well im a 14 year old, well as im not a girl its not the same, but if the girl and the guy really love each other then there is nothing wrong.i really think that they should wait a year or two before sex,unless the girl is absulutley and positivley ready.to me it seems girls r usally a little more thought out about these kind of things then guys r.but whether or not u believe the law is right (which its not), its still the law so be careful is all i have to say and definetly dont rush her until shes ready.