AlwaysNeedHelp

hi, ur situation could hurt ur feelings.. and thats the first thing i dont want to happen to u... as they said, make ur self unavailable a little bit.. but dont be mean.. + dont wait for her... u dont want ur feelings to get hurt if you just waited for her and nothing happened.. Also i think u could feel whether there is hope or not.. if u can see considerable amount of hope then try to get her WITHOUT pressuring her or being too needy.. remember the most important thing is to take it step by step.. Things wont happen in a day or a night.. if there is something going to happen it will take TIME.. but u have hope but there is nothing u can do about it then just leave things happen alone.. dont think about it and let her go.. if things going to happen it iwll happen in the right time.. just leave things happen naturally.. good luck

well maybe she is not interested at all... but i think she likes you as she said.. but all she cant see u together at the MOMENT... maybe things change in the future and maybe not.. so dont wait.. just forget it and let things happen naturally.. if she likes as she said.. she will recognize that u r a good guy and tell u.. but dont ask her alot.. never.. good luck

yeah good start but dont rush things.. take ur time..

thanks for ur reply... but iam sure that she will just keep saying i like u as a friend as long as i ask her.. maybe she doesnt realize her own feelings.. or maybe she convinced her self that she likes me as a friend bec i was too serious.. and maybe she likes me as a friend and just do what she do bec she is shallow... honestly she is friendly and like to talk to boys.. but i asked close friends to her and she dont send pics to them like this.. if iam a friend why would i want pics of her family.. maybe her pics but what am i suppose to do with her family pics...

we are both 18

hi guys, i hope someone can help me... here is my story and then choose a scenario.. i told this girl that i like her.. we didnt know eachother well.. ( on msn ) next day i saw her she was fine. her face was red.. when we talked on msn next time she said iam rly flaterred that u like me and i rly like u too.. but i dont get a bf.. ( normal in my country ) i told her i dont wanna be ur bf.. ( well i wanted something bigger ) so she said something like : just keep things like this and we will c.. few days i couldnt wait like this and i asked her ok u dont get a bf but if u r not interested thats a diff stroy.. she said: u dont understand me at all i like u and u r a nice guy but i never thougth of this stuff thats why they are confusing.. i cant say iam not interested ..... can we just keep things as they were without u hating me bec i dont wanna lose ur friendship... things are kind clear now ? maybe but contnue reading... after i told her.. she started to talk to me alot on msn.. NOT face to face but on msn.. alot everytime she sees me online... she started to send me pics of her and her family.. alot without me asking her.. and thats stayed for a long time maybe 2 months or something.... so her behaviour to me changed like this after i told her... she became over friendly to me on msn.. tellin me personal stuff.. sending me personal pics.. so what ami suppose to think ? iam confused again.. i asked her.. i like u as a friend.. hmm ( some ppl told me ofcourse she will say that,, she wont say i like u ) last time she send me 10 PICS in a row.. without me asking her at all. i was talking to her about univ.. then she sent me 10 pics.. God i am so confused again.. i asked her again.. she says: i like u as FRIEND ( with capital letters ) appreciate having u as a friend cant imagine us being more than friends.. after she said so.. she blocked me for 2 days.. and for a couple of days at univ.. she made her self as if she dont see me... but i ignored her too... so now she comes to me normal and unblocked me.. so her are the choices.. i found out lately that she dont send pics to friends except few but they boys ask for it.. and even pics of her not her family.. and not that much.. A) she likes me as a friend, and sends me pics alot and tells me personal stuff bec iam her new gay friend.. B) she likes me more than a friend but i was too serious too soon ( yes i was ) so she ran away... c) she likes me more than a friend thats why she sends me pics and stuff but she says like this bec she doesnt feel comfortable having soemthing now.. so why did she just liked me as afriend suddenly after i told her.. we werent close friends at all before i tell her.. she dont even send me pics as she send her friends.. more and more personal... i dont know wha to think ... if she likes me as a friend why her actions were like that and if she likes me more than a friend why her words are liek that... trust words or actions ?????????????? thanks

well yeah tell her... maybe try to know why she asked this question.. but in general just tell her.. or at least show her slowly that u care... ok i found out that u told her good.. now dont regret it.. u didnt do something wrong.. u will find out whether she likes u or not..

well first i dont think the time would make a difference... but u can ask him nicely about it... i dont think it is a big problem maybe he just dont want to make u uncomfortable

is that what you learned ?? dating more than 1 ? i dont agree with u at all... yeah it works when you just want to play.. but if u want a real relationship this wont work.. ofcurse NC helps.. love is a great feelings.. and yeah when it ends its very difficult.. but so what ? we have to love... and sometimes we will get hurt.. its like u r saying driving a car is great.. but making an accident is hard.. does this mean we should not drive at all ? just if u r a good person.. good things will happen in the good time..

i completely agree with you... u must give this thing to a special girl.. you both share a something special... its hard to find this, but u can find.. if u want to keep trying...

