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onmyownagain

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  1. Think it depends on your age. I wouldn't want to have more than a quick peck in public but didn't mind so much as a teenager. Still, gives us older people something to laugh at
  2. I think it has shown me that if your relationship is in a good place at the moment then make sure it stays that way. Give your partner the respect they deserve and give it all you have. Don't have silly arguments and know to say sorry if you get that far, even if it isn't completely your fault. Make the most of your time together but allow them to have time without you, but make the time they spend with you the best time they have. I am so happy at home now I could scream!
  3. I think I would tell her to stay away from him, if that doesn't work a smack in the mouth for him might help! He is actively trying to take your woman from you and you are just standing back and letting him.
  4. He obviously knows he can get away with what she likes as she is a walkover! He doesn't need to tell her anything because he can do as he pleases, she will let him do as he wishes as long as he stays with her. Sad really
  5. If you are in your early 20's, then it is up to you to date who you like.
  6. But do you wear spandex? I like to think that you don't and are another classy lady ;-)
  7. But would a classy woman wear spandex in the first place
  8. Quite honestly, in your position I think I would call it a day. I can see you love her but I don't think it is worth it, do you? If you look up my posts you will see I have been through a hell of a lot with my wife but we have been married for 10 years! Sorry mate, but you are in the UK and the country is full of the best women in the world so you will be fine.
  9. Hi, I think the dumping you to see someone else is a problem, but not a deal breaker. She found someone she wanted to see and had probably decided after your row that she didn't want to see you anymore. So she finished with you and then went out with him. You had split up so this is okay. The going out to the cinema after you got back together is a problem though, seems she can't decide if she wants you 100% and is keeping him on the back burner so to speak. I think she needs to stop going clubbing for now and to promise not to see this guy ever again. If she can do this for you, then perhaps you have a chance.
  10. Sometimes when in a bar, the usual women/girls come in looking like they dressed to look as tarty as possible with tiny short skirts etc. But every now and again someone will walk in just looking classy and not tarty. I obviously don't know these woman, what the do for a living or whether they are common or posh. But the just look the part.
  11. Hi theantibarbie23, My point is that this didn't happen so much to the older generations but is common nowadays. People say couples need their own space and to do their own thing. This didn't happen so much in the past.
  12. Another problem these days, woman and men go out with friends to bars/nightclubs and leave their partners at home. They then find themselves in a position where they are getting lots of attention from members of the opposite sex which seems exciting compared to the boring partner at home looking after the children.
  13. It doesn't have to be right of wrong. If you can't live with the fact she has this friend then you can do as you please. If she doesn't lose the friend then you both have to deal with it in your own ways. For you, it seem that leaving is the only option.
  14. DN, You are so right on this one, my wife kicked me out in September and I went back in January. Feels like home again now, but took a long time to feel this way and I own the house!
  15. You started dating him when he was with someone else. If he is that type of person, I would think he may do the same to you one day if things don't work out. Also, being beautiful doesn't make any difference to how much of a relationship you are going to get, we all deserve 100%
  16. Hi, My wife and I got back together in January after a 3 month split. It has taken me until recently to be happy again because she told me to leave in the first place it takes a while to get over this when you return home, look at my previous posts to look at some of things I had to go through. We are stable now but tend to refer to things as before the split or after, but I must say I am the happiest I have been for years and actually we look forward to seeing each other everyday and spend a lot of time just talking.
  17. Just touching her skin? Probably kill her if you went down on her
  18. The thing is mate, when you are married and you want to get your wife in the mood she will see see what you are up to a mile off. So it just isn't going to work. When you are just 21 and dating it is different I guess, from what I remember anyway This wasn't a personal attack on you, and my love life isn't as bad as it probably sounds after typing this.
  19. Sex is good, but making love is something else
  20. Budman, You aren't correct. If she isn't in the mood then what chance does he have? My wife sometimes turns me down before we even get started because she doesn't want it. Being the best lover in the world isn't going to help you at all if you are pushed away at the starting gate.
  21. I agree, stop chasing after you wife. If she wants you back she will have to come after you, this is what happened to me. But, be warned, if you did get back together, it is no walk in the park!
  22. When I was single and dating women, if on the first or second date she wanted sex, I would oblige but wouldn't want a relationship with her after this. The ones who made me wait until I had got to know them where the ones I formed relationships with. I know this is a double standard and I did sleep with them but I didn't necessarily respect them because they obviously didn't respect themselves. Don't give it up so easily, you are letting a man you barely know enter your body, this is something you shouldn't do at the drop of a hat. Just my opinion.
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