gaucho10

Hey, How about being plain honest? Something like : "Just wanted to say hi to you. We've be EC'ing each other since .... and I thought it was time to come over and say 'hi' to you.... Grts

sorry... that should be " at that point she went over to the coffee table " ......

Would this one work at the coffee table, a certain day she was watching me and at that point i went over to the coffee table. Is it true that they wouldn't see it that personal as if i were to ask her 'I' would like to 'date' her.

Hey, Sometimes she leaves her table for a coffee, guess that would be a great situation for a first short chat. Any coffee jokes??? Should I go for the 'date' right away, or just have some small talk the first time? Maybe go for it on a second conversation. Thx

up... sorry

Hey, Thx for the response. I know I will have to go up and talk to her, and that I really can't wait much longer. But should I go talk to her/friend, it's really hard to talk with her in the cafetaria, but I wouldn't wanna wait by her car or so. It's so 'stalker'. Is it a good idea to first talk to her friend? And when talking to her, should I be fast about asking her out, or rather talk it up a little and maybe waiting for the next conversation to ask. Greets Kevin

Hi, Since I'm a newbie and have a little situation going, I thought I'd ask over here what to think/do about it. First let me tell something about me. I'm a 26 year old, average-to-good looking, do lots of sports. So, here it comes. At work the colleagues and me always go to the cafeteria in the building next door, where some other companies are settled. The last couple of months, there is a very nice-looking girl who 'gazes' at me. I've never spoken to her, since I haven't had the luck to, by accident, be next in line with her when waiting for our meal. It's also hard for me to just go over and talk to her, while she is enjoying her meal with some of her colleagues. Now, if and when she is watching me, and our eyes lock, she isn't the type that looks away, and she can hold the 'lock' for about 3 secs. Also, I've noticed her sometimes, while in a conversation with her friend(also very good-looking), she nevertheless is watching me. Now, don't understand me wrong, she is not looking for like a full hour, but rather let's say in that hour some 10 times. Last week it was really going through the roof, we were constantly looking. So, when we (me & colleagues) finished our dinner, I took my plate and had to pass her. Since I'm not an artist at carrying dinner plates, I had to keep my eye to the plate. Though, the last split-second I passed her, I looked down to her, and saw that she, while talking to her friend, was looking to me. Now I was already too far for her to see me, I was past her view-field. This week, yesterday, I specifically chose not to look at her for like the first 5-10 minutes, as I wanted to see if it is always me who initiated eye-contact. Though, after those 10 minutes, I noticed that she was, again, looking in my direction for a few times (6 times on 20 minutes or so). Today, she was sitting at a table in front of me, like 2 meters away from me, with her back to me. After a few minutes and noticing me, she, instead of sitting straight on her chair, talked to her friend by sitting cross on the chair. Also, my friend told me she was looking behind her frequently. Now, to my newbie-brain, I'm thinking of 2 possible situations. Either she's fond of me, or either she's thinking of me as a 'ruthless' bastard. But in the latter, wouldn't a woman not spend her time on someone she dis-likes??? If and when I decide to go for it, I have 2 possibilities : going straight to her, or going to have a chat with her friend and see how it goes.... Now, what is this situation like? Greets, Kevin PS. The only reason I haven't gone up and talk to her is that she is do damned pretty .....