ricci

(this is long, but very important, plz gimme some advice!) ok, where do i start? me and my girl have been goin out for almost 2 years now, like all relationships it has its ups and downs. There were alot of times where i thaught "shes the one" and alot of times which we had those silly break ups. Im not gonna make her look bad or only give u my side, but basically im a very overpossesive person with her, but thats ONLY because i cant handle the thaught of losing her, so the smallest things can trigger a reaction from me, and this is causing alot of arguments with us recently. On xmas Eve i read a sms on her mobile phone which said "i really miss u, i cant wait for u 2 be mine". from a guy (obviously). this crushd my heart into billions of pieces, because as we all know, a guy wouldnt say stuff like that, unless the girls flirtin a bit 2. she had only known him for 1 week. I was unbelievably hurt so we broke up, then she came out with all the promises that she'll never speek 2 him again, and all that stuff. And i gave her the benefit of the doubt, and i took her back. Its been....2/3 weeks now, and things r still a bit dodgy. Last nite, i found out he had contacted her again. She deleted a sms in her mobile phone before i could read it and claimed that he was askin for one of her friends numbers. I trusted her and i believed her. But what she doesnt understand (correct me if im wrong) is..... when a guy causes the biggest argument of your relationship and causes us to break up, and make her break my heart,.......how cud u possibly stay in contact with a person like that? We've broken up now. about an hour ago. I dont want to break up wid her, but i dont see another choice, because im really not happy with the relationship, shes started university this year, whereas i start next year, and shes made alot of new friends, and her attitude to our relationship has changed a bit, i just feel like shes not the same way she used to be towards me. i used to be her everything just how she is mine. but thats all changed, or thats how it feels. i cant really tell her how i feel, because we always end up getting into arguments because shes always trying to come up wid excuses for her actions and im always trying to justify mine. Its a matter of trust and my insecurity, i already know that, i wanna make the relationship better, but its always ME doin the hardwork. I just want help from anyone, just so i can save my relationship. PLZ help.....GREATLY appreciated!!

ok well, ive been thinkin ALOT recently probly 2 much, but not enough lol. Basically, i havent been loyal 2 my gf who ive been with for just over 2 years, it all started at university, with 2 girls, im currently 19, the 1st one, was more serious to the extent of a sexual nature, and the 2nd one is just flirting, but we both are aware that theres "something" there. My gf isnt exactly a saint, shes the most jealous girl i know, and she feels that she can have alot of guy friends, whereas im not allowed to have many female friends, she cant stand the thaught of me even having simple friendly fun with another girl, i guess you could say that she loves me 2 much, but im not sure. Theres been times where her guy friends who i KNOW are attracted to her call her almost everyday and the way she talks to them, is very flirty and giggly. Im also a very jealous person, but aslong as she makes it clear to the guys that she has a bf and is not interested, the guys shouldnt call right? well she decides to lead them on i guess. and when i get annoyed or upset, she always makes me feel like im the guilty one, even though all of my female friends are aware of my relationship. Now, im thinkin....if u REALLY love someone, like i think i love my gf, you wouldnt be unloyal to them would you? or is it possible to love one....and also be with another? im so confused, i cant stand the thaught of being without my gf, but i cant stand the thaught of her flirting with other guys, and i just want to know how can i be so sure that i really do love her? Please help. Thankyou Ric.

thx alot everyone.PHEW!! lol

hi, im gettin a bit worried, coz 2day i came, and i had my own cum on my finger but i dried it off (didnt wash it) and then about 30 mins/1 hour later i fingered my gf. now.....can she get pregnant like that?? plz help!!

i wanna really please my girl, but whats the difference from rubbin a girls clit? and rubbin her g spot?? can u still make a girl cum from rubbin her clit?? PLEAZE help!!!!!!

can u actually still give her an orgasm without goin under the underwear?!? wow...theres one to try.

yo wassup man, i aint a girl but i can still help man, all i can say is, be nice to her...make her laugh....best thing to do is be yourself, and if she dont like that...then it aint worth it anyway.

everytime i kiss my gf, i go hard, i know this is normal at first, but we've been together for about 5 months now/and it happens EVERYTIME, will it stop? is there any way of preventing it? coz its REALLY embaressing. PLZ help. thx