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  1. jimthzz
    have you tried removing her pantyhose first? I find that doing so really helps.
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    Just ask him to the walk He figures you asked him to go for a walk and didn't get specific. He's waiting for you to say when and where.
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    most of the porn you see is pee, not true ejaculate. It is very dramatic, but not authentic.
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    you can get it from oral sex. They used to say one type was more common on mouths, another more common on genitals. But now it is generally accepted that you can mix and match just how you get infected mouth to mouth, genitals to genitals, mouth to genitals. You may have given it to her or she had it already. Or she got it recently elsewere. But it seems unlikely the last alternative is what occurred without any evidence to the contrary. She's your new bride.
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    they're pretty much a turn on when attached to a woman who wants me. I've never seen one in person what wasn't pretty. Don't even consider getting surgery for any head tripping you are doing. Even if the guy made a foolish comment don't assume he was criticizing your muff. He may have merely been admiring it dear.
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    library versus games? I'm thinking that was a pretty lame excuse that you lavelled as urgent or an emergency. Your girlfriend would have been just fine going to the library by herself. But even if that is not so or you just preferred her company that day, you knew that your excuse was lame and chose to lie to your friend about it. And on top of all that you don't give him a chance to find something else to do with his time which you have judged to be less valuable than your own. He was a little immature on the phone, but it was in response to your repeated actions towards him.
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    paying dues vs that is your career If what you are doing now will result in improvement in your career down the line you may want to just suck it up while you advance your career prospects. If on the other hand what you have is a Joe Job with no career advancement possible, then start working on getting a better job. Do not quit your current job until you either have a new job lined up or inherit some money or win the lotto.
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    your husband deserves to know what he is dealing with. If you have had relations with him since being intimate with anyone else you have put him at risk of contracting an STD. Have you been tested? If not, please do get tested for HIV, HPV, Herpes, chlamydia, and so forth. Even if you decide you want to stay with him, maybe he wouldn't want you anymore if he knew you cheated on him and desire others, Then again, maybe he is a forgiving man. In either case, he deserves the truth from you so he can decide how to live his life just as much as you deserve to live your life as you see fit.
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    I stand by what I wrote You owe your husband to live a life in which he knows what you are doing. If you stay with him he deserves to know that you have both cheated and still want other men. Wouldn't you want the same for yourself if your spouse was cheating? If you only have affection for him like some friend then free him. Then you will have no obbligations to him anymore for faithfulness. After you divorce you can explore your sexual passions with others with no guilt or repercussions for your husband.
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    do both you and your H and favor and break it off with this other person you've started th cheat with. OK, you get points (I suppose) for having not slept with him yet, but not many. You are totally not ready to have children with your husband. it would be a huge mistake to do so. Instead, what you need to do is have the courage of what you want to do and break up with your husband. Do you have any idea how it will seem to your husband if he finds out you want to stay with him merely out of creature comforts he provides to you? Not good. You do not love him as a romantic interest, he doesn't satisfy you sexually and you want other men. Seems to me you should divorce as soon as possible and live off your own employment. Free your husband to then find someone who wants him. Free yourself to find out what you want.
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    it is the inheritor of Est Beware.
  12. jimthzz
    just decline to see him No need to drive it home that there is no chemistry.
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    needing space usually means they want the option of a private place to have sex with the new person. sorry to be a cynic. She's easing into the divorce and wants to avoid a confrontation with you about her new social life.
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    you dodged a bullet by finding out now what she is before you enmeshed yourself financially or had children. Chalk it up and move on. She is not a reputable person.
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    I hate to tell ya, but this single mother of two living 1000s of miles from you is not your girlfriend in the way that you think she is. I''m thinking she is just trying to break up with you now but can't just say it. People are nonconfrontational sometimes. Stop contacting her. Find an available person who lives near you.
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    it's more like you are willing to hurt your husband, than how you describe it, as allowing yourself to get hurt. You are an active participant, not a victim.
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    Define older? I'm 48 and still consider it important. I fully expect to still consider it important for decades to come. Yet I also know people younger than me who have given up on sex. But if they are married at some point they thought it important to their marriage. If someone goes into a marriage and has no desire for sex than they are merely a platonic friendship with better legal protections for the more dependent person in the partnership.
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    if sex is not important at some stage of a romantic relationship than what you have is a platonic friendship, not a romance. You cannot achieve the heights of emotional connection without sharing sexual experience or two or three or many. What is the point of having an adult relationship with someone and defining it as a romantic relationship without attempting to sharing in all of the joy possible between two people?
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    Just wait until one day after you've been nailing this woman a beefy man accosts you on your way to your car some night and beats the crap out of you. Because her H finds out and wants to punish you. Then when you go to the hospital for your wound you decide to get a blood test for STDs because the guy says something that makes you suspicious. While you're getting better from your injuries, you get a note from your employer about sexual harassment because this lying wife swears to her H you pressured her into sex. Oh yeah, that STD test? It comes back positive for all kinds of nasties. Likely scenario? How much of it do you want to risk over some lady from work?
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    google it again. I even found this variation I dropped a tear in the ocean, the day you find it is the day I will stop missing you. He may not have even seen it the way you saw it with "love" used as the operative word.
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    I'm not sure someone so young loses interest in sex A guy your BFs age is thinking about and wanting sex 24/7. One time in two months would not cut it. He's either "self-involved" or finding it elsewhere.
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    my uncle got screwed in the divorce settlement but with his ex-wife. She got the house, alimony, the whole nine yards. He finally got fed up with making payments to her so negotiated a settlement with her that wiped everything clean. He had to take out a loan to do it. So my uncle goes to Vegas to enjoy his freedom from her even if he is paying a bank for that freedom. He wins one of those dang slot machine jackpots for about half a million bucks. Paid off his bank loan and has money left over. Ex-wife hears of his winnings and tries to get a piece of it but can't, she signed off on their deal. She still owes on their house, she refinanced and is in hock to her ears. Spent the money she got from him.
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    I'll bet it seemed like you were driving mom's car and she gave you money for the date.
  24. jimthzz
    to file a preliminary order for spousal and child support. Look in the phone book.
  25. jimthzz
    Until you figure out what you want. That way you'll have companionship and sexual release. Unless you are honest with multiple men that you expect to continue sleeping with others, then you are unnecessarily complicating your life and ensuring that they won't commit to you. A man that loves you does not want to share you with another man. A man who just wants sex will do it. If that is really what you want, just be honest about that too.
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