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Well I can tell you that alcohol can affect ejaculation but it depends from person to person and the relative amount of alcohol he intakes. Sorry I couldn't help you more Cheers mate
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Hey you are more than welcome if you want some more advice just post here or Pm good luck
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Hey i would say go over and say hi ..if she waves at you then she is somewhat interested in atleast knowing you go over and say hi and say smthing like hi i ve noticed you also ..so ..whats new ..or hows school blah blah make a general convesation good luck
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Hey mate you only live once ; okay here is what I think ..she is thinking this guy is a loser ..okay ..so prove her wrong , make it a fun thing don’t take it so seriously …if she wont come to you hey you got to her ..ask her which days she says she is free ..she will say blah blah …just say fine then will go out then ..she will say okay (I am assuming cause she has been atleast ready to go out with you) then don’t like call her and stuff reach her office with a bunch of flowers (not roses ..lol .) and tickets for a movie or show or smthing ..like let her make it obvious that she dosent want to go out with you …it will be funny to see her squirm out of that ..sometimes people cant make up there minds ..u justhave to help them Bottom line be aggressive ; be a man and make the action happen hey what do you have to lose accept your pride ..as long as you can see the funny side ..not like you are marrying her you just want to date her ..if u don’t make it a big deal .you will be surprised .. I once went up to this girl I really liked (and I am shy okay ) but I really liked her so I was like going to the law ball and she was like yeah , so I was like what time should I pick ypu up and she had this really astonished look on her face but then after that she was like around 8 ..see I was scared to but I went with to hell with it all kind of attitude ..it worked
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"Insane and obsessed!, how do I win her over!?"
Shyguy24 replied to Johnny_has's topic in Dating Advice
Hey I feel for u mate it’s a tough situation, but see the thing is that how well do you really know her I mean u said that u hardly get a chance to talk to her and interact with her ; The fact that she has a boyfriend is not going to make her interested in you (sorry mate) cause she has feelings for someone else; hey its just sheer bad luck the way I look at it , it can happen to anyone The thing is do not get involved in this fantasy because that’s all its gonna be ; we sometimes make things up in our own head about people and then derive emotions for them, this is very unhealthy According to me you can handle it in two ways use real time psychology like tel l urself hey I did the best I could so its not my fault but just bad luck IT COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE The thing is that you are not being fair to yourself by acting in this manner of looking up her no and finding out where she lives ; when you do stuff like this u put unnecessary pressure on yourself and just make up a more out of it then there really is Also look at it logically ..u ask girl she says sorry I have a boyfriend ..story over ..forget about that angle now no point .. The thing you can do is be good friends with her , and get to know her slowly and then if she breaks up with her boyfriend or has a change of mind then u you will be there for her ! Good luck -
Hey You realise what u havent being doing , so rectify that , hold her hand kiss her do everyting you said you havent just do it , dont tell her that u feel like a fool and stuff becasue that will spoil it cause when u start to doing these things she will think that you are acting or compensating and not really doing it naturally best thing to do is just show affection in more physical form ..like the little things holding hands kissing on the cheek or even put your arm around her shoulder when u guys are walking stuff like that good luck
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Hey thanks netman I just want to help though it feels good to get appreciated so thanks again!
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Okay first of all on what terms did u guy split up , 4 yrs is a longtime so if she broke up she must have given you a good reason ; I need a lil background so that I can help you
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Hi!! okay let me see if I can help you ; Okay first of all what I have learnt is that all of us are different and unique in our own way , some more sensitive some less its just the way we are , everyone tackles problems and emotions in a unique way. The fact that he dosent call you all the time or msg you , maybe he isn’t that kind of person who has to be reassured about his feelings all the time or maybe like you said that he is really secure about you remember there is a difference between security and being taken for granted .. which I feel you are not why ..because he does call you when you want him to and also msg you … The thing is that he isn’t playing games but I feel he respects and trusts you so he dosent feel insecure about you ; you shouldn’t do things like not contact him or avoid him and stuff because that’s not good and it will only ruin your relationship , because you got a little insecure …don’t do it Again I would say all of us are different and have different degrees of needs and affection …for eg me I need affection say 80% of the time from my partner and reassurance to not all the time but quite a lot .. while I have a friend of mine who hardly talks to his gf but is madly in love with her ..so go figure ! One thing ..whats your star sign and what is his star sign I know a bit about astrology maybe I could give more insight into his behaviour Cheers mate
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Aaww sweet heart feel for you . come here ..hugs for you Don’t take your parents to seriously , there human also and its not the end .. hey ive been through a nervous break down in which my parents thought I was completely nuts , I couldn’t even do simple things like drive a car or talk to people etc… but hey I recovered 5 mnths later but now I am back to my studies and doin work in a law firm …so see its just circumstances they will change I promise .. Now smile sweets ..hugs
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Hi just saw ur post sweets, Well u know I was in a relationship earlier and I went through the exact samething you are going through and I ended up with a nervous breakdown ; What I learnt .. the relationship should be there to support you as a positive thing not , as something that is going to solve your problems ; I learnt the golden rule the more security you are going to put in your relationship the more you will get out of it , in other words let go a little of the rope on the kite and it will soar higher in the sky , but its always yours as long as you let it fly ; Feel secure about ur bf and he will give u more in return its like magic , feel insecure and he will feel that you are a burden and nobody likes that ; plus no one can be there all the time and it would be unrealistic to think like that In my opinion when u feel like that just think of the good times or do something to take your mind of it , but in the end if u want more and he cant deliver it then you have to ask yourself are you with the right person Better to bail out of a bad situation rather then a bad situation which becomes worse ; The above is just my opinion and I haven’t tried to sugarcoat it cause I don’t want u to get hurt Take care Cheers mate
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I totally agree with the post above u got the right method i am a shyguy so i would like it if a girl was like that ; hurray for you , u are helping guys like me hehe i think its gr8 u girls should take the intiative and then let the guys take over just my opinion
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So I should get them right , cause I was also thinking that it would help me in the long run , I cant stand having slightly awkward looking teeth , I feel as if could do something about them it really irritates me . But seriously guys/girls , should I just be confident about it and just try to date girls or should I forget about it till I get my braces off, you have no idea how tough it is being conscious about the fact that you don’t have normal teeth .. they totally dampen my outlook towards everything ..and it totally depresses me .. the good news though is that I went to the doc today and he said that mine was a minor case and it could be fixed .
