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  1. Update again..Well, thing is I haven't heard from any lawyer yet. However he tells me he has talked to one. Plus the court house. He said that as of right now he has been told that the papers still apply to him having the Primary Custody over our daughter. He also told me that I need to get out or he's going to leave and take my daughter with him. Right now, I am scared and I am breaking slowly. I dont know what to do. I dont know if its best to do what so many of my friends tell me to do or not? They say I should leave for a little while and get myself back. Get back on my feet. But the thing is I'll die not having my little girl with me. I almost did last time. I have no clue what to do..I'm about ready to tell him i'll stay with him just to be with my daughter...yeah I'll go insain and be totally and truly unhappy. What else is there to do?
  2. Okay to anwser your questions. No the only family I have to live with is In Washington State and Alaska. I found out from a judge that I can kick him out and he can't take my daughter from me. Best advice the judge gave me was to go file for full or joint custody. So I plan to talk to this lawyer I have found in the pages. Then when I talk to the lawyer I will go downtown to file for full or joint custody. Wish me luck guys and thank you so much for your advice and help.
  3. Well, lets start from the beginning. First things first. I found out my husband went out on a date with another woman. What am I to think? He lied to me. We both had our get out of jail free card the last time we split up. When I found out about this one. I felt hate for him. He come's home; after being on a job in Florida, hugs me. It doesnt feel right at all. We go shopping the next day he tries to put his hand on my leg while he drives. It made me feel sick. So I told him how i felt and that I dont think this is going to work anymore cause this time we cant fix it. He packs and leave's me and our 3 year old daughter (this is what i wanted) come's back a few hours later and says he's not leaving without his daughter and I can't leave with her or he'll call the cops. Me I havent worked since I had our daughter. Right now I'm doing daycare out of my home. I want him out and I want my daughter. I still get treated like a slave. I cook, clean, do laundry, take care of our daughter, give her her baths, change her, and read to her, i sleep on the couch, we have a spare room but he wont buy anything for me, he doesnt care till i get on my feet he says 'why should i waist my money on a woman that doesnt want to be with me'. What am i to say, besides who's fault is that? What does he do now. He's gone out or stayed out late everynight since he's been back. He tells me he doesnt care what i say. He hasnt spent a day home yet with her or even taking her out. We've been stuck in this house for a month now other then my front yard. If I dont clean the house i dont get groceries. I'm in need of clothing and I dont have the money. He wont buy it for me. What do I do, I dont know what to do anymore?
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