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  1. Listen to the doctor and stop playing around for a while
  2. hi i believe that 2 people meet eachother is fate... You dont try to look for love as if you are looking for a job.. You dont try searching for it.. Just relax and the right guy will come to you.. Just have faith..
  3. hi i understand how you feel because i feel like this sometimes... Dont worry, believe in yourself.. Believe that things can get better.. I know its hard when you are feeling down to get up again.. but you can do it.. If you feel that you are too small, dont be sad.. just speak to your mind.. whenever i feel this way.. i go to the place inside my heart which motivates me.. i know iam a good person.. You have to keep on moving.. Dont think of what are people thinking of you.. Let me tell you that.. You have to move now ALONE.. I know its hard but you have to do it.. Forget the sorrows you are in now.. As smallworld said: Begin small.. Ignore all the negative feelings... Most heros are lonely by the way.. Also remember exceptional people do exceptional sacrifices to have the exceptional demands.. The more you struggle the more you can go up.. To make it easier for you to understand what i mean.. If you are facing a problem.. Its like a block in your way.. When you continue moving and challenge this block.. It will be a step.. The higher the block (problem ) the higher step you can climb.. ( steps for success ).. If you need any help PM me.. Goodluck
  4. I believe that you should stop contacting him anymore.. If he likes you, he will try to reach you again.. If he didnt then forget him..
  5. i really dont understand you so much... do u like her or not ? from what i understood u like her but u want to keep her as a friend now.. if so.. then tell her that.. tell her that u like her too but for ( the reasons u said ) we cant have something now.. we should stay friends.. Honesty is the best thing in these situations.. I dont recomment telling her something u dont mean just to make her feel good.. if you just like her as a friend then tell her so.. If you want more but not now tell her that also.. Goodluck
  6. if people lie about it.. maybe its because they want the most number of girls flirting with them.. how to know if he is lying ? you will know from his actions.. Ignore his words, see his actions..
  7. well, its a good sign.. but i cant understand why she looked at you in this strange way.. dont rush things yet.. take ur time.. make sure she is interested.
  8. its seems like it is a difficult situation.. you like her.. but she doesnt seem to think of you more than a friend.. ok now listen.. Since she has a bf there is nothing really you can do.. you have to be her friend now.. if you can do that !! when she is single.. you can take it step by step.. if she really likes her bf, then thats it.. if its just a relationship which will pass.. then wait till it pass.. but NOW you dont have anything to do.. leave her, just be nice to her.. dont scare her.. and also dont be so needy.. Goodluck
  9. hi , well if he is happy with her gf now.. you cant tell him ur feelings now.. u dont wanna be the one to ruin thier relationship.. just wait when you find that telling him how u feel is the best thing.. until he dont like the girl he is with now and since they are together NOW.. u dont have the right to tell him anything now.. if it is ending.. then wait when it ends.. Also if he wants to be with you and he finds u the best for him.. he will let it happen.. If he is happy with her then forget about it now.. GoodLuck
  10. hi pineapple, i think this could be a personal thing.. it depends from one person to another.. You dont want a bf, other people like to have a bf... some girls could feel them secure and comfortable when they have a bf, other girls dont like this type of commitement.. If you just want to hang out with people from the opposite sex without dating... then its your choice and no problem about it.. maybe you feel its not the time.. then you know yourself better than i do.. think and do of what you feel comfortable..
  11. Hi Actually i dont like this internet stuff too. but anyways, i think maybe ask your few male friends to help you.. i mean you can go out with them and see other people.. They also could know any other friends that you can find them interesting.. i wish you goodluck man..
  12. well, its seems like you like her so much.. But first let me tell you that you didnt make a mistake when you took care of other people's feelings.. However u took alot time in this process.. If i was in your place, i was going to be with the girl i like.. Its nothing wrong when you and the girl you like get together.. I know you cared for the other girl's feelings.. but dont let it affect your relationship with the girl you like.. I know its late for telling you so.. but i believe that you can be together again.. You and her liked eachother.. Good.. then try to make things better.. she could just see you as a friend now... i know but it will TAKE TIME.. Iam not going to tell you play games.. but try getting close to her as u were before.. It will take longer time to be in the same spot again and it wont be easy for you to see her with another guy.. but forget this guy now.. its about you and her.. Since you are already now in the friends zone you cant just jump to more than that in the moment.. Due to the mistakes you have done it should take time.. Also dont expect too much.. Just try to have a good friendship without being too needy for sure.. Just be someone who she likes and respect.. and show that you dont need anything more from her.. Dont think about the results you will get.. Forget about it now and if things going to happen you will realize it in the good time.. Goodluck
  13. its ok you are feeling this way.. To be honest, i feel like this alot.. and i really mean it.. I know its hard to feel this way, but you need to keep going.. I also agree that they are not real friends when they leave you that way... Just have faith and patience.. you can make new friends in college.. now if you feel alone, its ok.. Nothing remains all the time.. Just relax and like yourself.. There are alot of people feeling this way everyday... Try to interact with people more and people will interact with you more also.. nothing comes in day and a night.. its takes time and patience..
  14. hi i dont think you can talk to her at her work place.. First, she wont be able to talk openly and u dont wanna make a scene as u said at the place.. i suggest that u can talk to her out of her work place, maybe after she finishes work or something.. try to talk to her.. just normal talking.. if she is interested she will talk to u more and she will try to make a connection so she would see u again or something... If she is not interested, i think you would be able to understand.. Dont take it soo seriously bec maybe she just likes talking to people specially she has to be nice at her work place.. GoodLuck
  15. well its up to you.. you can tell him and nothing happens.. then its ok.. its your choice.. its no problem sending him, just closing any door for problems.. but its ok..
  16. hi Nothing wrong about it.. You could be shy but in the sametime have confidence.. If you have confidence dont care about shyness and that you never had a BF.. just be yourself and u will find the guy who likes you and you like him..
  17. hi shorty, i can understand how you feel.. You want to show him his true image... I can feel that you want to get it all out of your chest.. but i think you are going to get yourself in more confusing things you dont want to begin again.. If you just dont want him back, so just forget him.. He could answer ur email with something which could make you feel something you dont wanna feel.. so just forget about him and concentrate in making your next relationship with *John* if you like him... Goodluck.
  18. First of all, calm down.. then if he is moving away.. u cant run after him.. if he knows that u like him then u did ur part.. if he continues moving away like this, it doesnt mean he is interested... so just try to get out of this thing smoothly.. take ur time.. if he is interested it should develop and progress alone.. try not to think about it.. so u wont get mad if something didnt happen
  19. yes for sure it means that he is interested in you.. but it could just be an interest.. doesnt necessary means something more than that.. i mean interested in you as a friend... but in general it is a good sign, take it easy
  20. if u like her.. then yes.. and i mean by liking her u really want her.. but if u feel that its not a big deal... then just forget about it..
  21. hi octopus, can u make ur point more clear.. i mean u broke up with him.. ok fine.. now after that he tells u that he likes u ? but he likes another girl more than u.. from what i understood that u and him are getting back.. but he told u he likes this girl more than u .. so what is ur question exactly so i try to help u ..
  22. i agree.. She cant say so except she really means it.. she just started to act soo friendly after i told her.. so i thought she is interested and stuff.. bec she wasnt like that before i tell her and she was sooo friendly.. hmm thanks
  23. hi can a girl who likes you tells u i like u as a friend and cant imagine us being more than friends ? iam saying so coz when i told a girl that i like her she looked so interested and did alot of things that shows that she is interested .... but when i asked her she said so.. what does this mean ?
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