josh0751

She never did anything wrong, the only problem was when I broke up w/ her. She asked me why and I told her I need some space for a while. When I broke up w/ her, I did it over the phone and I talked to her for about 2 hours. She was crying and so was I, it was the most difficult thing I've ever done. I hurt her more than anyone could have, I was the world to her and it hurts me to know that. I'm trying to build her trust back and show her how she should really be treated.

I just got back from lunch and I started talking to her again. It's weird like now, she starts noticing me and she started waving at me during lunch. I walked with her from lunch to class and we talked for a while, it's getting a lot easier to talk to her and she's seeming more open to me now. I havent talked any about the past stuff like the break up, just random stuff that we can both talk about together. I will take all the time in the world necessary to show her how much I want to be with her. I hope this works out.

I dated my ex for exactly 1 year and 5 months and it was the greatest relationship that I've ever been in and the first time I've ever really been in love and I know it was the same for her. Until I felt like I needed a break from the relationship and I decided to break it off w/ her in June. It hurt her a lot and myself as well. I see her all the time and I remember what I had with her, I realize how much of a loser I am without her and how unhappy I am now. I started talking to her last Friday, and it's now October. So it's been a long time since we've really talked to each other. I told her how much of a loser I am without her and how unhappy I am with the people I hang out with. I told her how I used to be happy with her and how much she means to me. She said she was just hurt a lot and doesn't know what to do. She started asking me if I still loved her and I said yes, because I really do. She said she wanted to keep talking to me over the phone every night and I talk to her after lunch at school. She wants to take a few weeks of us taking it slow and talking and go from there. She said that we could maybe go out sometime to get something to eat. I wanted to know some of your thoughts and views on the situation. I told her that I'm willing to take it slow and do whatever she wants. I'm the bad guy here and I want to do everything I can to show her how much I love her. any help would be good, thanks

I think I am in the friend zone. This girl used to like me, I had no idea, but then I told her that I liked her and wanted to know if she wanted to go out sometime, just me and her. Then she was like shocked, then the next time we met we couldn't talk. I called her a few days later, and said I'm sorry for what I said, that it has made things weird between us and I hate not being able to talk to you like before. She agreed, but now I sometimes intentionally dont go out with my friends because I know that she is there. It bothers me to see her, and I see her everyday at school and after school at practice. I feel regret for not asking her sooner than I did. I mean, why are things so confusing? She calls me and hangs out with me sometimes, but I get disgusted being around her because it brings up all these feelings that I have for her. I feel that sometimes I should just stop being a "friend" and stop being around her. It's so hard to move on, but I think I'll have to and if I'm not around her that it will make it easier.

I have a very big problem. I happened to have lunch with my best friend's sister last semester, she would always tease and pick at me, and I was like ok ok whatever, I never thought anything of it. At the time I had a girlfriend and didn't even think about my friend's sister. Then after I broke up w/ my girlfriend over the summer, my friend's sister began hanging out w/ me more and calling me to come over and hang out. I was like ok, because I was mainly coming over to chill w/ my friend but I was like this girl is out of my league and never thought it was possible to go out w/ her. Then I heard from her best friend that she liked me and then I heard the same from my other friend. I was like well it could cause problems between me and my best friend, so I was unsure. Then I was like what the hell, so I called her and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime to a movie, just the two of us and no one else. She was like well, and I caught her off guard. Earlier that day she had met up w/ another guy that she kinda liked but he's like 19. Her mom wouldnt allow it because she was just turning 16. She was caught in a weird spot b/c she said she liked both of us and didnt know what to do. Then I saw her the next night and we couldnt talk to each other. I was like what is she thinking? Then I called her later on and talked to her and said I cant take it, I like it when we can talk to each other and have fun, I said forget about what I said to you about going out. Now I think abotu what if? I mean she never did say yes or no to me. It bothers me alot because I still see her just about everyday and hang out w/ her brother. I am hopelessly in love and I never did get an answer. Has anyone had this happen to them? What do you think I should do?