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You'd sent her a valentine's card on the 14th, and she'd responded on the 14th. You've text messaged her and you'd waited for a day already. That is not a long time! You've got to have some patience. Like the other poster said don't contact her let her contact you. I think you've done your part, if she seriously is interested she'll try to contact you.
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I've bought a subliminal tape before. I'd used it for about a month, but I didn't see any improvements so I'd quit using it. But I really do think that some affirmation tapes out there could really bring in some positive changes, but I doubt all of them could do the job well. For my case maybe I just didn't listen long enough. I don't know.
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What is a polite way to tell someone they stink?
enotjcalone replied to Altoidbox's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
I once had to tell someone that they had a horrible stench. Let me tell you it was real real hard to say it, cuz I was soo afraid of hurting the person's feelings. But for the sake of my sanity I had to. The person fortunately didn't really seem offended. That person didn't even know there was a horrible smell coming from his/her body, though the person hardly ever, ever bathes! Just tell the person already if you haven't, since he is living in your house. This guy's got to be real inconsiderate of others or real stupid. Come on how many people wouldn't stink if they bathe that irregularly. -
How about shaving it all off when the receding gets worse, or maybe try Rogaine treatment or hair transplants?
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need help to understand what was she implying??
enotjcalone replied to Massari's topic in Dating Advice
It seems like she likes you. Yes you should ask her out on a date. -
Maybe she'd be free in the future, but for the time being definitely move on.
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If you see her as marriage material, then there's a lot to think about. Are you willing to maybe never have children of your own together, willing to be a stepfather etc. But if you know for sure you will not marry her then the kids shouldn't be that much of a problem. Go for it then.
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Do research at the library? Do you have the internet? There's plenty of info. on the net that could help you with weight loss. But if you don't you could try eating lower in fat, and substitute more vegetables and fruits into your meals. Maybe do some weight training to get more buffed. You should really try to stop being so jealous all the time and instead be inspired to look better. If he's your friend you should be happy that he's happy with his looks. Maybe he could help you with getting fitter? You could always rid excess hair. It's not that big of a problem. Buy some wax or some hair removal products in the beauty section of stores. If you don't like your friends, get new ones. Just be talkative and friendly to other people and you'll make friends in no time.
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You said you want to save your relationship. Have you really thought hard about this? What are the reasons you still want to be with her? You guys have broken up many times. Consider that maybe it really is time to break it off for good, and maybe you could date another girl that is more compatible with you? You could still be her friend if it works out. But if you really want to get back with her then call her up. Ask her if she genuinely wants to get back with you cuz you said her feelings might have changed a bit for you. Even though your relationship is soo very important to you, you really can't grasp onto relationships too tightly. With any relationship you've gotta give it some slack. Stop being overpossessive it could only result in the opposite of what you want happening. 8)
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I really don't like it when someone goes, "Oh you can't possibly be in love you're too young," or "You haven't known the person long enough." I don't think it's dependent on how old you are or how long you've met someone at all. I think a person's in love when they genuinely care immensely for another. Imagine if the person grew fat or somehow lost some of their physical beauty would you still love him or her. I feel when a person's genuinely in love they would be willing to go the distance and do pretty much anything to make the other happy.
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I think everyone once in a while probably feels unacknowledged. But don't let that pull you down or upset you. Don't sweat about it. Just don't take it too personally, cuz sometimes when you feel ignored others were probably unaware that they made you feel bad.
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Confused about love...
enotjcalone replied to ScatteredPieces's topic in Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender
Well maybe you could plan a sooner get together? If you miss her than communicate with her more. There's no use in wasting your thoughts on how much you long for her. Instead fantasize about the good times ahead. In the meantime try to keep busy doing other things to distract yourself. Spend more time with your other loved ones to release some of your loneliness. -
Since your friend said she has a good personality, does he know her? Then maybe your friend and you could both go up to her start talking to her. Start off by saying hi and telling her your name and then ask hers. Tell her I see you around school all the time, I'm wondering what classes you have. Just make small talks about school or anything else you like. Don't sweat about it. Just talk to her like as if she already is a close friend of yours.
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Sometimes the harder you try the further the thing runs away from you. Give it a break for now. Give adequate time for her anger to subside and then try again later.
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Somedays i wish i were dead then been born a male
enotjcalone replied to Shinobie's topic in Emotions and Feelings
You just have to hang out with different guys. There's got to be some nicer guys out there. Also you don't necessarily have to get a girlfriend, just get lots of friends that are girls instead. But warning a lot of girls have very annoying horrible traits about them too. But of course there are a load of nice ones. -
Nah I don't think when a girl plays with her hair really means anything. I agree with naecha they could be having a bad hair day, and be just fixing their hair.
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Like you, and probably most people, I often wonder what this life is really about too. It's a strange existence alright. Anyway you've got to change the way you see yourself. A bad self image is such a horrible thing. Why don't you find things to do to empower yourself. Like maybe go and accomplish something that you know you'd feel very proud if you succeeded in. In my case whenever I learned something new or achieved something it makes me feel sooo much better about myself. So I suggest you go achieve this, achieve that, go achieve everything! You'll feel so empowered! Well at least for me. Don't be inactive in your life. Lethargy just gives you all the time in the world to focus on all that doom and gloom. Get up and go out do something new by yourself then if you haven't got anyone to hang with. Don't be reliant on others to provide you company, go out and find your own fun. (just kidding about the picture)
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I'm not sure if you tried meditation but if you haven't give it a try. It could really help in generating a more peaceful mind. But you gotta do it regulary for weeks and months. You'll have less unnecessary mind chatter. Proper meditation tapes could really help for beginners. Also since you said you're not really sure where that anger comes from maybe during quiet contemplation you'd be able to figure out the source. Then during that time of clearer thoughts you'd more likely be able to come up with more efficient ways of processing your anger and your feelings. In the meantime start repeating peace, peace, peace... repeatedly for minutes at a time nonstop whenver you feel angry. I don't know if you'd believe in this or not but it really does help.
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How many times did you notice her look at you? You know how sometimes you just kind of gaze off into space but you're not really looking at someone. Someone could actually mistaken that as staring at them when they're really not. Could it be that? Or if she really did stared at you cuz she likes you then maybe you could befriend the friends she hangs with. Then you could start off by saying hi to her and doing some polite talks, and see where you go from there.
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[[ color=green]Well you're only 13 your bfriend probably isn't much older. Maybe he is just seriously shy. On your part you could try to be more affectionate towards him. Maybe that be enough encouragement for him to become more affectionate with you.
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You know what just do it. Stop with all the planning. Just call her up and maybe ask her out for a date. Just say I'm thinking of doing, or going wherever, and I just called to see if you might want to go with me. Something like that I guess. If she rejects you, so what. Many guys have probably been rejected before. Even if she does rejects you that doesn't mean that she doesn't like you, she could just be shy.
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I think maybe you should just continue being her friend and that's it. Since she has a boyfriend and she know's she can't get with you. Maybe she's just the type that's only interested in what she just can't get. In the meantime why not have fun, flirt, date other single girls. Wait till she's single again and then pursue her.
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Hi Kevin! It's all very simple she likes you. Like you said if someone's not interested in someone they wouldn't spend ALL their time looking at them. Maybe the next time she keeps on eyeing you, you could give her a smile, or when you walk past her hold her gaze and just say hi. I wouldn't make any major moves or anything. Play it cautious. Keep us updated.