confused but still he is not that interested.. Leave him and go on with your life.. Dont over think about it, you wont reach anything except confusing yourself believe me..

I get this stress level from time to time.. Its normal, everyone has problems and it overwhelm us sometimes.. What you need to do is to sleep saftley, quietly and to throw your worries on God, he is staying awake anyways.

Hi Hunny, I am also in the same situation.. I see the girl i used to like in college.. I know it is hard for you to get over someone you like specially if you still have hope.. I also hope that things change or something.. I used to say to myself that i can still have hope and put in the corner of my head and move on.. But lately, i found out that as long as i have hope, i wont get over her.. Now i need to ACCEPT that things are OVER.. Hunny you need to accept what happened.. I think there is nothing really you can do about it.. In this case, its better to love yourself and go on with yourlife.. Its hard to accept things that we didnt want but what helped me that i believe that God will never disappoint me ! The more i trust in him, the more good things will happen to me and the more things i wanted will happen.. Worrying about it wont change anything.. If things going to happen, it WILL HAPPEN.. Dont worry.. Trust God.

Love could bring great joy or great pain !

Suicide ? What is the benefit from it ? Everyone sometimes feel down.. Including me.. Never never never never give up.. Because why should you give up ? Even if you fail everytime.. At least you are doing something interesting .. you are trying and challenging.. You know what.. People who are happy all the time are not strong.. They didnt pass any tests in life, to show their strenght or to pass them.. But people who have many challenges in their lives are heros.. They are struggling = strong.. You are looking for the results, dont do that.. Do your best and keeeeeeeeeeep trying.. No one ever did his best and regret it.. Right ? so do your best and have faith.. And you will see that things became better.. And after a while when you found your way.. You will be amazed by yourself, how strong were you in the time of troubles.. and sucess you achieved.. I always listen to this song while feeling down and i tell my self i want to be that person who made it through troubles and now he is on the top.. You need to fall deep, if you want to be high.. Do you want to be this one ? choose well, Not more than three short years ago I was abandoned and alone Without a penny to my name So very young and so afraid No proper shoes upon my feet Sometimes I couldn't even eat I often cried myself to sleep But still I had to keep on going Never knowing if I could take it If I would make it through the night I held on to my faith I struggled and I prayed And now I've found my way If you believe in yourself enough And know what you want You're gonna make it happen (Make it happen) And if you get down on your knees at night And pray to the Lord He's gonna make it happen I know life can be so tough And you feel like giving up But you must be strong Baby just hold on You'll never find the answers if you throw your life away I used to feel the way you do Still I have to keep on going Never knowing if I could take it If I would make it through the night I held on to my faith I struggled and I prayed And now I've finally found my way I once was lost But now I'm found I got my feet on solid ground Thank you Lord If you believe within your soul Just hold on tight And don't let go You can make it happen

Hi cinderella, You know what... You dont need to put yourself down.. You are fine.. Dont let your head rule your heart.. Its the head always tries to put someone down.. Dont listen to it.. I believe in something.. About finding love, you need FAITH.. Love comes to those who believe it.. If you love this guy, try to make things work, do your best.. Eventually, you will find the right path infront of you.. Whether it is with this man or with someone else.. Concentrate on making the best of yourself and do not worry about things.. I am really sorry that i dont have much information to give but i just dont want you to feel bad about it because 1) its useless 2) YOU are a great person, so dont let your head put you down..

Hi powerful, I think your did you best.. She is ignoring you, not calling and doesnt care about you could be something out of her hands.. But either ways, you need to move on.. If God wants you to be together, dont worry things will be fine.. If not, no matter how much you try, things will not get better. Since you did your best, stop worrying about it and go on with your life..

Hi torn000, Great post ! I think you are right.. Its never a good thing to compare ourselves to other people.. No one is perfect and everyone has his good and bad qualities... Every person must like himself and thank god.. Very true.. Thats why people must follow their hearts. When the head rules, it always make doubts and keep hitting on you to make something bad.. But that inner wisdom inside us never fail to show us the right way..

Hi, Well this guy is not someone you want to be with.. As the others said, do NC..

I didnt read the whole thing but about which is better : Cheat or cheated on.. I prefer to be cheated on. I know it sounds silly but think about it that way.. You cheat = you did something wrong.. you cheated on = you are right.. I know cheated on hurts more but but from the moral side a person should prefer to be cheated on than to cheat on someone.. And in case you cheated on someone, You should regret what you did and never do it again.. If you did this, you are a new clean women.

Tell him that you dont like how he is treating you right now.. If he didnt change and didnt care about it.. Leave him, you deserve someone who cares about you..

are you sure your actions doesnt show that you like him ? If he asks you to go out, tell him you can go with him as friends.. Make sure your actions are not so friendly but still be nice..

If he told you that he likes you.. Tell him i like you as a friend.. The most important thing that your actions shows that.. I mean dont say i like you as a friend and be so friendly with him.. Be nice but not soo friendly..Some girls say i like u as a friend then act soo nice to guys till they get hurt..

Some people act like this because they are shy to show their feelings.. or to look more powerful and cocky guys.. Or he is playful..

Dont wait till things get more complicated and weirder.. Ask him.

Men playing hard to get : They could try to tease you, talking to other girls and showing as if he dont care.. Also he could try to talk alot infront of you, to show that he is fine.. I think there are more but thats what in my mind now..

Hi Sweetharmony, Try to call him and talk to him a little bit.. Dont make it so serious.. The idea of calling him not to ask him to come back to you but to see his reaction.. If he likes you, he will try to use this chance to make things better.. I think you can tell whether he wants you or not from the way he is talking to you.. I dont know but this guy seems like he is not aware of himself.. But anyways, try your best..