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    I feel sad when people die and all. But confession time: I cried when I was the first leaving for college at 18 but it was just eye welling some. And I cried at my brothers wedding like just enough to wet my eyes and thats it but that was a pretty emotional weekend and I was tired. Those are the only times I can remember crying since I was ten. I am like Christina Yang on "Grey's Anatomy" unemotional but passionate about my interests. If that can give you all a description.
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    I used to cry a lot when I was little and then after going through puberty I just couldn't cry. I haven't been able to cry since I've been 10. And I'm not that emotional except when a child is hurt then I become angry. I'm like a guy in the emotion department. And I'm not depressed. I feel I am in the right place at the right time these days. I am very content right now.
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    I've been wondering this lately: Is it healthy for me not to be able to cry anymore? Such as the fact whenever someone in my family or church dies, I don't cry. And whenever someone does something that is really touching, I appreciate it and my heart is warm, usually the other girls around here start to cry. I just can't cry.
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    I think we all have those moments when we feel nothing. Did you just come through a struggle? Thats usually when I feel nothing. I think we just need to get through those times. What usually helps me through those is to go out and do something for someone. One of those times I went outside and watered all my mom's flowers that she could not get to that day. Or just write a friend a note. Hope this helps.
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    I don't know why problems come in twos or threes for other people. For me its when my friend has problems usually within three months of her problems I will get problems. Such as when my friend got into a car accident(she has been in three) two or three months later I got into one(I've been in 2). And my friend got into her third one this summer so I'm a little nervous. Hope your problems get better.
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    I don't think it's selfish. Maybe when your child is older you and your fiance can join the Army or National Guard so you both can achieve a dream you both have. Some of the branches make exceptions for women with small children. I admire anyone wanting to serve our country.
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    I have a friend like yours. And I can't abandon her, it just isn't in my nature. And cuz I have a feeling she needs me. I would keep being friends with her. My friend doesn't expect sympathy, just someone to listen. Hope this helps.
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    I was like you when I was your age. My two best friends were getting close in middleschool and on to 10th grade, I felt so alone then cuz they were leaving me out of things. They still included me in some things. Then for some reason they just can't get along and that happened in the middle of 10th grade. Now they can't be around each other for more than 10 minutes and I have to hang with one friend one night and the other friend the next night. I did the same thing two nights in a row: go out to eat and shopping. So "Cat" and "Sarah" may grow apart but who knows. There is hope for your friendships.
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    Sorry, it's just that the area I come from thinks that its ridiculous for anyone to get a doctorate unless you are to become a medical doctor or dentist or lawyer or anything. They think education is important to a point, a four degree. But my parents value education so I'm glad I got that from them.
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    Man that sure puts a damper on my plans of becoming a history professor. If I can't find a guy now I sure won't be able to now. And I want to get married, now that will never happen.
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    Have you ever thought about making jewelry? You could do that in your time when you are alone. And then sell it. You could be the artist. And when you sell it you wouldn't be "just there." And if you sell it you would have money and could make whatever jewelry pieces you like. You could make one of a kind jewelry. Hope this helps.
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    My advice to you would be to go to your dad, he's dying of cancer and you might not have long to spend time with him. If your girl-friend says that she will wait for you, she probably will. My concern is that you won't spend with your dad and you will regret not being with him after he has died. I know this is going to sound cliched but, If you and your girl-friend are meant to be then you will get together. Another piece of advice you are young you might not have met the girl meant for you yet. Hope this helps and I'll pray for your dad that he gets better.
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    The hair on my upper lip is not much but noticeable so I wax. I use a honey wax that can be bought in the store. I forget the name cuz mom buys it, but its really good. When you wax be careful you don't get any wax on your lips, I did and was really painful and it took four weeks to heal. And remember to put baby powder on the area you are going to be waxing so no skin comes off. Hope this helps.
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    My best friend tried this and it didn't work. She was just getting dumped on and everything. I would not remain friends with her. Just another piece of advice, you don't seem the type to do this but I've seen it too many times, when you see her don't avoid her just say hi and be done. Hope I'm not being too bold.
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    1.) I like that I was raised in a Christian household. 2.) I like that I'm good in history. 3.) I'm proud of the fact that I have almost memorized the "Gettysburg Address", the Preamble to the American Constitution, the first few lines of the "Declaration of Independence" and other great American documents. 4.) I like that I'm an Individualist. Thats all I can think of right now.
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    I have had friends take them and have ended up addicted to them. They can't get off them. If you need the caffeine rush try drinking coffee or iced tea. The side effect from them is a need to pee. If you are having trouble concentrating you might want to try chamomile tea: it relieves stress and makes you more relaxed without putting you to sleep and you can get your work done. I have found this helps whenever I study or do homework for college. Hope this helps.
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    Wow, I certainly didn't know about TeenScreen. Thanks for sharing the article. I hate it when "professionals" think that because a child acts a certain way they should be placed on medication. "Professionals" do not look at the circumstances in that child's life that could be causing this problem, lets medicate him or her and get few thousand dollars. Sorry its just that I have been through this.
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    I would say e-mail is better then you can be sure you have put it all there and you can see what you need to see. Or another way write everything all out and call him but put the ball in court.
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    I think everyone on this site can relate to your incident. I thought a guy liked me and I liked him but he didn't. It was hard but I got over it. Some guys are like that though.
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    I am an example of a so called disorder. I have ADD. My friend is a bit liberal in her field of psychology because she doesn't believe that I have a disorder. She believes that my brain is wired differently than a "normal" brain. Like schools thinking that we should fit into a certain mold. I hope this is part of what you are talking about, MI Shell. If not, sorry.
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    I have stick straight hair and the only thing that works for me is to put gel in wet hair and blow it dry using a round brush and then using a curling iron. After curling my hair I immediately spray hair spray on it and then take the curls apart by shaking my head as if I'm saying "no". A tip from my hair dresser friend: Never brush your hair after you curl it. The brush will take out the curl. Hope this helps and you get curls.
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    I used to be like you until I found something that worked for me. I use Shick Quatro for women. You get a better shave and I find that its less drying.And I use a body wash for shaving. For moisturizing I use Vaseline® Intensive Care® Aloe Cool and Fresh. The aloe vera in it helps if you get razor burn. Hope this helps.
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    Please consider looking toward the future. Think of all the things you wouldn't be able to do if you were dead. I was suicidal, I hated it. Things do get better trust me. Hey if it makes you feel any better I have never kissed a guy or been kissed. Let that give you hope. If you were dead you never would be able to kiss a girl. Just think of that, please.
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    I have stomach problem whenever I eat certain foods. Fast food with all the grease hurts my stomach. And other foods high in fat hurt my stomach. I would go see a doctor about your problem. I would try more veggetables and that sort of thing. Hope your stomach gets better.
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    I noticed that my mom is more detail oriented while I am more big picture oriented. If something looks clean then I assume its clean. My mom picks out little things that need cleaned and being that we are a pastor's family she is always worried how things look to the congregation.
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