yeawutever
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No, under NO circumstances does it give you the right to sleep with someone else other than your SO.
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Thanx for sharing your post kermit, unfortunately many people nowadays have affairs and at the end they ruin what they had.
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Whether it was a short or long-term relationship, he could have talk his insecurities issues, there still was no excuse for cheating.
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That's total BS, in NO way was it your fault and she wasn't vulnerable. In my view for a person to be sooo vulnerable that they sleep with someone else would have to be that they were rape or so tie up that they couldn't move, thus being done against their will. But she made her own choice, no one made her flirt or sleep with someone else, she did and choice wrong.
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Well you were young but it's good that you realize what you did was young. I agree with the posters' suggestion on seeking counseling.
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I kissed a girl in a bar when my bf was there
yeawutever replied to surfergirl13's topic in Infidelity
If he wants to get even then he would have to break up with you. Him kissing another guy or girl to get to make it equal isn't getting even, it's rather him having the mental capacity of a 10 year-old. -
Luvingxsomeonexpecial Nope, hitting isn't a any of showing that you love someone. If you hit it means you lack self-contro whether someone tells you to do it or not.
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It doesn't matter the gender she cheated on you with. Straight or not, it's sitll cheating if you and your SO had agree not to seek pleasure from someone else. Yet she was gonna cheat again, I suggest you kick her to the curb.
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It's people's different views on how exactly they define commmitment and marriage. Some think marriage as "I will be with you until death separates us", but come to think of it divorce rates are increasing. So what happens if you divorce and after that. meet your next partner (and you were one of those waiting till marriage)? Then come to think of it, couples living together have the almost the same basic components marry people have, the only difference is a written paper saying you're marry, otherwise is pretty much the same thing. For me, I didn't choose to wait for marriage, instead it was when I knew I was in love and when it was the right moment. Nope I do not regret it.
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the 1st kiss is the most important, right?
yeawutever replied to swertyqwerty's topic in Relationship Advice
My first kiss has already been 2 years ago. Was it so important and memorable? Nope, I didn't even have strong feelings for the guy I dump 7 days after becomg his g/f. -
I would not be able to survive that. It would be too much for me and I don't like the idea of being replace plus all the "Oh what if it happens again" game. I got no patience for it. To all those that survive infidelity, congratulations, you must have a special talent.
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Seems that you were lacking affection/attention at a very early age and wanted to be recognize. Now that you are, you say you don't know how to stop yourself from cheating on your b/f. Have you thought of counseling? You do not need other mens approval to be happy, you just need to be yourself.
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Girls are like roses with sharp thorn
yeawutever replied to Massari's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
Right on, I agree. However a rose without thorn would be a doormat that has no voice at all. You gotta have at least a few thorns, it means that you can stand up for yourself and won't let anyone make decision for you or abuse you. At times thorns can serve as a warning, something like "Mess with me and you're out, it's over". Masari don't give up, just b/c you ended up in a rocky relationship doesn't mean the next one is gonna be like that too. -
Have you thought of moving out b/c she seems emotionally/verbally abusive to you. When she broughts this up again, how about telling her "Alright mother if it's my fault I got rape, do you even know some marial arts movements if a stranger were to rape you, if so teach them!!!! Then proceed on telling her what she would do if she's either grab from the waist, the side or from behind (I kwo the answer to that one by the way). No, in no way was it your fault, just remember that, it never was your fault.
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So he's mad at you, yet he leaves all of the sudden and has the nerves to tell you that not only he doesn't love you anyone but also doesn't love his child either?? Seems that he was also guilty of the same thing, he probably wanted to look for his own adventure somewhere else. Either way, trust has been broken on both parties and the only way to make the marriage work out if counseling and lots of communication.
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Excellent point there, ditto to that. If she was mature to have sex, then why would she need a friend to solve her problem, when she has to solve it herself. Now to the poster: Do inform your parents immediately, as harsh as it sounds, you have to, you're still underage afterall. From now on, never have unprotected sex.
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Right go on with having unprotected sex (no condoms nor pills), let's see how far that goes before you become a father.
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I'm now reading the article and it sure sounds interesting. Thanx for sharing that hubman!!!!!!!!
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Not it's not weird Kiwi, I'm don't like jewelry that much either, I also hate wearing rings, agh, they're annoying.
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Lack of communication skills, in every relationship you're suppost to talk what makes you feel angry and uncomfortable. If the relationship doesnt; work, simply break up and walk away. Perhaps you were bottling it all up until you explode, that's not good. For your next future relationship, don't talk while you're angry, but when you're calm and can reason. If the person in returns chooses not to reason, simply walk away. As for how can you stop it from ever happening again? Simply: By taking anger management classes
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No offense but I would have dumped you too, right away deal breaker for me, no "Oh but I didn't mean too, but it's my first time". My b/f is well warn if you ever does that, not only will I retaliate in return but I would never contact him ever again, not even as friends. At the end no one makes you hit anyone, you chose to. And it clearly seems you two were just not right for each other, the relationship was rocky from the start, thus there was no point in continuing it. Do yourself a favor: Go single for a while until you are ready to settle down with the right girl. Oh and do get yourself anger management classes. Civilized people don't yell or shout nor get physical on beloved partners.
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How about keeping a photo of your g/f in a locket and whenever you get tempted to cheat, look at it so you can see who you are going to hurt if you do. By the way you did cheated kissing the other girl. It seems that you confused love for infatuation or maybe you're happy with the idea of thinking you're in love. Don't get yourself in those situation where you find yourself flirting with other women, try staying away from them. Also start thinking why would you need to seek pleasure somewhere else when you have a g/f?
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Well if it's working out, keep that to yourself. Yea rumors spread fast alright but you can say that the person was flirting with you. Afterall it's not liek you had sex or an ongoing affair. Yes kissing was your mistake but not as bad as having an affair.
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First of all happy b-day Bewitched1101. If your mom is so selfish enough to forget your b-day, you still have your b/f, his family and.or your friends that care about you. Do start saving money to get a car, which you will and also start planning on when you're gonna move out.