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  1. EvaGina
    I dont see the point in getting engaged if you arent emotionally ready to get married right away financially ready, however, is a whole different kettle of fish
  2. EvaGina
    Not to play games
  3. EvaGina
    Its more an evasion of the truth to save unessecary hassle... I woudlnt do it, but it makes perfect sense, and is understandable. If a someone cheated on an ex in strange circumstances, and they know it wouldnt happen again, I dont see why the new partner needs to know... again, if asked, I would tell, but private lives are called that for a reason
  4. EvaGina
    Who is refusing to be truthfull? Where do you get this from?
  5. EvaGina
    YAY, becuase as we all know, pandering to "stigma" is a sure way of changing things!!! I would like to see these statistics, thanks... seeing as only ONE woman (that I have seen) on this thread has said she wouldnt tell... Perhaps you and the OP are so bitter becuase of how you have been treated in the past, but you could attribute that behaviour to YOUR additudes? Not the "stigma" applied to the women involved?
  6. EvaGina
    -pst- I think its more a limited vocab and a difficulty understanding tone and intent through text... coupled with not really knowing his own point... I dont think he MEANS to sound like its personal I think a bit of leeway is needed here 1: EDIT: Not meant to be insulting, a lot of people find communicating through the written word a trial
  7. EvaGina
    I KNOW!!! When I first met him he was an awkward teenager with bad skin, a TERIBLE haircut and un-cut toenails... I was still instantly attracted to him. I saw him years later, and I knew it was him from 50 metres away... he was unwashed and hairy... but the old attraction was there from the moment I laid eyes on him. You love someone for them, not for how they look.
  8. EvaGina
    I used to thrive on drama... and then I grew up. Not to say I dont like excitment and fun, but dramatics and things are just boring, stressfull and time consuming.
  9. EvaGina
    I dont know if I agree with that. If someone you are planning on being with permermently asks something, you should answer, imo. Its different if you are just messing around or somthing, but for a long-term partner, honesty
  10. EvaGina
    she was being sarcastic... saying women ARENT like that but men seem to think they are (always exceptions, of course)
  11. EvaGina
    good for you, good answer... based on that, I trust you retract your baseless "Women are stigmatizing themselves because when and if the question is asked they refuse to give an honest answer" comment thats all this really comes down to... I dont see how the OP can claim she is a liar if he is dishonest himself
  12. EvaGina
    No one is saying they are victims, you are taking the comment FAR to literally... "blaming the victim" is a psychological process that absolves the one being shallow of blame. they refuse to give an honest answer LOL, how do you figure that? Do you ever actually ASK? do you sneak? or are you like the OP and refuse to believe that your partner may be telling the truth?
  13. EvaGina
    I think my bf is gorgeous... but that is becuase I love him. I have been out with better looking guys... but I didnt see them as being more physically attractive. If I dont like someone, no matter HOW good looking they are, I will find faults with them. I agree with the scent thing... Oh god -crosses legs-
  14. EvaGina
    yup My bf and I were talking about what I am going to wear to my job interview... I suggested things and he was yay or nay-ing them... Just be honest, they cant get angry at you for it...
  15. EvaGina
    People dont like to be judged... I can totally see why a woman wouldnt want to tell someone her number if she was going to be unjustly repremanded for it. The amount of people she has slept with doesnt affect ANYTHING except his perception of her... if she still treats him the same, then what is the problem. Imo, she is better off without him.
  16. EvaGina
    Why would you want to date someone like that? It makes me sad that people can be like that I asked my ex if I looked ok once, he said "yeah,but that jacket makes you look even fatter" I just laughed... hysterically...
  17. EvaGina
    honestly? perhaps with a bit of tact? "I prefer the blue top with those pants" or somthing like that?
  18. EvaGina
    I was like that, but it was because I was called demanding if I ever voiced what I wanted... behaviour like that is LEARNT. Anyways, I got myself out of it... if in doubt, HUG HER... thats all you really need to know. Its so easy... they WILL tell you what they want, but they dont expect to have to ask for it every time.. you should remember if she tells you "when we fight I just want a cuddle to calm down, then we talk"..
  19. EvaGina
    But he doesnt want to ask her, he wants to be sneaky, becuase he doesnt trust her? What are we going to do? advocate diary reading? If hes certain she is going to lie, what is he doing with her anyway? (that women halve, men double thing is absolute bs, btw)
  20. EvaGina
    He called you back becuase you asked him too... Call him back, it would be rude not to. From his lack of replies, I would say he isnt ready to talk to you yet but is trying to be nice.
  21. EvaGina
    Its not rude to ask, but just ASSUMING she would lie, and instantly dumping her if it is over an allocated number, with no regard to her past... is evil. He should just ask, she should tell him the truth. I have slept iwth MANY men, and if my bf asks, I will tell him. The stigma is only alive becuase of "men" like this. LOL... we know... we know...
  22. EvaGina
    -shakes head- 1. If someone IS ashamed about their past, how could you be amazingly pig-headed, childish and NASTY as to hold it against them? A LOT of people have emotional problems that translated into sexual relationships... I would MUCH rather someone who was understanding who had slept around than a heartless, vindictive elitist. 2. Sex is fun, just becuase someone slept around between partners, it doesnt mean they ever cheated or anything... and it really is NONE of your business. 3. Does she have a right to know how many times you have masterbated? What you think about when you do? if you have ever anally stimulated yourself? NO... as long as she is clean in a medical sense, it is NOTHING to do with you.
  23. EvaGina
    I find that guys who make TOO MUCH eye contact are freaky
  24. EvaGina
    I know they say its only a teaspoon... but I beg to differ.... I was with a guy once that actually saturated me.. and macca isnt much better... ITS MORE THAN A TEASPOON anyways... I sort of understand what the OP is saying.. its a huge turn on and quite intimate
  25. EvaGina
    Just raise your chin up to expose your throat and groan "oh god I love it when you kiss my neck" then moan a lot when hes doing it... positive reinforcement
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