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  1. sddeaston
    I think that's cool. You should do whatever you feel is best for you. Because it is for YOU, in the end. Not for friends, or anyone else.
  2. sddeaston
    How old are you? What is your situation outside of the relationship? Do you have friends/family in your area?
  3. sddeaston
    Why do you not value yourself enough to not put up with someone cheating on you? You say you both loved eachother enough to reconcile, but is what he does love? You need to be honest with yourself here. There are plenty of guys out there who are true to their women.
  4. sddeaston
    This is quite the list.
  5. sddeaston
    Psychology, or medical field-oriented classes. TONS of women.
  6. sddeaston
    Maybe her reason for acting out like that is because she has been treated this way in her past. You know her, we don't. Just make sure you are not compromising your own beliefs, morals or well being by defending her when she is wrong, or standing by her and the relationship if she crosses any of your personal lines.
  7. sddeaston
    Hmmm. So, only pick the ones who are *currently* on the pill? These things ARE happening. I have had my share of wild moments and fun times, but they were all shared with my lady at the time. I have also witnessed many girls degrading themselves in public in hopes for ANY kind of attention, and seen guys go home with them, or take them to the nearest dark corner and do what seemed natural. I don't feel like I am missing out on anything. Sex with a woman I am totally into over sex with the random model-like woman...any day.
  8. sddeaston
    I would break up with you. There is nothing you can really do. Either he gets over it or he doesn't. You state that you love him, and plan on spending your life with him. I wonder how those thoughts were overlooked when you were about to take your clothes off with another person? That is not love. In any way. Drunk or not. I think you saying it would not happen if you were not drunk is TOTALLY an excuse, and is only justifying it only in your mind. Or at least making it more acceptable, in your mind. That does not take away from the betrayal he feels. In your situation, the only thing you can do is what he says. If he chooses to move on. Accept it. This is a possibility. As for the ex, why were you hanging around him? Why do you feel it is necessary to do get drunk with him, especially with your history with him? Did you think that would make your boyfriend comfortable? Even if he said he was ok with it (assuming he knew), he still had some lingering thoughts, but being the GOOD PERSON he appears to be, he delt with it. That is caring for someone. I think you are inconsiderate. Someone who lives for themselves. Selfish. Why do you deserve a good man? He certainly deserves better. His choice, though. You did this twice, which is what I find so offensive about this. My opinion of you would drasticly change upon finding about one, but finding out about two, I would begin to see what you are REALLY about. Unfortunately, you have done this to the relationship, and it is irreversible. I think it is going to take commitment on your part. Not commitment to the relationship, he already knows your capabilities. I mean commitment to being a better person to him, and in general.
  9. sddeaston
    These people will grow up (hopefully) someday. I felt bad for her just reading this. Tell her to keep being her sweet self, and she can't go wrong. She will find her niche. It may just be after high school when she meets people with some substance to them, and not just people looking for a way to feel good about themselves. You are a good person for wanting to help her. Just be there for her, and help her when you can.
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  11. sddeaston
    Just put your legs on his shoulders if your hips get tired. He would enjoy that
  12. sddeaston
    Wait...think what is cool, sorta?
  13. sddeaston
    I just don't like how all these people talk about "the jocks are mean, inconsiderate jerks" "they stereotype everyone and treat them like crap." Then you see these same people degrading someone because they *look* like a "jock". Not even because they *are* a jock and *are* mean to people. I have been cheated on, and I have been screwed over by close friends. I have had to deal with the death of family members, and losing contact with people I wanted to be surrounded by forever. NEVER, was it the fault of that nerd that I could not stand, nor was it the skater who always taunted me because he knew that if I acted out, that I would be kicked off my team. It just was. I would suggest that other people try to take this stand point, because that is a major step towards being responsible.
  14. sddeaston
    I was a POPULAR....JOCK in High School and I am about to go on a vacation next month, thanks to my recent raise because of the JOB I am at now. And let me tell you, I do not sell shoes. I pay to get them shined. I am aware that my post will probably get deleted, but I hate it when people say "jocks" or "popular kids" as if it is a bad thing. What about all the skaters, nerds and loners? To tell you the truth, I still see them hanging out at the SAME storefronts. Sad really. Revenge will never get you anywhere. Just be worried about yourself, you are all you can control.
  15. sddeaston
    This, I feel, is an EXTREME generalization. There is this family I am VERY VERY VERY good family friends with. Have been all my life. These people are the kindest, most nurturing people I have ever met. They own three rott's as of right now, and I know of at least 3 others they have owned during the time we have been family. These people would kill someone for harming or being abusive towards ANY animal. Along with this family I know a lot of other rottweiler owners, all of which treat their dogs, as well as other people kindly. I think this is as versatile as any other argument pertaining to things people have that will tell you about them as a person. It is very one-sided. That said, rott's are notorious for being aggressive, that much is definitely true. But no one can tell me that all people who own rotts are aggressive, violent individuals themselves.
  16. sddeaston
    Classic
  17. sddeaston
    How old are you? I find that the older I get, the more that kind of thing turns me on!! One day you will probably appreciate it.
  18. sddeaston
    DISCLAIMER: DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS NONSENSE
  19. sddeaston
    I agree. You deserve to be that happy with someone who will be as devoted to you, as you are them. Leave him. Sorry this has to happen though, I don't understand people and their reasons for not just getting out of their relationship. Selfish, I guess.
  20. sddeaston
    It won't. Take it from someone who has gone down that road. IT WON'T
  21. sddeaston
    Good Post!
  22. sddeaston
    Man, no one pays attention to other people at the gym. If they are looking at you and making fun of you, they are insecure themselves....just go do it and you will start to feel better. Nevermind the idiots.
  23. sddeaston
    Ha ha ha ha ha. Aww, someone does care. Thanks scout. I may even let the pups sleep in the house tonight on account of your kindness.
  24. sddeaston
    No. I was looking for reassurance
  25. sddeaston
    LOL, I had to say that this made me laugh. I was reading this wondering why in the hell this helps this person.
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