I am 18 and just graduated from highschool and going to college. I have always been extremely shy with girls. I thought is would go away but it has not. I have never been kissed or had a relationship with a girl. There have been a couple of girls who liked me but I was to shy or scared to approach.
I am just a little over 5 foot 11 and now weight 165. In highschool I was always overweight (200 pounds) above the norm. Last summer I started searching the net and reading books on how to gain self esteem and confidence. I hated my body and was always out of shape. I mean nobody picked on me, but I was defiantly not the most popular kid. People tend to just leave me alone. I started blaming it on my weight. Over the last July summer I read nutrition books, exercise magazines and bought weights and new running shoes. I started lifting, running eating very healthy and ab exercises. I learned alot about types of foods etc. My gut and flab slowly started to disappear. Now after 11 months of dieting, lifting and running. I still continued without waver.I have no flab and very visible abdominal muscles and very defined arms and a rock hard chest. Everybody I know is amazed at my transformation, I am in the best shape but I still lack in the social department. I did not go to prom, I was going to ask a girl out but I was too scared. I thought it would go away, but it hasn't. It seems like I am made of glass. My hand start sweating and I can't even look her in the eye straight.
