Clueless111

Well, I wouldnt dump my Boyfriend. I wouldnt cheat on him. For some reason...well . I wanted to be friends with my crush. Then the more I thought about talking to him, I developed a crush on him. I havent really talked to him(my crush). I didnt get close with him either. And you didnt answer my 1st question!

I want to make new friends because my other friends from highschool dont talk to me much anymore becaue they work alot or are going to college. I have some friends at work but we dont hang out. I also have a boyfriend, but I want to have friends to hang out with whenever he is with his friends. I try to make my friendship at work go further to hanging out with him/her outside orf work. Then I always seem to have a lost of words when talking to him/her( the awkward silence ). Or they ask for my number but havent called me. I feel like im not interesting enough. or maybe I should talk more. Any advice. Also I have a crush on a guy and I have a BF! I love my Bf very much and we have been together for about a year and a half. I find myself thinking about my crush all the time. He also has a girlfriend and has been with her for awhile. So now I feel gulity about having a crush on the guy when I have a boyfriend. I want to be friends with my crush, but he is wicked quiet with people. Yea, out of topic.Sorry.

Well My Ex Bf, whom I dumped becasue he was a total jerk( he was gonna cheat on me , made me spend money, rude to me) aplolgized to me. Well in school he was himself then he started to act nice to me and was talking to me. Well he randomly asked me to hang out, but I already had plans. Well , to be honest...I wasnt going to hang out with him anyway. After he asked to me hang out he asked me what my parents think about him.I told him that they are mad at him for what he did to me. Then he apologized..."Im sorry". After that he was kinda akward, but still friendly. Well he is now dating the girl( for about a week now), and the thing is I dont get his motive. Hes with this girl(that he was gonna cheat on me with) and hes slowly getting back to me in a relationship. What does this mean?

Today I talked to a guy friend whom I havent seen in a long time becasue we go to different schools etc. Well today he was being friendly and we are still friends, nothing lost. But an odd thing is he asked me what I was doing over vacationand I said "Nothing just working" and then he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I said yes and then he didnt say anything after that. I dont want to blunly ask himto hang out becasue we havent talked in awhile, but he asked me and didnt really finish it. What is a good way to approach and ask him without looking werid.

No I did break up with him today but now hes talking about me behind my back!

Well I finally broke up with my Bf. I wasnt a jerk to him he was a jerk to me for 2 months. He started getting demanding and moody and made me buy things...etc.Well A couple weeks ago he called for a break, then a week after he tolde me he wants to wait in May so that wehen we graduate. Then I Found out that he was interesded in another girl when we are still kinda going out. that was a stab t". I tthen he told me he was going to do the same thing. He was happy for awhile but then now he seems kinda sad and I feel bad kinda. Wek my heart, him liking another girl. Today he found out that hshe likes him also. So I was talking to him and he was bitter and then was trying to blow off our plans, so i told him"its over". Well He took it weel for awhile and now he quiet around friends and now i feel bad.

My bf and I are on a "Break" and HE decided to hang out a few days and the toher das spend them by ourselves. Well I wanted to pick another day so when I get out of work sothat we wouldnt see each other too little or too much. When I told him he said "fune, its like you cant se me opne day or you get a heart attck", and I woldnt see him for 2 other days! gosh1q I dont want to let him chose the the days and I dotn do anything. Now hes kinda annoyed at me, even though we hang out. whHhow can I get him to not be annoyed at me?

Ok well heres an update. I guess we are still dating but we are friends, but we hang out only a few days a week for a month. But in school he acts like we are just friends and is kinda touchy(doesnt talk much, I ask him a questin he answers"I dont know". We hung out last night and everything was fine. Now today he hasnt even smiled at me or friendly. He told me today that we are likes friends but only dating, I am guessing he means like not really serious like we had been . He wants it like that for a month(break.) Should I fall for it or leave him.

