motherhen

When a woman and guy meet, is it wrong to exchange phone numbers on the first day. Is a woman considered "easy" if she gives the guy her phone number? Does the woman need to wait for the guy to see her again and then exchange numbers if asked?

I think if you can be strong enough with help from friends, family etc., and work on making the situation better for you, then he could possibly change. He may see that you are really going to do something about it. It could scare him enough that he doesn't want to lose you and the kids. However, you are not the problem and he shouldn't blame you. He is the one who is suffering on the inside. It could take something drastic for him to ever realize that. You can contact a christian counselor, they are the best! It saved me when I went through my separation and divorce. Also ask them if they offer or know about Divorce Care. Divorce Care is for anyone who is separating or divorcing. You watch counselors on video and they touch on all issues that spark problems in marriages/relationships and teach you how to handle it.

We were talking about things in the past that had happened to both of us. He informed me that he was in a bad car wreck and it almost killed him. He also said that his life was going in a bad direction prior to the wreck and that God allow him to go thru this to wake him up and put him on the right track. He then said that his dad was a pastor of the same demonitation that I belong to. This guy heard someone else asking me where I attended church. Later on during the date is when he brought it up again. He said he had been to my church once since he moved here about 4 months ago but has not been back. He actually said he needed to find a church home because he would like to get involved in working with the youth. After we discussed all this is when I invited him to go. I was actually surprised of his response to go. Who knows he could be a jerk. Regardless he is going to have to make the next move.

I just meet this guy a week ago. We meet at a bar, which I don't like to do. However, I we talked and he ended up asking me out the next night. We went and hung out and talked and really got to know each other. Since the date went well, I envited him to church with me, and he was wiling to go. He told me to call him to get him up. I called him and he never responded. The next day he sent me a text message to say he was sorry, that his phone was turned off because he owed money on his bill and he was upset about it and hoped I had a good day. I responed back to say it was ok and hoped I would see him again sometime. I have not heard from him since. I sent him another message a few days later to say hey and hope he had a safe trip home. I don't want to appear anxious, but was hoping to at least hear from him again. I know he is out of town for the holidays. Would you rule him out or believe that he will call again?

I do have strong feelings for him & I was willing to take the chance & risk a friendship to see where it went. I expressed that to him & now this is what he's done.I thought that's what he wanted.

Hang in there, the right person will come along at the right time.Don't settle for less than what you desire.If you are spiritual, Pray about it.

Male friend from the past has resurfaced into my life.It has been six years since we have spoken.Now that we have reunited,he has expressed his feelings about me.He expressed that he loved me &he was willing to take the chance to see if we could be more than friends.He now wants me to express my feelings about him.Now that I have done so,it appears that he has backed away from me. What should I do?