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  1. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Iam sorry to hear that she has given up.. Its ok life keeps changing fast.. Dont hurt your head by asking too much confusing questions.. Leave what happened behind you and keep going..
  2. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Me personally i dont like this way.. Maybe hang with them as FRIENDS.. But if she dating them for fun, it could have bad consequences..
  3. AlwaysNeedHelp
    If you are sure she loves you as much as you love her.. Keep trying but with calm and respectful attitude..
  4. AlwaysNeedHelp
    huh ? Sorry but can you make your question more obvious.. I dont think i understand it
  5. AlwaysNeedHelp
    " Love her in sex but not in a girlfriend way " Most males likes any woman in a sexual way.. A man and a women normally are attracted to eachother.. But to like someone as a girl friend, he likes her personality as a person, having sex with her AND he can imagine that she is the only women in his life..
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    I think it wasnt a good move that you sneaked into her house.. But as broicua7 said, you should accept what is happening now.. Right now her mom is angry and by pressuring on her more things will get worse.. Leave things now till it calm down.. Appolgize for her mother and try to show your girl that you were wrong.. Be honest with her and calm.. GoodLuck
  7. AlwaysNeedHelp
    when she says you are shy, she means you were shy .. I mean maybe you were touching her for example with a shy behaviour and afraid of exploring her... She said she is fine, however just try to be normal and avoid being nervous.. Were you nervous ?
  8. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Do not confuse yourself.. Do not make it harder on yourself.. Dont try to analyze everything he does and everyword he says.. If it is over for you then forget it.. If you still like him, well thats a different story..
  9. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Yeah i agree you shouldnt think about it too much.. Tell her how you feel and let her decide.. While you are waiting for her answer, you can try to show her how you can be nice to her..
  10. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Hi, I think you should help him by going to a place where you can help people or play sports together for example.. If he needs treatement, then you should let him visit a doctor or something..
  11. AlwaysNeedHelp
    If you are strong enought, keep them somewhere safe.. A place where you usually dont pass by alot.. So you wont have to deal with them anymore and in the same time IF you needed them for any reason, you still have them.
  12. AlwaysNeedHelp
    hi, If you think that you and your ex can get together again without problems, then leave this man before he get hurt...and try to make things better with your ex.. If still like your ex but you cant be with him again in a good and respectful relationship, then be with this man you like and forget your ex..
  13. AlwaysNeedHelp
    yeah, and about you dating alot of men. and just want to hang out with men.. then dont blame him to not stick with you.. Just hanging alot with men could hurt you.. Know what you want.. If you want to just hang out.. then hang out with friends.. If you like a man, have a serious relationship with him.. you cant just ask him to be faithful to you and you just want to hang out with him.
  14. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Hi, Its not good that he said i cant be faithful to you.. But didnt you say you dont want commitement !! I think he meant that since you two are not having a serious relationship with eachother, then he wont be faithful to you.. = he can date anyone else or do whatever he wants.. Because since you are not together seriously and just hanging out together, then you are only friends.. Maybe if you told him that you like him and you want something seriously with him, he would be loyal to you..
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    Hi, I dont want you to get hurt.. Best thing is just forget about him.. If he comes and talk to you, be normal and talk.. If he didnt come then just forget about him.. Dont make it harder on yourself and try to think why did he do this......... Just dont think about him.. Dont worry about something you cant change !!
  16. AlwaysNeedHelp
    If you like her.. then go back to her.. Give her one more chance..
  17. AlwaysNeedHelp
    You dont have a relationshio with her.. You are not close friends.. So what do u want !!! Go sit where you want without explanation.. Just dont be rude..
  18. AlwaysNeedHelp
    hmm thats not enought.. you still need more positive clues.. If you want her back.. try getting close to her again.. be her friend again then take it step by step.. But you could get hurt at the end by this.. its your choice..
  19. AlwaysNeedHelp
    what do you want from her ?
  20. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Its never good to compare yourself to anyone.. Everyone has his good qualities.. Her ex was rich.. Its a good thing but the most important in relationships is love and understanding.. You are in a good position. so be happy.. you dont need to be a millionaire.. or treat her as her ex did.. Since she is happy with you and you are treating her well she will be happy.. About whether she is using you or not.. I dont know how she treats you but doesnt she gives you everything you need ? Is she immersed in her own life or gives time to you only ? Does she shows by her actions that she cares for you and sometimes do favors for you ? If so then she is fine..
  21. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Losing your appetite is normal.. Its because you are nervous.. and you sympathetic nervous system works.. For how to be in this date.. Just be yourself.. I know you hear this alot but it truly works.. I know you love him so much, but you need to be normal.. Just wear something good and dont be afraid..
  22. AlwaysNeedHelp
    If he annoys you by this strange behaviour stop talking to him..
  23. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Ok great.. Thats what i was exactly in.. I dont want you to make the mistakes i've done.. First of all, you are thinking about her too much.. Trying to analyze every word she says.. I used to do this.. DONT DO THAT..Iam saying so because the more you will try to analyze her confusing messages and words the more you will confuse yourself.. and you wont reach any result in the end.. You will stay confused.. I also used to analyze every word the girl i like says.. Iam like that since more than 6 months.. and till now i have no explanation.. So forget about what she do if she is confusing.. Do not put yourself in one of her mindgames.. Second thing, ask her.. There is nothing wrong in asking her instead of confusing yourself... Ask her and tell us what she said !! and observe her actions before and after you tell her.. yes there is alot of good signs.. But i learned the hard way that some girls are crazy.. No offense but i believe there are alot of girls doesnt think in a mature way.. So you can wait a little bit more and see if she is going to be more clear about her intentions.. If she keeps confusing you.. I suggest asking her and telling her your feelings.. and see what she is going to say.. Again dont think about her too much.. Dont show that you are thinking about her all the time.. Tell her yes.. but be normal.. If you need more help dont hesitate to ask..
  24. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Just enjoy ur time now... I hope you two meet again somewhere in time..
  25. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Hi Alperionce, Its very nice of you that you want to stay beside her and help her.. If you want to help her just because you want to support her thats good.. Not because you want to change her feelings.. But since she dont want you to support her.. then i think you dont want to push her.. I think you should let her go.. Leave her alone.. She doesnt want the relationship and she doesnt want support.. By other words, she dont want you near her right now.. So do what she wants and leave her..
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