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  1. confused_male_32
    thanks! I really like this girl and would definitely like to have kids with her. It's upto her though. I asked her today and she said she feels the same way about me.
  2. confused_male_32
    I just started seeing this girl and we had sex for the first time. It wasn't the best but it was good. I used a condom but while we had sex but I had a strong desire to cum inside her without any protection on so that she could feel my sperms in her. Though, I would never do it without her consent, I can't get this desire out of my head. Is this normal? I have never felt like this with any other girl and in fact was always worried about accidental pregnancy. With her I somehow feel different and I am so attracted to her. How do I bring up this topic with her?
  3. confused_male_32
    It's a blessing to have a wonderful family such as yours and it would be a shame to see it breakup. Counselling will only postpone the problem but will not really solve it. What you guys are missing in life is thrill!!! I don't know what you guys do for fun or on vacation but try some stuff outdoors. Get her involved in stuff which requires some physical exertion and has an element of danger to it. Go to Hawaii and try surfing, don't just lay on the beach all day and drink umbrella drinks. Go to Chile in the summer and ski. I know these are crazy things to do, but fear is an awesome aphrodisiac. She needs to see you as a strong alpha-male in her life and not just a nice guy who takes care of the kids. Imagine going down a steep ski slope where you think you will die every second but by some miracle you make it (most people are scared but rarely anything happens). You feel the adrenaline rush, endorphins bursting in your brains. Bring her back to the lodge, rip her clothes and make love to her. Trust me on this, you would have not only saved your marriage but learnt something about yourself as well.
  4. confused_male_32
    I was actually planning to wait till friday and ask her out on saturday night. But, I think now friday may be too long of a wait
  5. confused_male_32
    Thanks guys! I will txt her tomorrow.
  6. confused_male_32
    she said as we parted that night that she had an awesome time. The thing is that she doesn't say much, French Canadian (just starting to pick up english), so it's hard sometimes to read her. She is also very shy and doesn't initiate contact unless I do. Also, she is just out of a five year relationship and very vulnerable. I don't want to crowd her personal space, which I think she needs right now. I will however take the advice you guys are giving me very seriously.
  7. confused_male_32
    So, I just start seeing someone and I spent an awesome evening with her, she likes me a lot and we kissed. After that we parted ways and went home. I want to know if short term NC, meaning no e-mail of phone for a few days after the date an ok to do? I don't want to appear needy. say she doesn't mail or call me in the next few days, is that a bad thing? I am planning to wait a week before giving her a call
  8. confused_male_32
    Thanks! nice post
  9. confused_male_32
    Thanks dude! nice post. Allow me to explain myself: I do want to go deeper. Ok! the question is how?!!! I feel at this point I don't want to sequester all her time with me on the couch. I think this will remind her of her ex- all the time. Instead, my plan is to take her out to dancing, partying so that she doesn't have think about her ex- all the time. I can hope that way she sees me not as a reflection of her past relationship but as someone who is different. b.t.w did I mention that she is a pro level shredder on a snowboard. I have seen her at her happiest when she is ripping it up in the snowpark.
  10. confused_male_32
    Not helping one bit dude!! I just wanna know the best possible moves for me for this friday night not my next 20 year plan with her. I want her to go out with me and have some fun!! Her sitting at home and moping and "thinking things through" as you put it is not gonna help. I much rather express my feelings to her clearly and take my chance than play the waiting game wondering "I coulda, shoulda, woulda......". I am trying to be her lover not her buddy or her shrink.
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    Ok! I have seeing this girl a few times now. She is just out of a five year relationship (been three months now). We went out for dinner on Valentine'd day and then she came back to me place. We became cozy on the couch and I held her in my arms and kissed her. Now! here is the thing....she doesn't mind if I hug her and kiss her but she never initiates anything on her own. She told me that she likes me a lot but she was hurt pretty bad after the breakup and wants to take things slow. We are going out again on friday night and snowboarding on sat. My question is, what should be my next move? ANSWERS I AM NOT LOOKING FOR: (1) be patient and take things slow. (I know this already) (2) She doesn't really like you but you are like a new dress she is trying on anyway (3) You have no chance with her so give it up. (I have been told that before by people on this forum and I plain don't believe it). (4) Get her drunk and have sex with her. (5) She is about to dump you in the friend zone so be careful. If there are people out there who have been either in my situation or her situation, please let me know what you guys did and how you dealt with the situation.
  13. confused_male_32
    just got an e-mail from from her and she accepted my dinner proposal. Actually, I am feeling more nervous than ever.
  14. confused_male_32
    Long story short, I have gone out with this girl a few times. We are both pro-shredders on snowboards and that's how we met. Went out for dinner dates, kissed for a bit ! but havn't had sex yet. With Valentine's day coming up, I e-mail her yesterday asking her if she would go out with me for dinner on Valentine's day. So far, no response from her. She usually writes back in a few hours. She is just out of a five year relationship and she is still a bit hurt about it. I can't figure out if she is really into me. I know I should be patient and what not......but how do you deal with a situation like this. Please let me know if anyone has faced similar situation and how they dealt with it.
  15. confused_male_32
    I think you may be right about that. We have been out together a total of six times in four weeks. I kissed her for the first time when we went snowboarding for the first time together in the second week and that was our third time out together. The last time we went out, we got dinner and we came back to her place. I tried to make out with her and after a really brief period of kissing, she withdrew and said "it's been a while and she is not very good at this". I held her in my arms and she seemed comfortable. Shortly after,I left and we have had e-mail contact after that. Though, we plan to go snowboarding next week.
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