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  1. tough_girl
    Well, I guess you can focus on her when you talk to her. Look her in the eye and make her feel as if she's the only girl in the school. That should make her think you're interested. Start diggin her to show her, you're interested too. Ask about the things she like and etc... Maybe you could conclude it by asking her out. I hope things turn out good for you. Best of luck.
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    Hi there and welcome to enotalone.com, Umm... first of all, I think you're not being fair to two of them. You should choose one of them and stick to it. Don't stand in the middle and hurt both of them. At this situation, you should decide who want and go for it. Going to your ex's house after an argument with your bf doesn't sound reasonable to me. So, if you still want your bf, stay loyal to him. Don't do the things that hurt him. Be more considerate. Apologise to your bf if you still want him back and have decided he's the one you want at the moment. Forgive me for my frankness. Best of luck.
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    I agree with avman that it's not your fault you encounter these guys. The problem is them and not you. Don't stop trying to love. There will always be that special someone who will be there for you when you need him. It's just that you haven't met him. Don't be sad and always remember the quotes below:
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    Cutie, Why are you breaking up with him? Nothing wrong has happened to the relationship yet. You haven't hurt him, so why give it up? Hurting people does not run in the family. You hurt people by your own actions. And you've already hurt your boyfriend by doing that. So don't hurt him. Go back to him and be there for him. Don't give up such a nice relationship for a little fear. I wish you good luck. I hope you do not insist breaking up with him.
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    Well, From your message I only see two things: 1. He had always had another girl. He didn't stop you going because his deepest dream was going to come true. Do you really think he'll be that mad? 2. (nicer to believe) He thinks you're trying to play with him. One moment you don't want him and the next you cherish him. I don't know what to say. After all this is your ex-boyfrined, I'm sure you know better than me. So here's my advise: 1. Forget him. A man that forgets you a day after you broke up is not one you want to keep forever. Love might be a strong barrier but you'll soon learn how to walk and look through it. If you wish to forget him, try taking up some sports to get your mind off him. 2. Call him again and say how sorry you were to act that way. Ask him to forgive you, then have a talk. Discuss the ways to stop you two from arguing. Love is about compromises and feelings. If he has no feelings for you and can't compromise for you, you know what you should do. Forgive me for being straight forward. I hope this has helped you. The decision is yours. Forget him or give it another try. Bear in mind 1. There is no right choice in life. No one is perfect. Life is not perfect but it's our responsibility to live it to the fullest. 2. By preventing, we do not get hurt but by preventing too, we miss out all the peaks of happiness which could have been 3. If you do not take the chance, you'll never know. 4. Better to try and fail rather than live a life of regrets Good luck.
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    Hi there, First of all, Welcome to enotalone.com. Well, don't do anything stupid now or in future. Life has a lot of nice things to offer. Maybe you haven't discover it yet but I'm sure you soon will. Don't give up without trying. It's no big deal being disqualified from the Army. You said that you have a few family members that care about you, so don't let them down. You probably think they think of you as a nuisance but they don't. They just feel iritated because you keep on feeling sorry for yourself instead of standing up on your two feet and brave the storm. You said you haven't anything to do now, right? So, I think you should further your studies or get a job so you won't feel so bored. Don't stay in bed all day, get up and do some exercie. You'll feel better. Stop convincing yourself that you're a pile of rubbish because you're not. If you try hard enough, I trust you can do it and brave the storm. The girls in your previous relationships are probably materialistic or doesn't care enough to be with you, so they don't deserve your tears. You deserve so much more if you can face the world.
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    Hi there, First of all, welcome to enotalone.com. Then back to your problem. Whether you want her back or not depends on you. If you really want her or you think she is a friend worth keeping, then you should get her back. Otherwise you can let it go. I suggest trying to talk to her first because she seems to leave you for no reason. At least she should give you an explanation, she does owe you one. Ask her out for a drink and then talk to her. She probably likes you and when you don't catch the signals she gave you, she decides to ignore you. There are things that human can do when pressured. I hope this advise has helped you.
