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  1. Shyguy24
    hey guys I think ive totllly ruined my friendship basically , i am really good friends with this guy ..and lately i feel that there has come about a void in our friendship its like how at first ure like real good friends , well its like we always had respect and good faith between us and i see him as my best friend but its like he hasant quite responded the way i hoped i mean over time its like , things have gone from good to bad ...like with the respect thing its as if i dont exsist for him around our friends at first he used to be like oh lets do this and do that but lately its like as if like i dont exsist ...man i am feeling down cause thats where i think my friendship is headed downhill...i so wanted this friendship to work but i dont know what to do
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    Hey if ure normal then u will find someone for sure sooner or later i am 25 and i met mygf when i was 23 my first serious relationship and she proposed to me to ask me out and i had only gone out with one other girl only before that its u who makes a difference and not anything else be confident and happy and people will be attracted to u no matter what its human pshycology that we follow those people who look happy and confident rather then those who are crying all the time so i would say believe in ureself and it will happen as for u covidae i would say its normal not to b asked out it dosent happen everyday and not to everyone but if u believe in it ....it could happen to u ...its ure attitude that attracts people rather than anything else 0X
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    well i would call and tell her that i had a gr8 time and ask her how she felt then if she felt good about it or her general behaviour is good then u can take it from there . however if she comes accross as if she had a okay time then just dont think of even asking her out again ....i mean when u say i had a gr 8 time she should reply oh so did i ...then ask her out again ...but if she replies like oh yeah ...then let it be ... but give her a call now while she can sill recall what kinda time she had
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    hey u goot feelings too so tell her that dont call unless she can respect u enough to want a relationship with u simple either ure together or ure not whats the problem otherwise drive her to a cliff and use ur imagination i would kill the girl who would play with me like that i mean cmon i got feelings too
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    i personaly care about the person and not the age
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    Hey sweetheart for a relationship to work u need two thongs for sure in TRUST and RESPECT he obviously dosent respect u and takes u for granted and is making u the victim of his behaviour by taking advantage of ure emotions U have to help ureself MOVE on ..keep talkin to him but make it mmore casual then anything else and dont be very personal with him treat him with a slight cold shoulder and see it will change his behaviour towards u and add to ure self esteem also dont let ureself be taken over by emotions there are some decisions which are hard but then that is life move on but do it at ure own pace join some classes like other activites so that it lets u meet new people and less time to spend with him cut him off slowly otherwise ull never move on and just end up wasting time 0X
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    dont worry u will find love again for sure people find it all the time so take it easy 0X
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    i agree with shygirl
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    U know when i read this post only one thing comes to mind firstly LIFE IS TO SHORT SO MAKE URE MOVE as for her bfriend everything is fair in love and war so dont fret hey if u like her make it clear ...like with ure actions ..if she is flirting and playin with u then play with her .... dont worry about her relationship ..casue obviously she aint so my advise is ure going to lose her or get her in bed ..its a gamble but it s for u to decide whther it is worth it or not PERSONALLY I WOULD GO ALL OUT cause out of experience girls either dig u or they dont 0X
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    hi there i would cut to the chase and say give hi another chance definitely ....casue he does love u as he realises he made a mistake ..stick with him for a while and see how it goes like for 3 mnths then 6 ...1 yr ...like over time u might be abl to trust him again ...but wha... u can do is cut his previliges cut his drinking his freedom penalise him for hurting u ...make rules for him if he dosent agree to them then leave him ..cause he has to realise what he has done is not something small ... best of luck hun and if u need any help just PM me okay ! take care and god bless 0X
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    I think ray is absolutly right , u should be alright if u follow that advice good luck but do tell ur dad or mom at some time just for safety 0X
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    hey there some signs i think i would look for 1 he is bored easily after talking to u 2 u need to make a special effort at things which came easily before 3 he ignores senstive issues or says he dosent want to talk about it basically any drastic change in behaviour or habit 0X
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    hi there if u love him text him cause thats what ure heart says and what u want so why be afraid it takes 2 people to make a relationship work and no place for ego in love go ahead text him and ask him to call u then see what happens he calls fine not then his loss and u tried , then good luck to him
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    hi there i can totally understand that it is tough to be in a long distance relationship i am about a whole continent away from my gf but look at the other side of the story if u can survive the distance ure relationship will grow in stature and become stronger with time plus u will apreciate the time spent together more if u really miss him i guess u could take a bus over there ! it will also increase the trust and love between u guys if u can survive the distance good luck
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    i use to drink a lot but given it up max i have is one beer and thats pushing it alchol well it disorients u and stop sur brain from functioning properly and that s not good i still party once in say a month but otherwise i enjoy other things then drinking 0X
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    hmm u rejected the guy over what other people said hurt his pride and lost respect ..okay mistakes were made but u can rectify it just go over and say hi , how are u ..seen u around ..wait for his reaction if positive then carry on if not then forget it gluck but u know dont ever do this , put someone else down cause of what others think ...they are all just jealous make ur own decisons remember people are just that people .dont let them affect you in ur personal realrionships or how u think about someone just trust ur instincts and if u did HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM SO WHAT !!! COMON I MEAN ITS A GOOD THING TO FIND SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE AND BEING DRAWN TO THEM SO nuthin wrong just put ur head up smile and say hey i like him so nuts to u guys take care and its no big deal
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    Hey watch out if he is a hugger sorry ..just couldnt resist that hmm i think u should hang out with him and see let ur feelings become clear one way or the other before u make a decision gluck
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    Hey hi tony !! thanks for the reply ...yeah i hear ya !! why do i give a beep ...i know ...but then loves nuts right when u are in love with some one i guess . its not logic !! its a feeeling !! and she i s very moody and i know that deep oinside she really cares and i am proved right cause she did mail after 9 mnths !!! when i aM LIKE OVER HER I THINK BUT EVEN IF I DO HAVE A FRIENDHSIP HOW DO I HANDLE IT ...KEEP IN ,MIND ILLPROABLY SEE HER NOT VERY OFTEN !!
