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  1. nicorette
    oh okay, thanks. so i agree with the others and say just tell him how you feel. depending on how he reacts you can go from there. afterall, he nor you can control what his ex gf says. but if he reciprocates those feelings back then i think you need to talk to him.
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    i had my nose pierced 3 years ago and took it out about a year ago. when you go in, the piercer will clean your nose or whatever sterilize it. if you get it wtih a needle, im assuming thats what most people get it with. but anyhow the needle is curved kind of and they put something on the side of your nose so the needle wont go through to that little middle part of your nose. have you ever plucked a hair from the inside of your nose? the pain is somehwat like that. maybe a little bit worse, but its not very painful. way less than one would expect. when i had a stud in, itd always come out a night. the reason i took my nose ring out was because a stud would always come out at night and in the morning the inside of my nose would be partially a bit grown over, so sometimes id have to repierce it with the stud. it was painful. sometimes i got infections and even a bump on my nose. now there is still a mark on my nose, its extremely unnoticeable, but it is there. then after a stud i got a hoop in. i think a nose ring is okay as long as you always use saline solution to keep it clean. make sure the nose piercing you buy is not a piece of crap. it shoudl be real silver or wahtever that way you wont get infections.
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    i feel that way a lot. i hate reading magazines cos i see all the beautiful people and wonder "why couldnt i look like that?" i know how you feel and im sure a lot of people do. coming from a male calling you ugly, he could have been saying that because he was jealous. also, a lot of guys call males ugly just because they dont want to look as if they would be attracted to a guy. i never hear guys say "oh that other guy is relaly hot". and also, you have a very low-self esteem and no confidence. is this the only time youve been called ugly or did you get teased a lot in school or something? i can guarantee youre not an ugly person, i dotn believe there are ugly people i think everyone is unique in their own way, as corny as it sounds. im sure youre a beautiful person with a lot to offer and the people who bring you down are so insecure about themselves so they say hurtful things to make themselves feel better. is there any way you could go into counseling?
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    along with scout, i read through your old threads. the first one you had was about your fiance going out for dinner with girls. the second was about you dating a 19 year old. are these two situations dealing wtih the same guy? also is this 3rd situation with the same guy?
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    dont say anything liek that. it would come off so creepy. i used to work as a cashier and would get that stuff all the time i really felt uncomfortable. i think you shoudl just come out and ask her out. come off as a friendly, confident guy who likes to have fun. i think for a convo starter, do as the other posters said and maybe ask something not really about her, but about something about the store, or anything like that in general.
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    i think it is normal. but you need not worry about him, after all you guys are broken up. i know how painful it is and im sorry you have to go through this, but in order to heal this is something you have to do! go NC. DONT contact him. i knwo you can do it. its really hard at first but in time it gets easier. contacting him is obvoisuly pushing him away. i know how badly you want to but itll help yourself so tremendously much if you dont contact him. good luck.
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    are you a boy or a girl? im assumign youre female. how do you know youve orgasmed? i dont believe you have or else oyu definetly would have known. the first time i had sex it hurt but felt good at the same time. if its hurting your stomach i think you should go to teh doctor and find out if theres a problem. good luck
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    when i was 14 i thought i was in love. after i got over the guy i was like "what the hell was i thinking". now i do believe i am in love and think i fell in love when i was 17. however, perhaps if we break up and once i move on i will feel differently. honestly i dont see it happening. i think some people dont experience true love until they are much much older. i think people's views on love is distorted.
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    wehn you talk to her, let her know that you miss her but dont seem desperate adn dont let her know youre feeling this way! it will make you seem desperate and weak. now, i knwo this is so hard for you, i couldnt imagine not seeing my boyfriend for 6 weeks. but think of it this way: can you change it? nope. can you control it? nope. so what can you do? make the best of the situation. go do somethings you couldnt do before (im not sure exactly waht). spend sometime with your friends, keep busy most importantly. youll make it through. once she comes back you will be so happy as will she and itll only make your relationship stronger.