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Hi guys I am getting braces , I had them before but my treatment had only got 80% completed , now I have to have them for 6-8 mnths , What do girls think of guys in braces? Would this dampen my chances of going out with any girl, I really wanted to get them because I want my teeth to look good , but its got me also depressed that I have to wear them for such a long time
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Ive been told I am cute so should I be happy , I kept thinking that it didn’t mean much …though girls do smile at me once in a while .anyway when I say a girl is cute ..i don’t mean she is stunning but on the other hand really adorable and huggable and basically very appealing ..i mean I am totally satisfied by the way she looks and dresses ..i mean everyone will admire a model and say they are good looking but ..when we say cute I guess it means someone who is more like dateable and stuff ..i guess ..right pr wrong
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Well it sounds like u got the perfect package, handsome and a sense of humor, ( I am only cute with a sense of humor haha) anyway First of all go out with her and take things as they come I mean be yourself, love and attraction is natural it cant be forced, u cant take a medicine for it and get up and say hey I feel attracted to you now. I think more time u spend with her and talk to her share stuff activities and all the more you will learn about your feelings for her and how you feel ; people tend to grow on you once you spend time with them, that’s for the wow thingy bit , that will come in a reasonable amount of time , plus it sounds like a very healthy relationship for a starting . Go for it , just don’t hurt her be her knight in shining armor, love we don’t get easy so I would say you are a lucky guy . Good luck
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hey nice poetry id want u just for that
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I would like to get to know you better, its just that I am really new to this and don’t have a clue, so what are your hobbies, do you like to go out or read books, poetry or what kind of music do you like So do you think my response above is fine , I don’t want to sound offensive or pushy let me know guys/gals
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Hmm okay she considers me her friend , but where do I start I mean is she really interested , can I gauge that from her response . What could I ask her that she wouldn’t take like as offensive , WHERE DO I BEGIN ?? I have never done this before online dating messaging ; what would be like a good question to ask her , please can u guys clue me on this … any and all ideas welcome Thanks
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Thanks for reading Hi guys I joint a dating service and well I wrote to this girl, whose profile really appealed to me and she replied back with this; thanks i got ur message...yeah, i like to make friends and tnx for letting me know dat ur one of them.....GOD BLESS SO I am stumped how I should reply to her now , I mean what can I write back to know her better I had originally written to her that if she was looking for a friend then I was willing ! So now what do I do I have no idea do you think my approach Is correct like in just saying hi and want to be a friend , I mean any ideas thanks guys/gals I really appreciate this
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I need to know if I should get to know her more?
Shyguy24 replied to sk8rPOD3's topic in Dating Advice
Dont push her for her no ..just relax and let things take their course spend more time with her and if she grows to like you then she will start talking to you on the phone good luck -
Hmm how are you so sure that u are Gay !! i mean u are only 14 yrs old .. i dont even know whether ur body has found a sexsual type yet BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW ..have u ever had gf !!
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i love my friend and hes sorta taken im scared to tell him
Shyguy24 replied to taria's topic in Relationship Advice
Hey tell hiim that u enjoyed being with him and that u shared gr8 times maybe throw him hints that u would still like to do those things together , be a little aggressive , tell him what could happen , he is your friend so he would undertand... but see how he feels about you before you go in for the big dive good luck -
another email from the ex. how do i respond?
Shyguy24 replied to caliboy's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
Hmm well, Firstly write back , i mean she does sound like she cares about you and wants to know how you are doing and stuff (thats good) as for the love u part well dont look to much into it .. just sign it normal no love and stuff unless she keeps signing it later on then u can go on and sign more personally goden rule ; if u have a doubt let the other person clarify it basically she cares about you , but it could be as someone as a best friend ... the thing is that she has some body there as a bf so dont go around thinkin that she wants you in that manner best thiing dont make much out of it accept that she cares about you and your opinion matters a lot to her , which means she respects you very important if u want to have a future relationship with her so just write back as if you care and nuthin else dont show to much emotion casue that will only make you vulnerable good luck -
Thanks for the reply Charmed; Yeah well i have spoken to my parents and my dad is like pretty okay with me finding my own soulmate , plus he also really wants me to stay in the U.K , as he has realised how badly i struggle back home in that society . just wondering even though i have met lot of girls and even made friends, i am still pretty new to having a serious realtionship , so how would i know that some girl is serious , because i cant play games as i am also very serious about my career and getting a job, when i finish uni thanks