littlegrl87

hey y'all!!! well, my boyfriend is off at college like 300 miles away, but we've gotton through the first semester without any snags in the relationship. we're still going strong and our 1 year anniversary is coming up (on Valantine's Day!!!) I can't wait. he'll be coming home for the weekend. i know what i'm going to get him, but i don't know where i should take him, what we should do, etc...u c i want to give him a big surprise this time because he is usually the one to surprise me first. i love him so much and i really wanna do something special for him. any ideas??? anything is apreciated. thanks!!!

hey all. i'm in a totally sad state right now. my boyfriend is off to college while i have to stay here in this little town to finish high school. i just don't know how i'm ever gonna last not seeing him regularly. once he leaves (in about 1 month ) it's never going to be the same again. i'm used to seeing him every day or at least every other day. he is moving about 4 hours away. he says he'll come back on weekends, i trust him, but i know he'll get busy with hw and stuff. how we will ever do this emotionally? i know our love is strong enough, but how? lately it's just been horrible. we are so happy to be around eachother, but i keep starting fights because my mind is set that if i'm mad at him, it'll be much easier to say goodbye than if i was sad. i know thats horrible, but that is how this situation has turned out. i want us to last! please help!

Hey, this same thing happened to me except for I was the girl with the boyfirend. The guy was in the grade above me and my best firend so we didn't really know him that well until I started talking to him and going out with him. She ended up loving this guy and I didn't know it. They would do stuff behind my back and hang out all the time, all the while me and the guy were doing stuff and hanging out. My best friend finally decided to tell me her feelings towards my bf after it was too late and they had already did stuff together. This not only made me not trust my bf and to break up with him, but to not trust my best friend for a long time! It took awile for me to talk to her again. What I guess I'm trying to tell you is that even though you think you love him now, do you really want to lose your best friend over a guy? I suggest that you wait for their relashionship to be over for a long time and then see what goes down. Just dont do something you'll regret, please! Well, good luck, I hope this helped!

Hey. I'm having a crisis here. I feel like I'm not good at anything in my life. I don't have that one thing that Im great in and is better at than everyone else. I don't have that one hobby that I'm devoted to or do all the time that makes me happy. I'm in track right now, but I feel so much slower than everyone else. I feel stupid when I run and probably look stupid too. How can I become a better and faster runner? I just want to have something to feel good about. What should i do? I feel so worthless.

Hey! I think that you should just go for it! If you feel like the both of you have gotten closer and feel more comfortable around eachother, then you should do what you feel is right. The only thing you should think about is, will this affect your friendship if she says no? do you want to risk it? just think things over and do what you feel. Possibly, she told your friend that she didn't like you because she didn't want to tell anyone that she did like you and have anyone else know about it until she told you. Maybe she wanted to see what you felt before saying anything. Well, good luck and I hope everything works out for you! Bbye!

hey! i have done that! i broke up with my bf and then about a month later, i was missing him so much! i wanted to go back out with him. we talked about it, then decided to wait awhile and work out our problems. we waited, worked things out, then we went back out! it can work, just give it time. good luck!

okay long story but please help! i met this guy a year ago and we have been sorta on and off. we started out as this little shy couple who just said hi in the hallways and held eachothers hands sometimes. then, we moved on to hugging, then kissing on the lips. it was all too weird and new, so we kinda grew apart. being apart was the worst thing ever. we still hung out and talked, but it wasn't the same relashionship as before. being apart was killing me and the longer we were apart the more our love for eachother grew! he told me how much he loved me and missed me as did i. we were going to start going out again, but it was summer and we decided to see if the feeelings still lasted outside of school. of course they did, but the problem was, one of my best friends hangs out with him and some other people at the time. they were "just friends" and just talked and hung out. one night i got a call from the girl saying that they had done some things together and we both started crying because she knew that she had hurt me and i knew that that would effect all of our relashionships. i was very happy with her honesty, but she still continued to "see" him. then, the summer ended and school started again. me and the guy got very close once again (i forgave him seeing as how we wernt going out) because we were so in love. we hugged and kissed and did everything the same like a couple again. of course we hung out at eachothers houses and stuff. the girl got very jealous and mad at me for "taking him away". when he asked me out again, i took her feelings into consideration cuz she is my good friend. i said no and that was the worst thing ever. everything was blamed on me and she started doing things with him again. he says he doesnt like me like that nemore and we r "just friends" but friends talk but we dont.... i can't sit there and watch them together knowing i cant have him and watch them flirt and maybe go out. he is my first love and first everything. all i think about is him and i love him. i just melt when i see him! i want him back sooo bad! please helm me!!!!! what to do?

hey there! i'm very sorry to hear about your deppression. i think what u need to do is go out there and get involved in something. such as a sport, a book club, or anything else that interests you. this would be a good way for u to get to know people, have fun, do something u enjoy, and maybe forget about all of the stress in your life. i know its not the same, but i can relate to u in some way. last year, i had no self-confidence. i was never happy. whenever i would see people talking or whispering i would think that it had to be about me and i took everything personally. i just would worry about everything and i got so stressed. it was awefull going day to day like that so i can't even imagine how u do it. this year i am much more happy. i think i am more outgoing. i've gotten involved in clubs and sports that i have fun in and i talk to people. i just strike up a convo even if i don't know the person, it's fun and then u have a new friend. about your job, try to think of things/jobs that u would have fun doing and try to get one. i think u should stop the drinking and sleeping as a way to escape your problems. they never go away if u do that and it is the worst feeling to wake up knowing that u have to face your problems all over again. stay awake and sober and get your life back together! i hope this helps u! i'll be thinking about u! bbye!

i was going out with this guy and i wasnt ready for a realashionship yet, so i broke up with him. that was a year ago. we have been hanging out and getting to know eachother ever since. he has asked me out many times over the year but i said no bc i still wasnt ready. i am ready now and ive fallen in love. the problem is, he has given up on saying that he's asked me out so much and i kept saying no. he doesnt like me anymore and it hurts so much. i miss him already and everything we do together! what should i do and how can i get over him? everything makes me think of him and i just get this sick feeling in my stomach...