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    oh alright, sorry about that. im a little skatterbrained from the Tylenol 3 i just took. its hard to concentrate haha. but yes, definetly go for it. you dont have to come outright and say it, but say a friendly hello adn see what happens.
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    yes, i think itd hurt much worse to get rejected by someone you have strong feelings for, rather than getting rejected by a stranger you met at a bar or something. rejection will happen throughout everyones lives. but youll never know what may happen unless you go for it. just be confident
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    i dont think itd be too werid. after all, youve never met your friend in person. are you positive that theyre brothers? i think you should go for it.
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    yes, is there any way you could accomplish both? if not, i think you shoudl follow your dreams if you are sure this is what you really want. if it doenst work out, then you can always go back to science in 2 years! i think youd regret it if you didnt take this opportunity.
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    wow, great news. are you guys using protection?
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    awww dont worry about a thing. it should be a good time, not a stressful time. i know its hard, but try spending less time worrying about it and more time being excited. itll be a wonderful experience
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    is there a reason he still lives at home? at 26 he should be outta there. is he having trouble financially? he seems like hes almost too attached to his parents. i think if you do go there, you should maybe stay in a hotel as his parents wishes but do meet them so you can get their approval, and maybe they will let you stay the night or something. i think this guy does need to move out though, im thinking about moving out within the next year and im 8 years younger than him.
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    i think hes confused whether his feelings are strong enough. has he ever met a woman off the internet? perhaps hes nervous or scared. i do agree with the others and he seems to be not too committed to it at all, unsure of what he wants. id suggset finding a real man who isnt sucha commitment phobe that he wont meet you after months! good luck
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    are these the same problems that caused the breakup 6 months ago? if so, id call it quits because obvoisuly things arent getting better. i really think you need to find the centre of these fights. im sure what you guys fight about is minor, but you guy sneed to see the bigger picture and find out what REALLY is making you guys argue. then you can decide how to fix it. good luck
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    aww well i definetly congratulate you on your success of losing weight! great job. i think you need self-confidence and self esteem. my bf used to be fat (i didnt know him when he was, it was a few years ago) and now hes 205 poudns and 6'5 which is a nice weight and he has a great build. but he still doesnt like his body, he doesnt think hes fat, but once in a while he will ask me and of course i say he isnt. hes very insecure even tho he has no reaosn to be. i think thast whats going on wtih you. you were used to being overweight. your body has changed, but your mind thinking hasnt. juts think that you are a great looking, nice guy and any girl would be happy with! you just need confidence. do you have any female friends that you could ask to maybe give you some self esteem?
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    oh sorry, i didnt see the whole thing. you guys are both virgins! oh well then definetly be prepared. i had been on the pill for about 3 weeks and my bf used a condom when we both lost our v's to each other. itll be a bit awkward ill let you know that
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    if one of you or both is not a virgin then i recommend condoms, unless youve been tested. also, im on the pill and my bf uses condoms most of the time except once in a while. just to be safe. its not 100% but with condoms and birth control its so unlikely that i NEVER worry i wont get my period. i dont think itll ruin it. my bf always insists i put it on him he says i do a good job, whatever that means. but no, it doesnt ruin spontinateity. also, id rather ruin spontinateity then be pregannt? i know shes on hte patch, but still, not stressing and not worrying is worth so much more than ruining spotinateity.
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    sorry, i dont know about anything liek that. is yoga anything that would interst you?
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    do waht YOU want. you claim you want children. this guy is so selfish
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    i know its hard. but honestly i think shes keepin you around for her own selfish reasons. you cant be friends with her righ tnow when you like her cos its only hurting you more. i know its not what you want to do but it something you have to.
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    this girl is straight you say right? i know this must be very hard for you, but what more can you do? you cant control her confusion or her feelings, not matter how hard you try or how hard you want to. it sucks, but if you think about it, anything you do now will not change to decide whether shes straight or not. i think shes confused, you need to give her space and go NC for a little while until things straighten out.
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