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  1. HaloDestroyer
    Hey!! I'm in a loving relationship, with the perfect girl... However, for the past 2 days, I have not been able to attain a full erection. And any partial erection I get is not hard or solid enough for exual intercourse... What the HECK is happening to me!! I'm only 18!! One day it worked, the next it didn't... I really feel like less of a man because of it. *Sigh*
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    The whole of the soundtrack to 'Labyrinth'!! Hope this helps...
  3. HaloDestroyer
    Has to be spiders. I'm afraid of nothing, apart from spiders, and my girlfriend when she gets mad!! Lmfao!! Hope this helps...
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    Well, that wasn't very nice of her, was it?! Seriously though, it sounds like she's using you. Fair enough, you guys tried it on, and she screwed with your head. Now, she's suddenly your 'best friend' all over again, and is basically inviting you out places because she has no-one else to go with? My theorum, anyway. Hope this helps...
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    Hi there!! Firstly, let me be the first to welcome you to eNotAlone. May you find the advice you seek, and bestow your experience upon others in need. Right, second, 14 is wayyyyyy too young to be worrying about a girlfriend. I know it feels like everyone's got one, but don't let the pressure get to you. In a couple of year's time, the chicks'll be fighting to keep their hands off you!! Thirdly, if you really want to talk to this girl, badly, I'd advise you to pick some common ground. Something that you're both interested in, or mainly, that's she's interested in. That way, she'll be the one doing the talking, and you can do the listening. Hope this helps...
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    I have no problem pleasuring her normally!! I just need the things that turn you guys on the most, to check that I've tried it or not!!
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    Take it a step further. She'll tell you whether she wants anything else or not... Hope this helps...
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    Darketernal is very much correct. However much you want to keep a friendship with an ex, one side always turns bitter, even if the other isn't. It's much better, in the long-run, to end any contact. This way, you have no chance of endangering new relationships. You could also wait awhile before engaging in any new relationships, so the ex is completely out of your head. Hope this helps...
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    Yeah, they're evil like that. Scout's right, man. You show interest in other girls, and she'll either come to, and start chasing you, or you'll get the chance to go with another girl, and move on. Hope this helps...
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    Hey, friend... Firstly, welcome to the eNotAlone forums. Sorry it has to be under such grim tidings... The answer is, no, no, and yes. No, you're not wrong to feel like this. My girl had only ever kissed 2 guys before me, and I was still pissed as hell inside. It's like, someone has invaded your territory. You just have to accept that they are gone. However, in your case, where they're still around, you really need to put your foot down. Group dynamics my as*!! Tell her to get new friends, she has no right to still have contact with these people when she says she wants a completely new relationship with you... No, you shouldn't have to be put in this position. In my honest opinion (And this is, obviously, all my own opinions!!) you're being too leniant with what she can and can't do. However, some people would disagree; obviously she has her rights. But if it was me, I would make an effort to change lifestyles, so she has no contact with any of these people anymore. Yes, I do have some advice. Make it completely clear that while you can't tell her what to do, you do NOT approve of her socialising with her ex's, and you feel threatened by it. You want her to make an effort to change, somehow. Just my thoughts... Hope this helps...
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    This is a definite N.C. success story. The fact that you could be polite, but not talk to her anymore than you had to? A lot of people could do with hearing this!! Hope this helps...
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    Calm down immediately... He's telling you that he needs space, and you need to give that to him. If you really are concerned that he will choose to leave, or you just really want to hear his voice, call him, and tell him that you're always there for him, whatever he decides. My guess is he will come to the conclusion that you're trying to help, and be supportive, and that he needs you in his life. Hope this helps...
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    Hi, friend... Firstly, let me welcome you to the eNotAlone forums. I hope you find the advice you seek, and in turn, pass your experience to others. I think you should definitely talk to her about it. Communication and trust are founding principles of any relationship, and if you kept this to yourself, you would be violating both these concepts. You have a right to be angry. She did treat you like a fallback, and it was wrong. But you cannot take this anger out on her, unless you want to drive her away. Talk to her politely about how you feel, and if she can't make you feel any better with her reply, I'd have a serious think about how much she takes your for granted. Hope this helps...
