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  1. HaloDestroyer
    I got a baby snake a few months ago. It's already starting to develop character, but it just reminds me of how much emotion dogs can actually express.
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    I have self-harmed. What would you like to know? P.M. me.
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    Tell him all of what you just told us!! Hope this helps...
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    You proved to her that you cared. She might have been mad at what you said, but when she calms down, she'll realise that you were only trying to help. Hope this helps...
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    Oh, so now you're picking my posts apart? I'm only kidding, but seriously... I understand those things COULD happen. It was my opinion, no need for an argument. Yes, she has every right to her 20%. But has anyone actually said that she can't have it? I'm sure the boyfriend has a good reason for doing whatever he has done. Hope this helps...
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    I think you're wrong to accuse your own b/f of fraud/money laundering!! As long as you both have access to the money, and no-one gets hit by a bus, stop taking it so seriously. A war veteran once said to me; If you stop in life to count the blades of grass, you miss the beautiful, blue skies; the deep, glinting oceans; the awesome mountain ranges; and, most importantly, the chance to see any of it again. Is your relationship worth that 20%? Please answer me that. Hope this helps...
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    Iceman's a pro, no need to build on what he says. Hope this helps...
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    Hey Foxlocke... I have an 8 year old Springer Spaniel, who is having a ton of trouble going to the toilet. They think it might be a growth in his rectum, and he has been diagnosed with cancer as a result. This dog has been my best friend for the past decade... I've known him longer than all my other friends. I named him. I play games with him. He's a good pal. His little face lights up when I come home, and the feeling I get in my heart when I see that look is rivalled only by the look I get from my girlfriend when she sees me... If he dies, I don't know what I'm going to do. I feel like you do already, and he's still here!! Someone has smashed my heart with a sledgehammer. P.M. me if you want to talk. Hope this helps...
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    Haven't you already posted a thread like this... He has a girlfriend, and in my honest opinion, that's the end of that. Hope this helps...
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    Hi!! First off, let me welcome you to the eNotAlone forums. Sorry it has to be under such grim tidings, friend... Listen, are those really your only two options? I mean, you make it seem like you are trapped there. Can't you go stay with a friend, or just plum move away?! About Vietnam. I am currently working on a thesis as to the effect the Vietnam war had on the moral and mental conditioning of the troops that fought there. You can't blame your dad for suffering. Bad, horrific things went on out there, daily. What you can do, is get him some help. The chances are, he's started to realise that his drinking is affecting his family, and his way of life. Maybe you could just talk to him? Or... get a councellor? Just ideas... Hope this helps... P.S. Could you please double-space your messages next time? It would make it a lot easier to read for the rest of us!! Thanks!!
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    He's taken!! How would you like it if you were in a happy relationship, and all of a sudden, another girl comes along, and tries to force your boyfriend to be with her instead?! I would advise you to back off immediately, and find some other past-time until your mind is completely clear of this boy. Hope this helps...
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    In my honest opinion, I would cease to focus on 'Lisa' (She obviously just was not interested - fair enough, you can't win all the time, right?!). Instead, I would go straight to 'Sara', and tell her exactly how you feel. This would clear everything up in her mind, and maybe you could start to build something on this. It depends on whether she is taken or not, but it is the only honest and honourable thing to do, in my mind. Hope this helps...
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    The first time I saw a female climax, it scared the crud out of me!! She grabbed the bedsheets hard, and shook quite violently!! But then again, every girl is different. You just have to trust, and have as much fun together as you can!! Hope this helps...
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    Firstly, welcome to the eNotAlone forums!! This man is putting out all the right signals!! He seems to have sensed that you've got some sort of inhibition, and is working around that. He sounds like a gentleman, and the sort of person who will work with you to overcome your problems, whatever they are... In my honest opinion, what you should do is confide in this person. Tell him what's wrong with you, and tell him honestly how you feel about him. By the sound of it, he will understand, and want to help in any way he can!! And about the kissing... You should try starting it with him!! If you psyche yourself up, and take the plunge (So to speak!!), it'll become easier, the more often you do it. It'll also let him know of your intentions... Hope this helps...
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    Have you told him? I mean, the simple thing would be to have a talk with him, alone, and just say that you're unhappy. Tell him that you feel his hobby is infringing on your relationship, and that you're scared. If he is worth his salt, he will listen and act appropriately. A few years ago, I was clinically addicted to a computer game. I spent 16-22 hours a day, on the same game. A concoction of anti-depressants and other medications allowed me release. My point is, that it can become more than a hobby!! I still play 2-3 hours a night, even though I don't really have the time. You need to make it clear, right now, that you feel threatened by the computer games. Hope this helps...
