RelaxByWater84

Nymphonia, I went thru sort of a similar situation as you are going through. Only I did not sleep with the guy or even kiss him. As a note, he did not kiss me. I was 17 and he was 24. I was taking a course and he was in the class. We sat at tables and whenever we had in-class discussions he would always move over so that our legs and sides would touching. And he would also touch my hand and shoulder even when it was not necessary. He also told me that he liked dark brown hair which is what I have. I unfortunately let it go on for a while thinking that was just his way of relating to the opposite sex. I did not have that much experience with guys at this point in my life. And I liked the attention. When I saw him with other girls he stayed a safe distance away. Half way into the course he started hugging me whenever he would see me. It was one of those squezze you til you can't breathe. I did not tell my parents. I'm glad you showed enough maturity to tell your mom. I was spending some time out of class with him at the library. One girl in the class noticed this and told me to not do that anymore because she knew that the guy would go after the younger girls to see what he could get them to do for him and to build his ego. I thankfully listened to her and ended up saving myself a lot of disappointment and heartach. Sorry I wrote a chapter of my life. I am concerned for you because it was not easy for me to stop spending time with him after all the emotional attachment I had with him. Concerned for you like a sister, CoffeeGirl84

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