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  1. kelkel
    Listen it is obvious he hasnt completely resolved all the issues with his past relationship. I also believe that it is a mistake for a woman to get with a man that cheated on his woman, with her, it simply means he is capable of this type of dishonesty and the probability of him repeating this is higher, however, this is your choice and i am not judging him. What i suggest is that you do what is best for you, if the best option for you is giving him an ultimatum then by all means, make yourself comfortable. You are his woman now and you do have that right
  2. kelkel
    woah! i read all that ! Girl you have a good man ! dont let this one go! I am glad you found an answer! i was kinda hoping the story was going to end with u already solving it, but atleast we do have something to look forward to YOU GO GIRL!
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    well well where to start first off u make it seem like she is holding a gun to your head saying "marry me! marry me !" if it's no...... it's no ! makes no sense having a marriage where she is heart and soul in love with you, and you are heart and soul in love with your money ! Everyone is different, and it just obvious you are not compatible for marriage from what you have written! For even if you were going to marry her just for the sake of her feeling more secure......you already have the wrong attitude, you have already ended the marriage before it has begun, it's like you are expecting it to end, but marriage is suppose to be a lifetime commitment......... I think she made the right decision for her.....and you need to find someone who doesnt believe in marriage..........oh yeh and someone making as much money as you So more power to you, make that money for the government.....well unless u have kids.....*sigh* another child out of wedlock !
  4. kelkel
    You are obviously a very intelligent woman. But we are all imperfect and make mistakes. Aside from the fact that this might affect you career and work performance........your very first mistake was feeding these feelings It is fine to be fond of someone, but constantly flirting, meeting, texting to each other in a very personal way is like playing with fire and dont u see you have lit a flame? You are questioning yourself because you know within yourself something isnt right i know you dont intend to get divorced now but you are just digging a hole for yourself, dont do it, dont cause heartache for yourselves, please get out before you fall in love, as humans we get attracted, but this can happen all the time it is just how u feed it, keep it professional, i know it excites you and a little excitement is fine but dont compromise what you believe is right, just for irrational emotions. you said it NOT me !
  5. kelkel
    Ye i am 22 year old virgin and so what?? It is my choice and waiting for marriage is definitely an option if not aim ! and i am surely not ignorant, for even i have given sexually active people advice... you dont hear me bashing anyone for sleeping around (unless they are married or in a relationship), i give advice and try not to be bias, but obviously my morals would be different from a person who thinks casual sex is ok, and that is their choice! I am here NOT because i had a problem either, i wanted an opinion on something, it wasnt a relationship problem nor advice...... And whether you like it or not if u think letting kids think it is okay to have sex and sleep around casually, you should really exam yourself and look around at the amount of problem this has caused and can cause! However its not discomfort, its more like i would like someone to tell my teen who is having sex to wait give them positive encouragement......
  6. kelkel
    CONGRATULATIONS on your new baby ! I Hope she will pull through with a speedy recovery ! and hope for the best!
  7. kelkel
    ok come on a fetish is usually something odd i have met MANY people who for some reason have a fetish with urine peee on them, peee in thier mouth, watch you pee, touch your peee, eat you after you pee......you havent heard anything yet !
  8. kelkel
    Congratualtions on waiting, make my heart so happy to know i am not alone I have the knowledge, and i am an 'experienced virgin'? i only got this concept from this site, i am highly sexual it is amazing i lasted this long, and i intend to be less explorative, but i am just one of those people that dont find ignorance to be bliss!! Paisely80, THANK YOU, i needed to hear that i get so horny sometimes i dont think i can wait, and then everyone else isnt a virgin i dont have much support and i pretty much almost wanting to give it, the irony is, it is the guy that i am intrested in who is encouraging me to wait because it is something i have always wanted and i wont want to live in regret anyway all said and done CONGRATUALTIONS again! it will be wonderful, you will be with her for the rest of your life so no need to rush, enjoy every moment, it only will come ONCE !
  9. kelkel
    My friend with A cups always say: "Anything more than a mouthfull is a waste!"
  10. kelkel
    When i fall in love completely, NOT just looks and personality, but i want to marry someone i can laugh with, sit and talk to, have a spiritual relationship with and so on Communication is important to me, i am a talker i cant say when i will know, but so far he is wonderful, however he is a man so i have my shotgun close by kidding!......... he is a gem! i will post a thread when i know if he is the one.....
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    I love it, definitely a compliment but one bad thing is if i am like really "sprung" for the guy, a hard member through his pants it will get me weak in the knees, i mean literally !
  12. kelkel
    I have ADD with a comorbid factor: depression, and i have been there and i go there occasionally, i feel like i would be a hypocrite to critise you or tell you how selfish it is, but all i can say it just find ONE thing to live for, ONE thing to hold on to, its ok to cry, i use to schedule my crying session..... Anyway, my friend killed himself last year and it was hard for everyone, but we have to move on, your life is your gift, if you want to give it back it's your choice, fortunately they wont allow me to tell you different methods of doing it........ or i would hand it to you, many times i wish someone handed me a way out ! PLUS you dont wanna do it, if you did you wouldnt come here !
  13. kelkel
    DONT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING !!! PLEASE !! we need more men like you, teach youur friends honey, give classes ! you know alot of women should take the blame for how men treat women, because we allow it and we expect it, dont be fooled, you can be a gentleman and still have all the girls chasing you, nOt because you are nice means you are going to allow women to walk all over you, but treat your lady with respect and care and believe me you will feel better within yourself and the RIGHT one will APPRECIATE and RESPECT you!
