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    Ok my mom is a teacher and goes thru days like you are having. What she does is vent to dad and I and then she feels better. Dad justs holds her.
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    It's funny, like hmm type of funny, I look to tomorrow to keep me sane and to give me hope. Do you consider yourself an Optimist, Realist, or Pessimist? Cuz that makes a difference. If I know maybe I can help you better.
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    Yeah I had a day like that yesterday. It was raining and I forgot my umbrella had to back for that(I walk to class). Was already running late got to class and i forgot everything I read. Then I walked back got soaked even though I had an umbrella, and was cold and I got in my apartment dorm and the A/C was on full blast turned that off only to get scolded by my roomate that she was roasting, i was already sick. The soup I made fell in the sink so had to clean that out and then I needed to get books those cost a fortune. They day pretty much went downhill after that. Today is nice and warm and things seem to be going well. I know that if I didn't have yesterday I wouldn't appreciate today. I think thats why we have bad days so we can appreciate the good days. Hope this helps and tomorrow goes well for you. If tomorrow isn't good you can PM me what is going wrong.
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    I agree with NJRon. You need to be around people. I am quiet and introverted like you and I've had people who I thought were friends leave me and let me down, but I still need to be around people. I believe that we are social creatures and we need people. I became cynical in high school and then I went to college where no one knew me and I didn't know anyone. I just went down the hall of the dorm and seeing whose door was open and started asking questions and all. I found my group of friends and I am happy. Just smile and say hi to people you never know you may pass your best friend.
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    Awww thats awful that your cat died. I really don't know how to help you, but if you need someone to just listen you can Private message me. I hope things get better for. Oh I do know something that might help, try journaling I do it. It makes things better for me and I'm more relaxed and ready for the day. Hope this helps.
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    I had friend like your friend. It was the boyfriend who always insisted that he go along with her everywhere. A bunch of us went shopping and he came with us. He was so afraid of losing that he smothered her. He eventually found a good balance. And my friend was too afraid to say no. Hopefully you can talk to your friend and tell how annoying it is. That's what we did, they had me say the things to her. Hope this helps.
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    Instead of pop/soda/coke you could try drinking fruit juice, not from concentrate, that way you get the sweet taste you want, this is what I do. I have the same situation as you, I want to eat and drink healthy, but I looooove sweets. Oh chicken is actually good for you. Also excercising increases your metabolism so don't feel bad if you had a breaded chicken sandwhich. One of my nursing said that a lot of people who excercise need more carbs than those that don't. Oh if you are concerned about the sweets, reward yourself everyday by eating a mini chocolate bar. This helps me. Hope this helps.
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    I only like ear piercings on guys. I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, especially from guys cuz I think it takes away from their attractiveness.
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    I have found that writing in a journal has helped my social skills. I write a lot of my thoughts on certain topics and this has helped my thinking skills. I used to feel fake around people being a pastor's daughter and all but that went away when I started writing in a journal. Hope this helps.
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    I've been there ok. What are some things you like to do? Who is in your life right now that would be shattered if you did "get out?" Two things kept me from doing myself in: 1.) God telling me not to because He something better for me. 2.) My parents would crushed if I did. It would be their downfall.
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    I was like that in high school. I went away to school where no one knew me and I stepped out of my comfort zone. I got close to a group of people that I don't know how I ever got through life without them. I have some problems with getting close to people, there are like 3 who know all about me. They even know I'm going to do something before I know it, usually something stupid, and they keep me from doing it. Just open your heart to some people, you'll be surprised.
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    You might want to see what school subjects you got your highest grades in. You could also take a career test. These can tell what career you want to go in based on your interests. Career tests can tell you what you passionate about. I was really lucky that I found out my passions when I was younger. You might not find out what your passions are until you are older. You are young you still have time. Maybe try community theater. See if there are cooking classes in your area maybe at a Vocation/Technical School. Try some different things out karate, fencing. Just see what is in your area. Hope this helps.
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    Rudeness to waiters/waiteresses Checking out other women while he is with me Attention getting activities Drinking when he is going to be driving Cockiness Telling you how well-endowed he is
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    No I do the same thing. Its usually the guys I want to talk to but can't do that cuz I'm shy and all. Its hard.
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    My brother dated one of my friends and I didn't like it. It was too weird for me. And they ended up dating for one summer anyway.
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    My friend who ran the two mile in high school would run three miles everyday and try to do it in the time she ran two. She would also make an extra lap around the track everyday to get her endurance up. Hope this helps.
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    Awww, I'll pray that everything gets better. I hope your dad and gramma get better. Rest assured that the area you live in has some of the best hospitals around. Hope everything will get better.
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    I am a pastor's kid and I've had to fill in for readings for services a lot. I still get nervous whenever I have to speak in public. Some tips: 1.) Look at the persons forhead, not their eyes. 2.) If you can be behind a podium, have a rubber band you can play with to take away your nervous energy. 3.) Focus on your points. 4.) Use notecards. Hope this helps.
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    You just have a laid-back personality. You aren't the only one like this. My nieghbor doesn't get angry at all and the times he does its over in like 5 minutes. Don't worry if it's not "normal", the world needs more people like you. Its just your personality.
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    I know what you mean my gramma is so hard to get along with. I went to see what type of tea she wanted and asked me where is my tea in an irratated voice. I was so mad at her. She told me how to make tea. Then she tries to make it and ends up burning herself and she claims it was my fault. My mom ends up defending me she told my gramma that she taught me to make tea properly. Oh then gramma asked my weight and wouldn't let it go until she saw she wouldn't get it out of me. So I know how it feels to have a gramma like yours. Hope it helps knowing that you aren't the only one dealing with this situation.
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    My definition of addiction is if you can't go a day without whatever you are hooked on. Like the millions of people(myself included)can't go a day without coffee. Or they(and myself)wake up with a caffiene headach.
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    I was that way throughout my entire high school career. I graduated and walked out of town and never looked back well I have gone back cuz of college breaks and all. I found that college is better, waaaaay better than high school.
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    Just a note on why your mom doesn't want you to get a job. My mom had to work when she was a teen and didn't get to go out much. She had to work so she could buy clothes. And she didn't want that for me so that was the reason she gave me.
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    Don't feel sad and foolish, I was the dumping ground for a guy when he was dumped. I thought he would be my first boy-friend but, that didn't happen. I think this happens to just about every girl. Oh btw, our friendship was over and I haven't seen him for a long time. Hope this helped.
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    Make a list of priorities and such and follow them. If someone needs help try delegating that to your other friends. Or you could always start an unofficial help committee. One member takes care of say a place to stay and another moving that way you and your friends could build each other up. This is what is done in my church different committees for each type of ministry that way the work gets done and we are a stronger group when we work together(I know cheesy, but it works). You could maybe try that.
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