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    Hey sayer cheers for the reply !! hmm do i love her i dont know?? love aint a swhich its a feeling right and guys she isnt like here she lives 2500 miles away !!! yeah i know ... why do i even give a shit or ever did ...cause i was in love she is younger 22 and i am 24 ... so i dont know i am i guess more serious in life i am doing a law degree and generally even when girls want to go out i dont make much of it ,, and yes i have been told on more than one occasion that i am cute !! but no i am, a realist and only believe in being with the one .no more flirting ! hmm i do forgive her , believe me i dont wish anything bad or anything for her i hope she gets a lot of haapiness and find s someone better then me also !! i just want whatever is best for her ! cause o care about her a lot , i want her with me but not at the expense of her being well i dotn know ,,, MW BEING TO NICE I GUESS??
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    HANG IN THERE !!! MY X MAILED ME AFTER 9 MNTHS ASKING ME HOW I WAS DOING!!! MIRACLES DO HAPPEN
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    My x mailed me today saying why i had not kept in touch and how i was doin !!! AFTER 9 MNTHS !!! the reason i dint keep in touch , was cause it hurt a lot !!! but i know she is a good person and well i still have love for her and care about her that i would always want to see her Happy no matter what she is a part of me and will always be !!! but i dont know if i love her or whether ...i want to get hurt again she LEFT ME CAUSE SHE SAID I WAS TO NICE AND SHE WAS AFRAID OF GETTING HURT IF I LEFT ...SO SHE LEFT AND I GOT HURT !!! I LOST A YR AT UNI AND LOST FAITH IN LOVE ... HOW DO I HANDLE THIS NOW ???? PLS HELP GUYS CHEERS
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    HHAHAHAHA!!! THAT DOES SOUND REAL FUNNY !!!
  23. Shyguy24
    Hey man i know its tough but u got to hang in there for ure self respect; my advice Dont call,, no point if she dosent bother ; as for that no not being the right one with the other girl .. it could be she by mistake wrote a wrong digit on the paper and ...now avoided u becasue she feels that u never called !! go talk to her like hey , so wassup and see how she responds ..also ask her whether the no is correct ..hey what do you have to lose!! hang in there
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    Hey i think that uShould approach the situation with a open mind that , first of all he does like u , otherwise why see u again He is a sailor and i have a few sailor friends and they get enough women , so its not like sex would be a issuse with him , so i would take it that yeah he does like u!! but take it slow i mean, take it as i t comes unless u fell stronger in that case tell him! g luck
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    Hi Sweets, I am not going to tell u what is wrong with ur relationship or why dont u trust him and stuff; What i am going to say is that , in any relationship we HAVE TO CROSS BRIDGES , ITS UPTO U WHICH ONES U WANT TO CROSS; I WOULD SAY THAT IF IT BOTHERS U SO MUCH , THEN ITS OKAY I MEAN JUST CONFRONT HIM AND ASK HIM THAT HEY I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHETHER U WENT THERE OR WHAT !! IF HE SAYS NO, THEN TAKE HIS ANSWER AT FACE VALUE AND JUST LIVE WITH IT , I MEAN i am sure that there is no way he did all this to hurt or annoy u , i am sure he went out with his mates and it was proably there idea anyway , as for seeing naked women , iam sure he surfs porn or see movies its but a natural human tendency , U CANT CONTROL THAT !! BUT U CAN CONTROL UR FAITH AND HONESTY IN THE RELATIONSHIP U HAVE REACHED A BRIDGE UPTO U TO DECIDE HOW U WANT TO CROSS IT ! HEY TAKE CARE AND PM I AM ALWAYS RIGHT HERE ! HUG SHY
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