holyohio

Ok. Check this out. Everyone who is reading this thread in privacy...take your shirt off. To arouse anyone, try to lightly caress their FLANKS. Your flank is the area about six inches below your nipples to the side, almost directly under your armpits. Try to touch this area as lightly as you can. You are doing it correctly if your nipples get real hard and you get a very ticklish, yet sensual feeling. If you are ever making out with anyone else and they happen to be without a shirt try this tactic. Im sure it will help "lubricate" any problems you might have. Many of my girlfriends have become ridiculously wet purely because I work these areas by LIGHTLY BRUSHING them with my FINGERTIPS while I kiss or hold them. The cool part is that you can see if you are doing it correctly if their nipples become hard. You can increase the sexual tension if you LIGHTLY kiss and caress their nipples when you see you are getting a positive response. But still, its fun because you can feel how it feels for the other person by doing it to yourself. Who wouldn't like that? I haven't met anyone who hasn't.

well done !

then in your case it would be the answer, that is, that what you voluentarily give up, not the question, that offends you. what do you volunetarily give up, you get it?

if that is true of the gradient (which I will assume it is) ...what do you tell other girls? 1.)the truth 2.) bigger than said 3.) smaller than said?

for the sake of science(however naivly) can you please elaborate "into me" so we can be on the same page? some may define it as how acutely he responds to your wants/needs or how he responds to yours, but we need a concrete definition to help us. we can do a how men evaluate women at the end of this if anyone is interested and can make a new topic, i just cant cause I have a topic on the 1st page.

Agree with the sense of humor, it's essential. Neccesary to balance the confusion between the sexes... Apologies for thinking you were a girl poster, but owl avatars are....kinda...girly?! sorry !

Hypothetical case: When you are bragging to your girlfriends about someone you have recently started dating...what qualities to do you emphasize? The main idea that im trying to get to here is that someone who has started dating a person that they like will tend to want other women(/friends/men) to evaluate him/her highly. Which qualities are they? When you gossip with your best girl friend about your new boy, what conversation takes place(assuming you want her to like him)? How about when you meet a girl who you just merely know, what brief conversation do you have that makes them positively/negatively evaluate your significant other? edit: And if you heard these from one of your friends...what qualities seemed more important to you as far as hearing a positive/negative attribute and negatively/positively evaluating them. i.e. "Oh he's so cute and charming...*blah blah blah* but he smokes"... some might say smoking is a turn on, most smoking a turn off....which effets you more? how do you evaluate things you hear positively/negatively towards a new potential suitor to your best friend? most times women will tend to try and get their best friend to like their new boyfriend (the same goes with men, but I can't start a new topic til this is off the front page) Just curious, no judgement will be passed through these doors let it out ! it's just girl talk ! For Curiosities Sake, holyohio

You're right. It's called rape. I was not reffering to skill required to actually HAVE sex. I mean game, it takes skill to pick up women and persuade them to have consentual sex with you.

As a male, bedding a female is more challenging than a female getting a guy in bed. Thus, there is a certain amount of skill/game/thrill of the chase required by the male to land attractive females. There isn't much skill required, nor praise earned when you bang the chick who has already slept with the entire football team.

I'm not bitter. I have a girlfriend of almost a year and i love her very much. I was attempting to be objective.

Im just trying to answer the question. I've never and will never use a prostitute. Nevertheless, it is still kind of funny that the article assumes that picking up a hooker is common practice among men...wrong. Hookers dont care whether you're a Harvard Law grad or a homeless guy living under the 405. They dont judge the value/health of their relationship based on your potential earnings. They don't compare and contrast you to their other hooker buddy's latest catch. They don't complain about never getting to go out to dinner, ask you to buy them drinks, nag about your clothes, hairstyle, fingernail length, driving skills, etc. They don't demand house payments to wear on their finger as a sign of committment. They're honest. They know what they're getting paid for. Thus the basis of their appeal for some of the less fortunate.

Women often wonder, "Why would a man pay for sex when it is easily obtained for free in our society?" Because prostitutes are cheaper. Everyone pays for sex.

Bwahaha, masturbating to porn and not getting caught by my parents for 6 years from when I went through puberty to when I moved out was no problem ! Hiding it from an insecure, judgemental, and naive girl would be a piece of cake !