I was with this guy for 6 years,since I was 16, and I suddenly broke it off with him a few months ago. He treated me fairly well, but for me, I just wanted to see what else is out there, have some fun, and get out of the "routine" with him. He is a great guy, and I know I hurt him, but sometimes,us females can be sort of selfish. The next month after I broke it off with him, I got with this guy, not the model citizen, but he was fun. We were together for three months, and I got tired of him as well. I started to realize how careless and irresponsible he was. So, back to square one, I am looking again for someone "routine" again. I guess us females go through emotions, and act too quickly on them. Good luck.