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  1. EvaGina
    What does get me with giving up your hobbies is that you are putting other people out. I know my DM would have kicked my heiney if I just decided to quite halfway through a campaign!!! and the band members wont be too happy either. But I suppose thats the price you pay for putting a family in financial strife.
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    She probably wants you to prove that your marriage means something to you. I understand that you will resent her for making you quit music, but perhaps talk to her about giving it up for a month or two? It sounds to me like it might go deeper than the money, that she sees the carelessness with the family's assets as a sign you dont care about them. She might want you to spend the time you would normally spend playing in your band, re-establishing the connection with her. She want assurance that you care... Its a pretty big blow when your partner doesnt care about you enough to keep your finances in check, and then to lie about it... I think its fair, if it is a temporary measure.
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    Just how much he shows me he likes me...
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    How into me he is, the sweet things he does... I might brag a bit about himbeing good in bed and having great arms or somthing, but 98% of bragging is about his personality, how he does all these small yet fantastic things that make my heart pop...
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    If you like punishment that much, you can always come clean my fridge!! Seriously dude, this chick is all over the place. Yes, she might like you, but she has no respect for you and she would mess you up HARD if you forged a relationship with her.
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    yes, C is the only once that will work in the long run, imo assuming the partners dont grow to love each other the same amount but then, how do you measure love?
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    HA what a tart... she jsut wants you to revolve your life around her, she wants you under her thumb. Keep up NC, you dont need a head-case like that manipulating you.
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    funninly enough I had almost the exact some conversation about my dermatitis with Macca, we were even in the car!! The thing is, if she goes "I went but nothing worked well enough for the price" or "I cant afford it" then reassure her its nothing to worry about...
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    lol gah james!?!!!?!!
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    I have scars on my thighs that people question, I just tell them honestly "I was having an emo phase when I was drinking too much"... they just kinda accept it, and if anyone asks any genuine questions about what was going on, I answer them. My scars remind me too... although I dont like them, I dont hate them either.
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    Yep... totally agree with you on this one. You have to be vunerable for it to work, but it makes it so painfull if it falls apart.
  12. EvaGina
    Nah!! Well, perhaps, but dont jump to conclusions!!! I talked about my ex to my current bf a lot, its a nervous thing. She might be pushing you away a little, becuase she likes you!
  13. EvaGina
    You dont want to date him if he is bisexual? May I ask why? It doesnt make it more likely that he will cheat on you or anything.
  14. EvaGina
    I dont know what to say.... There was this amazingly beautifull girl I used to work with, she looked like an aztec from a disney movie, SO beautifull and a perfect body... men would come in, order coffee and come back half nad hour later with flowers for her... She was the sweetest, kindest girl... I miss her a lot, and although it sucked when guys I liked acted like I didnt exist when she was around, I soon learnt that it didnt matter... she had horrible relationships, men would be with her just becuase she was so gorgeous... Remember, being stunning isnt all its cracked up to be.
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    Now, I dont agree with that. NOT dating someone just becuase they have a snaggletooth or becuase they may have slept with "too many" people (haaha, just to refer to recent debate) is one thing... But I dont think you should "take whatever"... I think you should hold out until you are sure they are right for you. A family friend didnt get married until she was 40-somthing... and she is in the happiest relationship I have ever known... her brother said to me at the wedding "she waited a long time to find him"... A good love is well worth the wait
  16. EvaGina
    If she hasnt been broken up for very long, she might be over HIM, but keep in mind, he was probably the person she spent most of her free time with, so her stories are bound to involve him. She probably jsut doesnt want you to think she is still in love with him.
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    I have had quite butch, short hair for years... I love it when guys compliment it (some guy told me that he has NEVER liked short hair on a girl before me ) Its not really touchable hair tho
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    I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I am so scared of getting my heart broken that I day-dream that he cheats and things NOW before I get too involved... I hate to say it, but I even day-dreamed that I died the other day wondered what he would do. I would try to see him more than once every 2 weeks, that would drive me completely mental.
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    I HATE THAT!!! The worst is when they do it about communication things, like.... his ex wanted to be left alone to cool off when she was angry, which is the WORST thing to do to me!! I just want to be held. So if I get annoyed, he backs off, making me worse!! until I have to tell him to suck it up and cuddle me...
  20. EvaGina
    To be honest, I wouldnt date a republican. Purely becuase I cannot fathom how someone could support such as evil as bush and it would make me question someones morals, ethics, values and their level of consideration for people unlike themselves. It would also throw up issues to do with raising children and the like, if you were looking for a life-time partner. (I dont want to start a political debate with this, thats my piece, I have said it, and nothing anyone says will make me think otherwise at this point in time.) APART from that... I dont really know what to say. I am sure people get this problem. I take it you have tried looking outside your normal circles for possible girlfriends?
  21. EvaGina
    If anything masterbation may be helping you keep your head above water... all the endorphines you realease at orgasm cant be bad for you!
  22. EvaGina

    Wow

    EvaGina replied to Gracelove's topic in Sex and Romance

    I masterbate.... I see nothing wrong with it at all... I knew a girl who was 27 and had never done it, a friend and I verbally coached her through it "go home, run a bath...."
  23. EvaGina

    slapped

    EvaGina replied to kiama's topic in Breaking Up Advice

    No.. you arent a mad dog, you are a human. although I agree that you wouldnt have a leg to stand on if he had just slapped you back as you did him (two wrongs dont make a right, it would be better for him to walk away tho) KICKING YOU while you are on the ground is only permissable if you were trying to violently kill him. and even then its more a cose of "push her over and run". WHY be in a relationship that drives you to violence?
  24. EvaGina
    This is just my experience, but I dont think he is right for you. I find that when you are with someone you shoud be with, you are proud of them no matter what they look like. My ex was the best looking man I have ever seen in the flesh (not exaggerating) but I was still all werid iwth him in public, becuase we werent compatible. So, although i think it is totally nasty and shallow to dismiss someone becuase of their weight, imo, you would find somthing else about htem to be embarrassed of if it wasnt his 212lb
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    slapped

    EvaGina replied to kiama's topic in Breaking Up Advice

    I cant get over how wrong this is... Are you really comfortable staying in a relationship that not only drives you to physical violence, but with a man who will PUSH YOU OVER AND KICK YOU?
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