Cherishluv

Hey Kanilove: I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. No one should be subjected to this type of heartache! I had the rug pulled out from under me as well, so I feel your pain. I too have no family here and feeling all alone, lost and scared. I wish I had kids. It's just me here in this great big city. I'm trying to tough it out here til it's all over. If you need to talk p.m. me or e-mail me. I'm a good listener and friend.

Hey everyone: I was wondering if anyone had any good, but true "karmic justice" stories about their ex or someone elses ex or relationship (you know, how they got their just reward). I could sure use a good inspirational story right now. It seems like my soon to be ex, despite everything that he has done is not suffering one bit. I have to (no scratch that I need to) believe that what goes around surely will come back around. If you know of something, please share. I guess i'm feeling a little down right now as my pain is relatively new just a month old, moving directly into a divorce, no separation, no negotiation. cherish

I've kept you in my prayers ever since I read your post. It is painful, this I know. How do you deal with the loneliness, and the heartache? I don't drink nor am I into recreational drugs, so is there anything that a doctor can prescribe for this, at times I feel I can't bear it. cherish

Oh my God, I think that he's my soon to be ex's twin. My husband of 17 years is doing the same things. Drinking, infidelity, emotional, economic abuse,sexual dysfunction, blaming me for his un-happiness. Taking money out of our joint account. Threatening to stop helping with bills if I seek part of pension, and ask for my half of the money he took. My hubby did this while I was out of state attending my brother's funeral! My mother-in-law informed me of his intentions to divorce me. He has isolated me from all friend and family, denied me a car and gave me only $30 a week allowance. I worked full-time for 13 years faithfully depositing all my money into the joint accounts. He controlled the finances and all the bills were in his name. Now he's divorcing me and doesn't want me to seek my due. Where is the money? He was economically irresponsible. I hope you can get a low cost attorney. I did. He's going to get his fees from my STBXH. My STBXH thinks that I am going to sign for an "un-contested" divorce. He is in for a rude awakening! Fight back !