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    First off, welcome to the eNotAlone forums. I'm just sorry it has to be under such... painful... conditions... There was a thread recently, where one member suggested that one may never get over a break-up, until they find someone else to love. I may not remember the exact ins-and-outs, but the theory is sound. You need to let go. You can't spend your life chasing a girl who'll use you, and hurt you, over and over again. I know that sounds harsh right now, but it's the absolute, honest truth. You must let go as soon as possible. While I think that there is some truth in the theory I mentioned, about not being able to get over one love until you have another, I don't believe it is restricted to emotional love between two human beings... For example. I am a guitarist. I don't just play guitar, though. I love guitar. I love the sound of it, the look of it, and the feel of it. I love making music, and I can get lost for hours in scales and rhythms... You need to find something you can love, equally. A hobby, or a pet, or whatever you want! It'll help to take your mind off the pain, and also meet new people, who are interested in the same things as you!! Hang in there buddy, I know it's tough, but don't let one bad girl ruin your opinion of them all. Hope this helps...
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    In the words of the infamous metal band, SlipKnot; People=S***!! Are you happy with the way you look? If you are, don't let what other people say get to you. You're happy, and that's all that matters!! If you're not, then change!! It's not impossible!! About being successful; just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, success is in the eyes of those who desire it. Note, this does not mean they neccessarily have it!! Is your mom successful? The rest of your family? Tell her to stop judging you by comparison to others, and to start looking at you as an individual!! Hope this helps...
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    If you had a fun time at the bar, roll with that, dude!! Invite her out for a drink, but this time just on her own. Go out, and find a quiet-ish wine bar somewhere, and just have a chat. Get to know her better, and she'll think about you more!! Hope this helps...
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    I totally agree with everything red10 is saying. You're allowed to be scared. You're also allowed to act in self-defense for yourself, and others who are not in a position to defend themselves. Do this, if not for yourself, but for your family as a whole. It *WILL* get better. Hope this helps...
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    Hi guys... If you've been following, my g/f was recently really put off sex by cystitis. Since, we've had sex a few times, but always gently, and with lubrication... it's all she can stand. She does get wet after we've been going awhile, but at the start, she tends to rely a lot on the lubrication... What I'm after is something to really get her going... I regularly get her to orgasm through oral sex, but if I do this, she's usually to tender to have intercourse afterwards!! :splat: I need people out there to tell me how to get her really, soaking wet, through foreplay, please? I mean, I could before, but now she's still slightly afraid of sex, she never gets wet until after we've started. Some tips please, preferably from the ladies out there, but I know the men may have some good ideas too!! Thanks in advance!!
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    Maybe family/child services are the best thing, long term? I don't know without hearing it out fully, but... think about it... Hope this helps...
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    I've got plenty of ideas!! *Mwahahaha!!* But seriously, I didn't mean force him. I just meant, be a little more direct in telling him what you want!! I agree with Mun, in that he *might* do it when he's ready. But what if he doesn't? Hope this helps...
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    Don't talk for two hours? I usually limit my phone conversations with my g/f to about an hour, unless we're really engaged in some subject or another. This is to avoid the silences, which in turn, could lead one or both of you to thinking that there is something wrong with the communication in your relationship, when, infact, there is not. You've just said everything there is to say!! Hope this helps...
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    No, not at all! Again, I was in a similar postion (We really have to stop agreeing like this, lmfao ;-)) with my girlfriend. My parents are not phased, as I've had g/f's before, and when I brought her home, they just did the obligatory polite thing, and now she's perfectly happy with coming over to my house (She stays every weekend, we sleep in the same bed, etc. etc.). However, I was her first boyfriend. She is also from a fairly big (6 siblings!!) family, and is the eldest girl. I didn't meet her parents until about 2 months into the relationship. She wasn't sure whether they'd like it, and she was nervous about me meeting her dad (Who is, understandably, protective of his girls!!). I'm not sure about your boyfriend's situation, but I wouldn't worry about it. We (Me & my g/f) still spend the majority of our time at my house anyway, just because we both find it comfortable. You're bound to meet them eventually. But if it gets to 5 months, and you're still in the dark, I would start to get slightly more pushy. They haven't met you, so how the heck do they know whether they like you or not?! Hope this helps...
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    red10, congrats on the 100!! Apart from this, I totally agree with your advice. Good Charlotte (such bad music *Sigh*!!), take heed and listen. The posters have given you good ideas, but the only one who can put a stop to this, at the end of the day, is you. Hope this helps...
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