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    Well, if you just want to stay friends with her, I suggest you get her not-so-personal presents such as a book or something she could keep. If you want her to be something more, then you could give her more intimate things like flowers, chocolates, bracelets and others. The main point here is not to send the wrong message to her. Choose your present wisely. Hope this has helped.
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    Yeah, you should tell him about how you feel. The reasons why you can't stand it. But take my advise: Don't go all out because if he doesn't want to change, you've got to leave him. Drugs is a dangerous thing when its use is abused. You boyfriend might have some relations with his dealer and he might endanger your life if you threathen to report him. I understand that you're in love with him and love can do miracles. The problem is that love is not all in a relationship. There is also compromise and reponsibilty. With what your boyfriend is doing, I would say he's not really responsible with his own actions. I hope this has helped you. Forgive me for being straight-forward.
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    Hey, Thanks for the ideas. I'll be sure to try them out.
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    This is probably the most stupid question ever but I was wondering what to get my girlfriend (not lovers, just a friend that is a girl) for her birthday. I just met her about a month and I don't really know what to give her. She's about 15, what gifts are suitable for her? Give me some ideas please. I don't know whether I should get her a friendship bracelet or something because she has some very close friends that give her those and I don't expect her to wear a hundred bracelets on her wrist. Thanks in advance for the ideas.
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    Sorry. I notice that i have typed It's supposed to be: 2. Ignore them when they joke about it. The joke will wear off soon. Usually this teasing happens because they want you ro be irritated but if you don't give them that respond, they'll be bored and forget about it.
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    Hi there, Well, I guess you shouldn't be so upset about the teasings. I usually do that too, just to make my friends laugh. Don't take it too seriously but if they take it too far, maybe you should 1. tell them how you feel. 2. Totally ignore them. The joke will wear off soon. I hope this has helped you. Good luck.
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    I don't know what to tell you but in your case, there are lots of possibilities. 1. You haven't met her, have you? I don't know how you could trust or love someone you don't really know. They can tell you something else and be someone else. So the chance here isn't very good, especially when she's got another reason. So, maybe you should try having more time with her before deciding. 2. Sometimes I myself don't trust the guys on the internet. I'll make every excuse not to see them. 3. She isn't reliable like you said. What if you two have gotten married and she says she doesn't want you? Advise: I would advise you not to pursue this relationship. Since the romance is not developed yet, it's more easier to walk away. And you wouldn't want to date a married woman, would you? She sounds quite rash in making decisions and that isn't a good sign. If both of you somehow manage to hitch up, she might tell you the same thing. Lastly, like I said, you do not know her. She can tell you everything she wants. Maybe she's the one cheating on her husband or something. Forgive me for being so straight forward. I hope I did not offend you. I advise you to leave and forget about her and I wish you best of luck. The decision is yours. There is no right answer in life. No one is perfect. Life isn't perfect. It is our responsibilty to live it to the fullest.
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    Hey, I know exactly how you feel. Locking yourself up in your room, keeeping as far away from people as possible. That was exactly how I felt last year. My best friend dumped me, my grandmother passed away and my only sibling went away. My parents don't understand me at all and all my friends in school keep away from me. It felt awfully bad but it's better now. I have threee awesome friends who are extremely funny and who never fails to put a smile upon my face. I'm sure it'll be the same for you. Don't grieve and do anything stupid. I really hope you life will take a positive turn but meanwhile do whatever you like except stay in room. It bad for the meantal health. Trust me, last year I had a few depressions that were hard to deal with. You do not want that so get out and have some fun. Get some fresh air and get new friends. Not all of them will hurt you but if they do, just take they lightly like the quote above. Wish you best of luck.
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    Why not take him for something he likes? Likes skiing, rollerblading, tennis and etc.. Or ummm.... a little gift you know he is sure to like. But what I think is that materialistic things are not needed here since you two are in love. Even a walk in the park or a peck on the cheek is enough.
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    I don't really think pulling out is an effective way of prevention. Before you cum, you have pre-cums too and in that liquid, it may contain sperm. If you really want to have intercourse, use a condom.