Ok, well my Bf kinda broke up with me today over nothing. Well we are on a "break". The reason is becasue we got in an argument at school and my friends were making it seem lie I was the cause. Well from my last post I told you that my Bf is mean at times. Well he changed for a bit and then went back to being mean and tolday he was being really mean to me. Anyways my friends told me to shut up, and I got mad becasue none of them would stick up for me. kinda freaked out,but all I did was yell. When I got back to lunch after being consoled, my Bf didnt sit next to me. Then he told me that we are on a break. He told me the real reason, Because I freaked out for no reason. He told me we will get back together in a month, he tried to change it to later, but I told him that "Well you promised this and now your changing it." Now my friends dont like me and my Ex bf is acting shady. I feel so depressed. what should I do?

Anyways we have been dating for almost 9 months. We did take about a month and a half break from each other, and about 4 months ago we started dating again. Well it was all good until the past month he has been very mean and moody to me. He yells at me over small things and turns everything into an argument. Now hes slowly starting to ignore me.The other day,I walked in before class started and he didnt say anything to me, but when our friend came in he got in a big greet with him. I jokingly said "hey you didnt say Hi to me"(I always joke about things) and he said "shut up and stop being jelous" Now he thinks that im jelous about everything. And he requested to take 2 days off away from me for now on, I didnt have any say or opinon on it. I dont know what to do he makes me cry everyday but when I try to break up with him I feel like I still love him. What should I do?

Ok from my last post- link removed Its the same guy. I havnt talked to him, he hasnt talked to me. Today at my work( grocery Store) his Girlfriend and sister were in the store with him. Well I happened to look over at them, well out of nature, not really staring or anything. Then when I get home I get an Email from his Gf ( we all have this Email thing Website, (link removed)where you have your friends on a friends list and you talk to each other. She wrote to me- don't ever look at me the way you did today again. i'll mess you up and don't think i won't. i don't owe you anyhting. adams mine and you'll never have him so get over it Haha...shes 16 IM 18. I cant fight her if I wanted to, its illigal. But I blocked her so she wont write to me again and I didnt write back. I am worried that something worse will happen. It seems liuke shes kinda crazy, Emailing me about looking at her and bringing up her BF?! Well do you have any advice? SHould I Email her back or just Ignore her.

I just think he backed off becasue of the whole question and my answer. Yea and he told me that hes not that shallow...yea right. lol.

Haha, yea. I dont think I will talk to him. Now I feel dumb because an hour ago i wrote him a Email- " Well I guess your apology didnt mean much....whatever." but I dont think he read it. haha hes a weirdo.

Ok well...this is so odd, like yea Im embarrased to post this. I have too many stupid things happen to me in relationships that I just want to give up on dating/serious relationships for a long time. Anyways....It started that a guy that my friend Jess is friends with with had a crush on me, and I have a crush on him. He tells my friend he has a crush on me etc, and she tells him that I have a crush on him. We talk online about every other night and its going good. Well he has a Gf and he doesnt really want to be with her, but he is planning on breaking up with her. He tells me how much he likes me and how he wants to hang out and stuff...lol. Anyways, then came a week later while talking online. He starts asking me if Im a virgin (we are both in highschool) and personal things it kinda buged me but I only gave him one word answers. Then he asked me the most embarrassing question "do you shave your...." and yea make a guess, and it doesnt have to do with legs or armpits...haha. So I didnt really pay attention to the question and I wrote "No". Then I read back to it and thought, "Oh crap, why did I answer!" So then he kinda thinks im werid because he thinks that girls should Shave because its healthy and he said " I dont know if its good or bad that you dont..." and saying that he thinks of me differently. So i kinda felt badly and he was telling me that he likes me the same, just that he thinks its different. So then later it still kinda bothered me so I told him that, I never had anyone ask me personal questions like that. Also that I was disappointed with him because I thought he was a great guy. Then he starts to apologize, and say things like " I don't want to lose you as a friend or more" " I like you A LOT" and " I don't want to screw this up" " I hate myself for asking you those questions" and he apologized many times. So I accepted his apology. So anyways, I see him a couple days later and he is less friendly/talkative than usual. Today online, I emailed him a friendly "hi" and he only wrote back a brief letter like "yea..same".Usually he would write me something right away and today he hardly made an effort to talk to me. My question is should I just lose this guy. I feel bad because I liked him a lot and now its ruined because of a stupid thing. But also he kinda was a Pinhead...any advice?