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  1. onmyownagain
    Perhaps he just doesn't want to perform oral sex. You might just have to accept it after all I am sure there are lots of things you wouldn't enjoy. What if he wouldn't stay with you because you don't want anal sex or wont wear a gimp mask etc. For the record my wife has never performed oral sex on me although I am happy to do this for her.
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    Wow, just looking back at some of my old posts. Would you believe I am still struggling with this after all this time, still can't stop thinking about him. I am thinking about getting some sort of councilling because she said I am making no progress and she still feels like she is walking on egg shells all the time. Real bummer.
  3. onmyownagain
    Takes two to tango!
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    Don't tell him. I found out my wife saw someone else when we were not together and now three months later I still think about it. Believe me, I wish I didn't know! She wasn't with me as we had split so it was none of my business, I know this to be true but my heart doesn't believe me
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    Wow, I was in a similar position to you six months ago when my wife chucked me out. She had time for everyone else but me and the more I tried to get her attention the more she backed away until she felt suffocated and asked me to move out. (See my previous posts for more details). Relationships need to be 50/50, I guess when I moved out it was 90/10 in her favour. Now we are back together it is 60/40 in my favour and things are very different now. Sorry to have to say this but it looks as though you are going to be following the same path as me especially if you offer an ultimatum.
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    You hear on here all the time that when you split up you should cut off your ex completely, dump all feelings for them, their health is not your concern etc. But what if in a few months you get back with them as I have with my wife. You have all these barriers up which make you extremely selfish. I have been home now for three months and realised the other day that my wife and daughter have been on eggshells around me because I am now so uncompromising about anything. I have used the expression I will not take any more * * * * from anyone and wont be made a fool of. The only thing is, for a relationship to work you have to make lots of compromises, so I am buggering things up if I don't let go. So now I am trying to let go and be a bit more easy going, but boy, doesn't that go against the grain!
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    One of the problems I had in my marriage was the grass is always greener mentality. You see your single friends out with a lovely new woman with tales of endless sex and you think, huh I am stuck with my boring wife who never wants it when I do. My wife and I split for three months recently and I now we are back with each other I can tell you that none of the above now apply. If I go to a bar with my single friends now I feel sorry for them and the rest of the people trying to get in each others pants all evening, looks pathetic to me. I look forward to going home at the end of the night to my lovely wife. I am not saying all married couples you split up for a while but it does but your relationship back into perspective.
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    Hi again, Sorry Royltnxile, I don't fully agree with you. I think if you dump someone but realise later you made a mistake, it is hard to admit to the other person. Also, just because they are the dumper, they may expect you to dismiss them without thinking because of the pain they put you through. This is what my wife thought I would do so it took her a long time (and a bottle of wine on evening) to pluck up the courage to want to talk. After I went home for the chat and stayed the night, she thought I might be there for revenge and would dump her in the morning. I don't think they are all going to shout "I love you and want you back".
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    I think for me, my wife contacted me more and more via email and texting. Started emailing jokes etc. You will often here on enotalone here about the ex just putting out feelers every now and again to keep you as a backup plan, but if you get contacted every day for no apparent reason and you know for a fact they are finding excuses to do this, I would say this is a sign.
  10. onmyownagain
    Thanks Dako. I appreciate that.
  11. onmyownagain
    Oh I see. Well she made this monster when she kicked me out in the first place. A don't plan to act on any of these things anyway, I am happy to be home again and my wife to be treating me the way she should have before I had to move out before.
  12. onmyownagain
    Dako, voice in my head? Care to explain?
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    Got back with my wife in early January after a three month split and we are doing fine at home. The only thing is I seem to have become a babe magnet! Everywhere I go I have women flirting with me. The girls at work are really outrageous and when I go to bars women I have known for years are making a move on me! They all know I am back in my marriage again and I don't take them up on their offers but this is so weird. Wasn't like this when I was single again so I wonder why it is happening now? I must be giving off some strange vibes I guess
  14. onmyownagain
    Is she tech savvy? If not, why don't you break your internet connection? Install a firewall or something like that and misconfigure it
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    The trouble is, if you back him into a corner he will just smoke when you are not with him. That just makes things worse. All you can do is hope he can give up but you nagging is not going to do it.
  16. onmyownagain
    Used to know a girl like that when I was a young man, her nick name around town was slug for obvious reasons. I didn't start this by the way!
  17. onmyownagain
    Well, she has got away with it twice now, so what do you think the chances of her doing it again are?
  18. onmyownagain
    I think your ex must be a nasty piece of work to say that to you, even if it is true it is a horrible thing to say. Maybe she said it because she is hurting and wants you to suffer as well.
  19. onmyownagain
    I guess a quy with a 5 inch penis who can bang away for an hour is going to be better than a guy with a 9 inch penis who lasts 20 seconds!
  20. onmyownagain
    This topic comes up all the time, do a search for birthday etc. I would suggest you don't send a card because you are no longer together, if you are sending it because you want to get him back then again don't send it, it wont make any difference in the end.
  21. onmyownagain
    Think girth is more of an issue with women after they have had children because things get more baggy for them and the vagina gets longer. Men. If you are small and are going to have children then get your wife to have CS instead of a vaginal birth. Pelvic floors for her will improve things apparently.
  22. onmyownagain
    I had this with my wife who started smoking again after quiting for 9 years. It wasn't the smoking I minded it is that she hid it from me and denied it when I suspected she had started again. It is all about deceit and lies.
  23. onmyownagain
    Does she take care of her own pleasure, ie does she masturbate. If she doesn't then I guess she just doesn't like sex.
  24. onmyownagain
    Do you have any friends? Dont try to build your whole life around someone you have had three dates with.
  25. onmyownagain
    Dogg. I have just gone back to my wife after three months apart. She was the dumper but believe me, if they want you back they contact you. They contact you alot!!!!!
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