onmyownagain

Well I went on the date, she is a really nice person and it was nice to have so much attention from someone. It is funny but when you have been married for years you forget just how exiting first dates can be. The body language was incredible although I did explain to her my position and want to just be friends at the moment because I think it would be a mistake to do anything else for now. Still it took my mind off my wife for a while

Just to let you know. I have emailed my wife today to tell her to stop texting me all the time with silly reasons to talk (why do they always do this). What she doesn't know is that tonight I am going out on a date with someone from work, I am sure nothing will come of it but it it nice to feel someone finds me attractive still and asked me out for dinner. My first date in god know how many years, wish me luck!!

It is not a case of being walked on. I own the home my wife lives in but she knows that in the UK I can't make her move out because of our child. In fact I can't make her sell the house until my child leaves full time education. Even when the property is sold I will only get a small fraction of the equity.

My wife asked me to move out 7 weeks ago, because she doesn't feel that she loves me any more and doesn't want to try. We have one child who is 9. Obviously we can't do the no contact thing because of my child and there seems to be an excuse to contact me on a daily basis which probably isn't helping but when we do chat it is normally quite nice. We hadn't been getting on for a while so this is probably not a bad thing in the long run I suppose. The thing that annoys me is that my wife had health problems for most of the time we were together and I stood by her on her many stays in Hospital for many years, I know that it was my duty has a husband, in sickness and in health etc. But although she is not fully healthy now, she is doing better than she had for many years and feel she may want me out because I remind her of the ill years. I know time heals etc and can guess what you are all going to say, but feel I needed to write this down for me really. thanks