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    Firstly, welcome to eNotAlone, friend!! Sorry it has to be under such grim tidings... I disagree with the other posters. My relationship is built on total trust, and one-ness. We tell each other everything, because neither of us has anyone else in our lives. However, she knows that if she ever even looked at another man in that way, I would know instantly, and leave her. And if I looked at another girl, the same would happen. So really it depends on the relationship. If you're comfortable with your g/f looking at other men, then power to you, you're a lot more tolerant than me. However, if you're just putting up with it because you love her, then I think it's time to have a serious talk with her about trust. A crush potentially could develop into something else. All you have to do is search in the infidelity sub-forums on this site to see that. However, equally, it could go nowhere. Unfortuantly, if this was me, that small chance that something *COULD* happen would be way too much for me to handle. Hope this helps...
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    I wish I had the answer to your question, but... I don't. No-one does, friend. The only person who can help you, is you. Though, one thing I will say, is don't try to find yourself. Get lost, and yourself will find you, eventually. However, this is only my honest opinion; it worked for me once, so I suppose it could work for you, in theory. No-one can tell you exactly what to do. All I can say is... I'm sorry. Hope this helps...
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    Congratulations, pianoguy!! I wish you many nice days, and long nights!! Hope this helps...
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    She's slowly shutting you out. This is the most awful thing I've ever had done to me. My advice to you? Tell her, straight to her face. She has to choose right now, between you or him. And if she picks him, you're not going to come crawling back, and you're not going to take her back, it's over. This is the only way that deals with this kind of situation that I know of. Sorry to be the bearer of grim tidings!! Hope this helps...
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    Well, I've been playing nearly 5 years. The band was a light rock band, kinda stereophonics/oasis. That's why I quit, I don't like that music. I play blues, heavy metal, and classic rock mainly. I got a 2005 Fender American Deluxe Series Stratocaster for my 18th birthday... That, and my band had a record deal. So I must be sort of, alright at it? I dunno lol. Yeah, a good way to meet other proper musicians is through a jam night (open mic night). You go along, play a couple of numbers with strangers, and make loads of friends. My advice to you is not to go if you really are crap, though. You just tend to show yourself up!! Another good thing is to visit your local guitar shop. Talk to the guys there, and look at the noticeboards. Bound to be some people wanting to form a band? P.M. me for more!! Hope this helps...
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    I disagree. I think that your boyfriend was going with the flow, so to speak, as were you. However, it sounds perfect. Everyone wishes their first time could be like that, but not many get it. You should be very lucky!! Hope this helps...
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    Sure. I felt that way. I was addicted to heroin, but I felt that way. It gets better. It always does. Don't fret, friend, everything looks up when you hit the rock bottom - it's the only way you can go from there!! P.S., About the band, need a guitarist? Lmfao, I'm looking to quit my recent band (signed). Hope this helps...
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    Puppy hit the nail on the head. Usually, the dumpee will say 'we still had feeling for each', when, in reality, it was you who had the feelings. A one-way ticket. Hope this helps...
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    I went through the same thing a year ago, man. I failed my first year, and switched colleges... Then I started to go downhill again, and now I'm dropping out to get a job... All I can say is, don't get to where I am!! Push harder, and fight that emo streak in you!! (Sorry, your picture tickles me - Me being a long-haired metalhead XD!!) P.M. If you wanna know what I did during those years. Hope this helps...
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    I do that already... I mean... What I need is something that gets you completely soaking wet in bed!! I need sex tips, for a guy who already knows a fair bit, and has tried everything!! Hope this helps...
  24. HaloDestroyer
    Like I said in your last thread, yesterday; How would you like it if he was your boyfriend, and some other girl was trying to lure him away with her? Don't be that girl. Hope this helps...
  25. HaloDestroyer
    It's a Ghost Corn snake. A beautiful little thing. Already bit me, little bugger!!
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