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Well the person which is now my ex was someone i fell in love with many years before we actually "went out", 4years going on 5 to be exact. i told her i loved her the first day we started "going out", but she had to beat it out of me couse even though i knew i did love her and i still do, i was afraid to open my heart, but when i did, it was the greatest feeling ever... though inevitably im now heartbroken after a 2month 14day relationship. but thats a whole-nother story

I had quite a few epiphanies about relationships in the last few weeks after a very nasty breakup and talking to many many people with myriad of ideas about long term relationships. I would like to hear some more thoughts on what people think about love and relationships. More specificly why love and relationships suck.

Thnx for the help guys, i will definetly start using condoms couse although we do plan to have kids someday, we'd like to keep if at "someday".

ur awesome... one thing thouhgh, i said 1 - 3 times beforei do not mins. not a bad thing, means im doing something right but shows how long i last.

I have another question couse well... i last way longer than she does and she endsup cummin 2 or 3 times before i get my turn and condoms would definetly not help much...and also does anyone know what i can do becouse my size is a bit above average and i hurt her but i don't want to but she's tellling to make it rough and i know it hurts her oh yeah and another thing i don't undertand but she doesn't like for me to eat her out couse she says it tickles her and makes her laugh though i never got the chance to, i don't understand how a female can not like it...

I don't know if its common but i do semi leak a bit during intercourse but i pull out when its time to cum, also ill play with her for so long that when its time for intercourse im all wet already. can the lilttle bit that comes out couse pregnancy?

Hey, thanx. You don't know how glad i am to know that her behavior isn't really a negative sign. Theres just this one other thing that was kinda weird. The after my friend had asked her wether or not she was intrested she did something she had never done before. Usually everday i pass by her table during lunch outside in the couryard to go get my lunch. I sit on one side of the courtyard she sits on the other. But this time after i got my lunch and headed back to my table with a friend, right when i passed by her she got up and sat 2 tables away from mine with one of her male friends whom used to be in our french class. At first she kept glancing at me then she just sat there with her head down, while her friend stared at me. By the way that friend really is just a friend of hers. I didn't realize it till later that day that this could have been the perfect chance for me to have a serious talk with her. Can someone tell me why she did that, she has never in the whole school year ever gone to this side of the courtyard much less sat there. Edit: By the way ive wondered what the hell to do if i do ask her out and she says yes. Couse isn't that a little elmentary, the whole "will you go out with me thing". Edit again: Awww man, i only have 1.5 weeks to work this whole thing out, couse school ends next next wednesday. Edit yet again: I can't get her out of my head

Damn thats cold...

Ok heres the situation, Theres this girl (famous words) and we go to the same school. I only have one class with her, and that is french. I became attracted to her the second i saw her but never thought of it as anything serious. It wasn't until about 4 months ago when my feelings for her started getting much deeper. I don't hangout with her nor are we close friends, we ocasionlly talk but thats as far as it goes. I started expression my feelings for her a bit more outwardly, and it seems to me that she also had somesort of attraction towards me for many reasons i will not go into. I did not say anything too direct about what i felt until about a month ago when i caught up with her walking home and asked if we could get together and do something someday. She responded with an unenthusiastic "sure", at this point i also asked her if i could call her sometime, this time she responded with a very unconvincing "Im kinda talking to a guy right now". Ok let me get to the point. When i or some other person besides her close friends talk to her she seems to ignore us and give a respond that really makes you feel like she doesn't give a crap what your saying, and sometimes makes your reapeat your self 2 or 3 times until she actually figures your talking to her. She does not do this when her close friends talk to her. She always does this to me yet she can sit infront of me and sentually rub my head in an effort to flirt. She also gives me these looks that combine dwith other stuff she does makes me think she actually likes me. I wrote a short note that expressed my feelings for her and placed it in her book bag, and i know it was affetive couse of the way she looked at me that same day after she found it. I was really confused about how she felt so i got a friend of mine to ask her during french while i whent to another class wether or not she really liked me. According to him she answered him in that same tone and way that i mentioned above, uncarring and like she was too good for me. By the way im older than her, shes a freshman and im a junior, and i know she doesn't really thing shes better than me. I know why she acts the way she does, becouse i used to be just like that a long time ago, I would try and make myself look more important by ignoring and acting like i didn't care what the people who are really above me said to me. Its a repressive defensive mechanisim used by many. I don't know excactly what to think, im really confused. I want to know the truth about her feelings. But i guess the only way to get a straight answer is by asking her myself in private, but theres no way that i know of were i can talk to her privately about her bad habit. I really care about her and want help her even if it turns out she doesn't want to be involved with me. Please help im not sure what to do or how to go on about this. If theres a girl out there that can give me their prospective on her behavior please let me know. Thanks, moi

Oh yeah, dont call her tonight. make it all a surprise.

No problemo, I wish good luck. 8) let me know how things turn out.

Great, get to school hall ass to her house, and give her the bigest hug and kiss you ever had. Then walk her to school. IF YOU CAN GET HER A ROSE OR SOMETHING, DUNNO HOW THOUGH SINCE SHES GETTING HOME TODAY.

How does she get to school? and how early?

Do you know the excat time of day she'll be getting home? Maybe i can give some romantic idea like showing up at her door step with a rose or maybe finding a way to pick her up in the morning.

Hey thanx i though i was a wacko or something.