JosiesMannequin

So, no, I don't have a full on mustache, but the hairs above my upper lip stand out pretty significantly now in pictures and when i look in the mirror. i know women shave or wax to remove the hairs, but i want to know how i can remove the hair without having it grow back thick or anything that would make it worse...so what do you ladies do?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now, he cheated on me when we were at about 2 months into our relationship, but I just found out about it now. We had a really long talk about it, and he only did it once, completely regretted it, and he said he never told me because he was afraid he would hurt me. Yes, when i found out 5 months later, it hurt me, but I gave him a second chance. It's been about a week since I found out, and I also found out that he's still friends with her. GOOD friends. She calls him a lot and knows the password to his voicemail so whenever I leave voicemails for him, she'll delete them. But he doesn't know it's her, and when I tell him it's her, he'll ask her, and she'll be like, no. It bothers me that he's GOOD friends with her, even if they are just friends now, it just seems like she still wants to be making out with him. Do you guys think it's right of me to tell my boyfriend that I don't like that he's friends with her, or would that be me being a controlling girlfriend?

My best friend and I have been best friends for about 6 years now and in my yearbook this year she wrote, "I know we're both getting ridiculously good looking and our milkshakes are bringing all the boys to the yard, but i know that if any guy is lucky enough to have one of us as out boyfriends he is never ever gonna come between us..." 2 months later...my best friend has her first boyfriend. And I don't like him at all, he's rude, immature, etc. And I can live with not liking him, as long as my best friend did for the right reasons. Long story short...she's 15 and he's 19, she's keeping this from her mom that they're going out. It's gotten to the point where she will blow off the girls to hang with him. Like yesterday, she and him have been hanging everyday for a week straight, and last night we were like, "Let's have a girls night out, no boyfriends" and she goes, "I can't bring him? Fine, I won't go" And then when i got home, he boyfriend IM's me and goes, "SHe wanted to go with you guys, but I guess you guys didn't want me there, so she couldn't go.." Now since then we haven't talked and things have been different. Almost like we're mad at each other Basically, she's doing something behind her mom's back, and she's being a jerk to her friends, it's okay with me for her to have a boyfriend, I just want my friend back... what do i do?

Thank you all for your replies. To answer some of your questions... HeckaBecka, I would relaly appreciate a PM from you, you have to wait until I get 5 posts then I can receive messages since I am a new member, but I think I have my posts now, so please do send me a PM. If that stilll doesn't work please e-mail me at email removed My brother was 12 or 13...and no he doesn't live at home anymore, but he visits frequently...and the abuse stopped because my mom quit her job to be at home more, and so since she was home...obviously he didn't do it anymore.

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months. We're starting to get sexually intimate, like not sex, but oral sex and feeling up on each other while we're naked. He's the first boyfriend where I've really felt ready to do this. I was sexually abused by my brother for a while, not everyday, but maybe 3-4 times a week for 8 or 9 months when I was 7. It still hurts to think about, it hurts to remember details and I feel so angry and sad inside because I never said one thing to my parents or stood up for myself or anything. I just let my brother treat me like an object. My current boyfriend is the only person I've told. He understands that I'm still emotionally hurt by it, but everytime my boyfriend and I start to get intimate I try and just think about my boyfriend and I, and how in love we are, but I still end up crying and thinking about all the abuse I've been through... I don't know how to overcome this pain so I can be intimate with my boyfriend...?