  14. kelkel
    Well i am 22, and i had goals to go to europe, i have a thing for german guys, i wanted to do my masters there, but i met this wonderful guy, he is so perfect and if it works out I WILL MARRY him. I will do this because i know i will never meet another guy with his personality, maybe i will get better looking, not to say he isnt good looking, but i would rather be treated like a queen all my life and be loved than have a guy who looks like a model but makes me miserable (well more than i already am!), it just so happens i met him nOw, and i refuse to allow anyone else to have him, if i want him!
  15. kelkel
    i have 36 or 38 DDD and i think maybe i should get a reduction but guys seem to love i get alot of attention especially because they natural and they wont stop gowing and believe me i want them to ! But meet the right guy, u will be the Queen of his life !
  16. kelkel
    I live in Jamaica we have stuff to make him iron hard, and last for hours for example we have this thing called 'stone', you wet it rub it on the member, *thumbs up* i heard i think i would prefer natural..........hmmm who am i kidding, maybe someday i will try those extra enhancers !
  17. kelkel
    you can lead a donkey to the water but you cant force him to drink!
  18. kelkel
    I agree somewhat with Juliana, but really i like the straight approach Just get out with it, if you want a future with this guy and asking him "am i in your future?" freaks him out then maybe thats your answer !! PLus if u wanna spend the rest of ur life with someone you should be able to ask them anything and feel okay and comfortable about it i hope it goes well with you !
  19. kelkel
    You are looking for attention Tommy by merely posting here you are looking for attention that your wife is not giving you, that is why you pay a protitute to give you attention......... you should be ashamed of yourself a grown 40 year old, well guess what i am not an american, i dont live in american and I say YOU need to see a therapist, and also go get tested! you have a right to feel like a schoolboy.....you are acting just as immature as one, its ashame i cant say all what's exactly on my mind on this forum ! men like u jumping for every cheap frocktail, while putting the wife at risk! GET HELP !
  20. kelkel
    i know its hard dear, i dont know how hard it is for you but if thinking about devastating your husband doesnt help , well think about your kids !! IF you truly are unhappy, you need to communicate with ur husband personally the "D" word is usually in my vocabulary when there is adultery and one partner cannot bypass it, and since you have done that, there is the option of SAVING you marriage by KILLING the friendship, OR , KILLING the marriage and being happy with this guy....... the only other two options is to continue this very wrong relation OR all four of u get together talk it out, hey maybe you end up getting a nice big 4some going .............. and i doubt it so do whats right and i know you know whats right !!
  21. kelkel
    I think sometimes my responses are a bit harsh so i will attempt to only say one thing and nothing else The two of you MUST stop being "friends" (and i use that word loosely) IF you intend to save you marriage
  22. kelkel
    KNOCK KNOCK it's a first date! unless he taking you outa the country and u sleeping in separate room in a nice hotel what u need over night bag for, take me out and carry me home.........the mere fact that you agreee, plus you thought of sex even if u kept saying no psychologically u already said sex is in the equation.......ever heard of STDs, but i guess u know him and he looked safe and we used a condom........sure he might call back, have another bag packed?? thats just my opinion anyway
  23. kelkel
    Yes, YOU love him......but listen to me......after you are done reading this, i am of teh strong opinion that you should leave him..... YOU dont want to be with someone who doesnt respect their partner enough(worse after 9 years), to realize that their private personal relation is to be kept private and personal because it involves someone else's emotions you dont publize it that is disrespectful and inconsiderate !! You cannot see a future with someone who can't sit and reason with you, compromise and talk things over...... Some people are best kept as a friend, or as acquaintances even if so much ! What you need to do is start loving yourself more than you love him and say it, say "i love myself more than i love him and i deserve more respect", and if he couldnt say it to your face, he coulda write you a letter, there is NO future there !!!.................IN MY OPINION !!!!
  24. kelkel
    making love equals great sex(i would also liek to point out making love doesnt always include sex.....its deep!).....just because u get so much more........ the person gives themself to you on levels in ways i personal cannot define, and u can feel it in ur bones and your very being and even if u dont....... just being with that person, that makes ur heart skip that beat to pay homage to them, will be enough to consider the mere event great.!! but great sex doesnt equal making love..... for it is you who define the greatness, when that raw thirst for sexual gratification is quenched.
  25. kelkel
    Well let me add my little say to this ! I think EVERYTHING is important in a relationship, but i think different things become more important at different points and different LEVELS of the relationship. SEX definitely cannot be 80% of a serious relationship between 2 people who love each other more than words can say, further more, anybody can have sex, there are one night stands, beastiality, homosexuality, rape, you name it, and then there is making love, which includes sex but that is only such a part of it. Now do NOT attack me or get me wrong u can be in love and have sex (not make love) but that is for pure satisfaction you can do even for yourself. What i am saying is mental connection, physical connection, emotional connection, spiritual connection are far more important!! or else you are simply rutting on each other to get that animalistic thirst quenched ! Sex surely is a part of a relationship, but the percentage of importance is dependent on that specific relationship.......... and the more balanced it's importance is, is the more satisfying it should be, for when all teh connections are in place.......you will realise that you need more than 20% of those connections in the relationship for that sex to mean more and take you to that heaven ! and dont put a lenght of time on it, love was never given a minimum or maximum time limit!
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