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  1. Then a professional is required. If you can't make it better than definitely time to invest into getting a professional to help you
  2. Take care of your condoms. Don't carry it around in your walet. Don't leave it in a car bc the heat change between sunny hot morning and cold nights can damage it. Make sure it's not some cheap condom. Check out what types are the safest (durex ultra thin are americas top).
  3. Well...have you suggested doing things? Or is it that she brings you ideas to do and....you follow with no input? Give some input. Want control? Find things to do and take her places. Tell her you want to be more involved in the plans you make. Or dump her and find yourself a silent introverted no fun type. Honestly, to me you sound a little bit like a girl. What's your problem? You're with a girl that brings you out to places, makes plans for you guys so you can both go out and have fun, makes you see life outside your house...and you complain about the fact that you follow along. Well...you don't want to follow along then don't, get some balls -pardom my french. You don't like her? Dump her. You like her? Keep her. You want a different type of girl go get her? You want to be involved? Find places to go, get your own friends. Get more involved in your own life, or do you want to be a mop for the rest of your life?
  4. Bankrupsy doesn't sound good at all...you're way too young to **** that up now. I wish I could give you more advice. Talk to your college councelor, he must have some kind of advice. Really tell them about your situation. Get a student loan? Family might help? Really evaluate what you need to complete the degree and make living sacrafices? Maybe your councelor or the teacher whose class you're failing could give you an incomplete due to your health...that's possible in my school...you go to psychiatrist, he diagnoses you, you give letter to councelor and (in my school) you get incomplete for the entire semester. Frankly, I'm disappointed you didn't finish your other degree...9 credits is nothing. You should have just pushed through and finished it...even if you're not going to really use it (which it seems to me that you would, concidering your new major is very similar)...it'd be better if you had it under your belt, rather than wasting all of that time in school. I'm sorry I can't give you any more help.
  5. I was a virgin with my sweetness, and he was not by far. I know what you mean by your jealousy. We have an incredible relationship, he's my life, but we do talk about everything so obviously my little hook ups and head games i played we talked about, and he talked about his girls he has been with...not real details on his side, he mainly just told me: because of the fact that he is completely in love with me he felt like he now knows what making love is and that just being with girls to satisfy your need is nothing compared to what is between us (I think this is what you should remember...when there's love involved...it's so much different than just messing around with someone...once you guys do get to MAKE love...it'll be the most incredible night, and everything on from that night will only be better ). What got to me is when he talked to me about the girl he's been with in Germany while he was active duty in army. A red light district girl but the supermodel type deal...i've gotten to see pictures of the type, and a description...haha thinking about it even now makes me jealous. I guess he told me about a little too many details. Jealousy. It goes away with time. It might be that it won't until you guys finally make love, but it'll go away. Just remember what you guys have is something on a completely different level than anything she experienced and you experienced before. Frankly, I have to give you applause for hanging in there for 16 months with virginity intact... when we got together, i actually had to set a three month rule for us because we just couldn't keep our hands off each other...he's the one that got me to keep that three month rule...i was all about breaking it. Sweet sweet chemistry .
  6. Don't worry just go for it He's probably very respectful so it's up to you to let him know: hey, this girl needs some more play. Slowly guide his hand, i think he'll be a little more open after that moment haha
  7. He told me he loved me about two to three weeks into the relationship by hinting at it (he knew i wasn't ready to hear it but he really wanted to say it). When i talked to him about it and brought it up about his sneaky text messages and hints he told me he'll tell me when i'm ready. I couldn't keep fighting against saying it at about month and half to two months. We're both very protective about our hearts so it was the first time we told someone this. It's the most incredible relationship, he makes me so happy! We're in it for the long haul. He's an amazing person, just a beautiful person It took many nights of worry and bad dreams to decide that I wasn't crazy, and it wasn't too soon to feel like that. It's right when it's right.
  8. "I think relationships often take work as far as learning how to communicate effectively about awkward issues and how to deal with criticism and how to give it." True. I think really it is the only work that should be between each other. Learning to communicate, understand, be openminded, learn from each other, accept differences and celibrate the beautiful feeling of being with this incredible person. I always see it as fighting in the world together, not fighting each other...there's never a reason to fight against one another. I think you stop fighting when the other person doesn't fight for it as hard or on the same level as you are.
  9. Light green, dark green, tan shirt, tan boots Your blood type, name, religion jingles near your heart -Once covered in dust, heated in a scorching sun- The tags jiggle in cold weather. On the phone with you, I hear your unit friends joking: "I'm going to learn Arabic,“ "Why man?" you ask "I figure that's the likeliest place they're going to send us this time, so I might as well" I ignore it; you ignore it. 2am... Hearing your body turn, lugs exhale …you’re awake too… No sounds, taking my journal you write: "Since I met you, I'm afraid to die." Unlikely I'm sure, technically 50% chance you'll leave, but unlikely; They'll take the fresh ones first. Sleeping without your skin Without your scent Midnight kisses Morning breath Smiles Laughs Breakfasts in bed Arms holding me 2am… You roll over, scoop me into your arms So tight we could melt, Exhale; relieved, asleep.
  10. I know what you mean...my boyfriend is just a smidge too long for me so if i'm tense or sometimes just in the beginning before all the engines are up and running, he can't thrust as deep as he wants because it hurts. Don't fight the pain, slow down or tell him to go a little lighter in the beginning, it'll go away with time. It doesn't usually happen to me anymore. Also...since you just started i should mention this too...the first time i had this kind of pain was about two weeks after i lost my virginity... i was wondering why it didn't hurt in the beginning...check if you have Urinary track infection symptoms....just incase.
  11. I don't know that I would recommend going into sex that soon in the relationship, but to each his own. I assume you mean anything sexual at all. Making out? Nothing? I think shedding a piece of clothing here and there would do it lol, kissing a little more passionately would also definitely get his blood boiling. No kiss? It's time to start being more playful, touchy feely. I suggest after a few hints, if that doesn't work, just talk to him about it. He probably has his own reasons for not putting on the moves yet. But really...don't rush it
  12. Haha yeah I know exactly how you feel Everytime I try to explain or write a post I feel like a little kid lol because everything is so pure and... right. That, and the fact that people tend to be so negative when you show them something amazing It is a very stange feeling to be held by someone and it feels like the world would be just a little less if it wasn't him that was holding you
  13. Aww I'm sorry to hear this, please keep us updated. You seem like a wonderful husband, it's very sad the way she is treating you
  14. "I know he loves me, and I love him with all my heart - maybe once weve achieved what we want to, in time if its meant to be we will get back together." I hope so O
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