i liked a girl and told her i like u.. first time said: i like u too but i dont get a bf.. are u interested ? second time: i cant say iam not interested bec not interested means i dont like but i do can we just keep things as they were without u hating me bec i dont wanna lose ur friendship.. u r mysterious third time: i like u as a friend.. i thought that u hate me bec u used to tease me.. and sometimes u were mean.. then she started to act so nice.. sending me pics of her family telling me personal stuff.. always intiating contact.. seems interested .. sends me alot of msg always available.. like when i tell her lets talk i find her.. make sure iam not mad at her.. last thing she said: i dont know why u sometimes mean and sometimes nice.. and i remembered when u said i shouldnt rely that we will be friends for alont time. i swear i dont know why.. there is nothing i can do.. so she uses me as an ego booster or what ? AND IF SO HOW TO TREAT HER ?

hi i really need help... ok i spend alot of time alone.. bec u can say i dont have many close friends to go out.. I WANT TO GO OUT but i dont find anyone to go out with.. why ? because all my life there is only one thing i do.. PLAY SPORTS.. i dont find alot of people play sports now adays.. i used to train but i left the team bec of studying... so bec i dont go out alot, iam alone alot.. and because iam alone... i think think think think think and THINK... my head is tried from thinking.. thinking in everything until i confuse my self and my brain is about to burst.. + i like a girl and she is confusing.. so i wonder in my lonely times whether she likes me or not... so i find this really not mentally healthy at all.. ii really cant bear it anymore.. iam about to get depressed from this... can someone help me how to stop thinking like this before i get crazy ?

how can u tell whether a girl talks to u just bec u r nice and tooku for granted or she really wanna talk to u bec she likes u.. so i suggest a way to know but iam not sure whether it is right or wrong.. if u stopped contacting her and she started to try to talk to u.. does this mean something ? thanks

hi i would like to know what signs of a girl took u for granted.. like she just talks to you bec u r nice and maybe running after her not bec she really wanna talk to u ... what if i stopped talking to her and she began to intiates talking and try to talk.. iam talking about friendship and love levels.. thanks

yeah exactly i know alot of people. really aloot but no body to talk too... i dont know but when i look back at myself i see myself very innocent and kind.. i was always the guy with the good manners.. iam still know with my good manners.. but most of people now dont really have good manners... well iam saying the truth... iam not complimenting myself.. i always used to advice poeple by good things.. for example something i realized, my friends on msn always block eachother alot... i have no reason why.. like there is a friend i talk to in college.. and he just says how much he missed me and stuff.. but then i found out that he blocked me... today i just told him hi how r u.. and he said gtg and blocked me i dont believe it.. i didnt say anything.. i never blocked anyone.. i dont know why people block eachother without reason..

hi i have a problem.. i can say that i have alooot of friends.. i know alot of people.. but i dont have any close friends.. maybe 3 or 4 at most through all my life.. i mean i dont have close friends that i can go out with.. actually there are but few... maybe bec i dont trust people easily and i dont get along with them easily.. also iam shy.. also all what i do is play sports.. but most people just go out go to a movie or have fun by any ways... i dont like these kind of gatherings alot.. i dont know is it something wrong with me.. iam not so outgoing also.. how can i change this ? sometimes i feel that iam soo lonely.. i dont find anyone to talk to or to got out with.. this sometimes causes me terrible feelings.. in the past i used to play sports with friends aloot everyday, i had more close friends.. but now i dont know what happened.. i feel like they grown up and iam still in my childish dreams. can anyone help me !!

I believe homosexuality is a SIN. i dont know why when god created a woman to have sex with her you go and have sex with a guy... sorry but have to say my opinion... i really dont know what to say.. i dont agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

hmm.. i dont know what exactly happened between u.. but if u can see that u both can go throught ur probelms together.. and u still love her as u said then try to be with her again.. otherwise, if she just wants to be friends i know it would be very difficult for u to forget her.. but if u accepted things as they are u would be happier.. no doubt it will take time... just try to talk to the other girls at work.. u dont have to flirt with them and i dont mean u have a relation with one of them, but just to make ur time pass easier.. get busy in other stuff that would make u stop thinking about her a little bit.. life is sometimes difficult my friend but if u can wait things will become better that u thought... the only things i can advice u now is to be patient and strong... and i hope u goodluck...

funny they must make a forum for funny stories here..

So why me? Why did you touch me only to let me go? Why did you kiss me only to make me cry? Why me? i like this part ......

hmm actually i dont know anything about piercing except that they are painful... and if i was a girl, i would never do these stuff

hi couple of solutions 1) let him get a friend do the job for him and buy it for him.. 2) Go another store.. 3) dont have sex 4) hmm again goo another store lool

did someone told u that this site is a doctor ?? iam not trying to be rude but i mean just let her go see a doctor.. anything i said here wont help her.. just let her go to a doctor,.

hi its not bad luck or anything.. when u find the right girl for u, things will work believe me.. ok, but u have to do something also.. not just wait.. when u like a girl.. its difficult to ruin the nice things u share.. but u have to have some courage.. u need to take it step by step.. first try to make indirect hints. u can know whether a girl is interested or not.. iam not saying like u or not.. but interested.. just give hints and signs, if she likes she could read the signs and like u too.. just dont worry.. nothing deserve worry in this world

hi well i have an opinion here.. you are trying to solve his problem and try to know his feelings while u didnt even solve yours.. first identify whether u truly like him or not.. if u dont like him, then try to let him stop acting this way.. but if u like him and want him to be with u, then u have to know his feelings at this point.. if he likes u.. you be honest with him and tell him about his girlfirend.. if he dont like u .. i would just advice u to get away of this guy bec he just wants to play.. good luck..