  18. tough_girl
    Right now, I'm feeling awful. My family members keep on getting on me. My dad irritates me, my brother makes me feel awful and bullies me and my mum believes all his junk. I'm breaking down. I've just recovered from a mild depression and if this doesn't stop, I'm scared I'll be more depressed than the last time. I can't take it anymore. Moving out of the house is not an option for I'm only 15 and have many years to go. Whatever they do is making me have a headache! I wish they would just leave me alone. Everytime I refuse to join their activity, I'll be named and called rebellious. My brother thinks I don't want to help around with the housework. He has nothing much to do but I have a whole load of homework. Life in school is also very tough. I really don't know how to cope. I go to school everyday weary-eyed and tired. I haven't really established strong relationships with classmates yet. HELP ME!!!! PLease offer me some advises.... I don't want to go into depression again.
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    Hi Michelle, I agree with passionforliving. If he really loves you, he would go through everything that it may take and not make as many excuses as possible. Have you ever though about the reason he is a divorcee? Has he cheated on his ex before? What I see from what you tell me is that he wants the best of two sides. From his fiance and yours. Do you think you can still love and trust a man who constantly sleeps with you but is engaged? Do you get the idea? He wants you for sex and not love. I assume that you are a younger girl than his fiance and that actually makes him sexually excited. You are only 19 and you have the whole world in front of you. Why not reach out your hand and grab nicer and more responsible man than this. He does not love you and if he does, he would gladly accept your offer of waitting for you. Love is about compromising and sharing. You are sharing your future with him while he sleeps with you and has his fiance. As you can see, he is on the gaining side. Take my advise and forget about him. Pursue the course you intend to take and give it your all. Perhaps you may meet a better man there.
  20. tough_girl
    Hey, thanks avman! How come I never thought of that... Thanks a lot!
  21. tough_girl
    I have instant messaging but she doesn't and can't because her computer is outdated and it doesn't have much space. The other thing is that phone is going to cost a lot. E-mail might be slower than instant messaging. I'm worried for her. She has 2 little brother who doesn't know much I guess. And she doesn't have many friends there because she just changed over. So, she doesn't seem to have anyone except me.
  22. tough_girl
    Thanks for the reply,avman. But as always there is a problem because she is in another state. She changed school last year. So how I can be there for her? We only talk through e-mail and from her words I can tell she's desperate. It's her first love.
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    My friend is a shy girl who doesn't really know how to express her feelings. Recently, a guy younger than her by a year wrote her a poem which I guess was significant. She didn't say much about it. I just know it had the words that he was weak when he was near her. She is madly in love with him but she's afraid of the consequences if it was just a trick or something. We're in school and there ARE mischevious guys too. We also both have an important exam this year and I really don't want her to get hurt. What do I do or say? She said she didn't give him a reply and that she regretted it. She said that she is going to talk to him tomorrow and that she is nervous. I really want to give her some words of wisdom or advise but I don't know what to say. Can someone give me some ideas? I feel like cheering for her because I would like to see her happy. Help needed fast please. Tomorrow is the important day. Thanks...
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    Well, school just started in my country and I don't know what I'm feeling. I used to be studying in the afternoon session but recently I changed to the morning session, so there's something wrong with my sleep i guess. I only get about 4 hours sleep every night and I feel awful even before my school ends. I've tried sleeping earlier but I just couldn't sleep. I'm happy now in school because I've got new friends. But I've got a problem, everytime I get home or into my car, I feel so irratable with whatever around. I hate the traffic jams, I hate the sun and I don't like my mother because she babble so much when all I want is silence(I know girls like to talk a lot but I'm the one that likes silence more.). I didn't intend to scream at my mother, but I just did. Now I feel so sorry for what I did. What is wrong with me? Is stress taking its toll on me? I have a major exam this year so I have to study and stuff. Now I say things that I don't want to or intend to. It's like having someone else control my body while I watch in horror. What am I supposed to do? Can someone give me some advise please....... Thank you...
  25. tough_girl
    Read the reposting your topic and follow accordingly if you want more rplies. Wish you good luck!
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