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we use condoms EVERYTIME but what if there was a split that we didn't detect?? should I take the pregnancy test now? isit the right time in my cycle? im thinking i should use the pill aswell now though

im jst gone 17 and i have been havin sex for about 8 months. i am ususally irregular with my periods. I was meant to have my time of month on the 8th i think. Although im irregular. im very much scared. This is the first time ive been through this and need to know when i should take a test when it will definitely show up. I need to know because it is affecting my life if anyone ahs anyadvice on this please tell.. thank you x

thank you every one for your inputs and stuff it really helped me.

Ok im 16 and im so scared because im just about to go to college and in 2 years I wish to go to university but im scared about money issues and debt... once im in will i ever be able to pay myself out and how am i meant to buy a house or car or the things I'll need to be an individual... i jsut dont know what to do it amkes me feel like im wasting my time goin here to learn to get a good job if all the money i get form my good job is to pay all my life for what I learnt.. is it worth it? but I really wanna achieve that sorta satisfaction that I can be something you know because every one doubts me.. Please I dont know what to think... Any inputs?

well i just learnt from what I saw...what I heard and just from what people are saying you know but i never got that "talk"

Ok ive just started giving Bjs to my boyfriend and i always seem to choke and argh tis a mission.. some 1 help me on how to give the BEST BJ where he will be like in heaven lol...? please... Boys and girls welcome but boys what makes it good for you?

thank you everyone for your replies!

Ok well basically ive been with ym boyfriend 4 months but we've really liked each otha for over a year. I really love him and he said he loves me too. But today he saw my phone and saw silly text messages from another man sayin stupidness. I tried to delete them but he had already saw them he acted like he was fine but he weren't. I hate the man that sent me the text messages and ive never even seen him before (long story) but im not sure what to do? jsut leave it because my boyfreienbd doesn't seem to upset...?

we do, i really love him and he loves me.. and thank u for your good advice

but im startin college and his still there because he changed his course so really were livin our lives the same way. I just needed some re assurance if he was in uni i probably would be with him.

we're are so serious, and ive told people his 19 and their fine with it. but its like i could never tell my parents until later and i just suppose i just love him and im willing to take the risks and we're at da same point in life - its weird

we're so serious and ive told people his 19 and they fele fien but tis sjt like ic ould nevr tell my parents till later and i suppose i jsut love him and im willin 2 risk things and were at da same stage of our life.. its weird!

16 and 20 his 21 in october and im 17 nxt may - its four years but please ppl make it look so bad.. but is it really???

How will I know if the condom has split and cna I get pegnant from it?

thank u everyone you've amde it quite clear i cant wait to start exploring lol.. thanks