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  1. nicorette
    as to whether you talk about the fact you will be going NC, i think that you shouldnt, unless they keep calling. if youre starting today, lets say, dont call them. dont call them ever until you are healed (depending on how long you heal, but NC should at least be for a few weeks, but you probably wont be healed then, and even if you are, perhaps its best if you dont contact them). so pretty much from now on just do not contact them. now, if they happen to contact you, just dont reply. if they continuously do it, id say to tell them to stop contacting you unless they want to reconcile (that is, if you wnated to get back together with them).
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    hang out wtih friends, spend some alone time, go to the gym, spend some time wtih family, most importantly spend some time WITHOUT him. you need it. and to him, it probably seems liek you dont have much of a life without him. do yourself a favour, and him, and go out and have some fun without him. itll do both of you and your relationship good. once he sees that you are confident, independent and have your own goals and things in your life that dont include him, i think hell want to hang out with you more. confidence is attractive.
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    this is the reason i was "downing her on the internet," geno. it wasnt anything personal, i dont even know her. but we dont get to know her, we get to know HIS side. and i think that the quote above can show that from his post, all i know about her is that she is extrmeely immature, ignorant and careless about your feelings.
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    in a way it seems liek shes just trying to be friendly, yet at the same time seeming like she wants this guy. i dont know. trust your intuition. if thats what its telling you, thats all you can do. and i knwo you have strong feelings for this girl, but wouldnt you rather end things now until you guys meet one day in person or whatever and then find otu shes been doing this all behind your back? maybe she isnt, i dont know if its harmless or not. i just think if thats what youre feeling, you know you best, and you knwo her better than anyone else here so i think you should follow your intuition. also, if shes going to just start talking to you on myspace like that, and starts doing it with others, she seems kind of insecure. theres nothing wrong wiht myspace and meeting new people, but if she flirts with these guys and would make up lies that she is out partying yet she is really online with guys, she is insecure and is obvoiusly a liar. you dont want that kinda crap in your life do you?
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    youre a female teenager. it could be so many things. do you know what a urinary tract infection (UTI) is. you bleed then and it burns when you pee. i think it could be a number of things, go to your doctor. im pretty sure they have to keep it confidential. if not, go to a clinic.
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    is this the same guy from the bonfire? and what exaclty are the comments theyre writing. are they flirtatious? or just normal friendly conversations. i definetly know how jealousy can be. so this guy online, does she know him personally, or just an internet thing? and id ask her about this, to me it doesnt sound liek a big deal. but i dont know your gf so i cant really say that about her. i can definetly relate to the jealousy thing though. have you talked to her about how this makes you feel? does she know?
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    was it the first time you had sex? i bled and it hurt after i lost my virginity. also, he could have accidentally "cut" soemthign on the outside of your vagina. ive had that before, its near the "hole" but a little bit below it. this has been occurring since saturday? and dont be embarrassed, were here to help.
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    im not really sure i totally understand waht youre saying. however, i read your previous post. it sounds like youre overanalyzing the situation. could you explain more clearly what happened about the bonfire or whatever you were talking about? thanks.
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    i think its very immature and ignorant of her to leave you hanging, and perhaps foolish on her part not to tell you the problems so they could be fixed. however, that might be a hidden message that she really wants to move on and doesnt want to be a relationship, which is true. i think thats what it is. id go NC. dont talk to her. dont call her or anything, if she calls ignore it. shes not worth your time you could do so much better. i know it really sucks right now, and 3 years is a great deal of time, but you coudl be SO much happier with somoene who will treat you right. go NC and try your best to move on. keep busy.
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    friscodj said it well. id leave it alone. if she writes you again, or calls id still leave it alone. if she keeps at it maybe you should see what she wants if youre up for it. most likely shes bored and wants to know whats up with you and wnats your attention
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    i agree. if thats the only thing i wouldnt worry about it. if anything, its a good thing that he is making sure about things like that, its a good trait for him to have, being a little bit cautious.
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    agreed. i think that a little bit of a gut is nothing to be worried about, and definetly dont tell him, itll only crush his feelings.
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    i agree with this. also, youre only 19. youve been with this guy for 3 years, so that must be since you were 16, possibly 17. im 18 and have bene wtih my guy since i was 16, so i kinda know where youre coming from. is this guy pretty much "all you know?" that may be why. i think its just a momentary crush, just dont act upon it.
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    Why?

    nicorette replied to BigFatMess's topic in Sex and Romance

    ive never had an orgasm with my boyfriend. that sounds lame, but its true. and weve been sexually active for over a year. thast teh same for me, masturbating i can climax easily. try to get him to touch your clit, ive tried wiht my boyfriend and he does but it doesnt feel the same as wehn i do it. all i can say is i dont have a solution, but i do have teh same problem,s o you are not alone.
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    i think you should try to go to counseling, or at least talk with a friend, as they know you much better than anyone here. single has so many benefits. you get to do all teh things you couldnt when you ewre in a relationship. sometimes i wish i was single, not that i dont love my boyfriend. who is making you feel pressured? if its your friends, they arent real friends, and you should let them know how it makes you feel.
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    i think you were a distraction from her abusive boyfriend. she has a lot of baggage, and unfortunately youre left to deal with it. of course you should help her try to get out of the relationship, but honestly i think she is confused and is unsure of what she wants. she NEEDS to get out of her abusive relationship if shes still in it, and with you, i think you guys both need space adn time to think about things. find out what she wnats.
  17. nicorette
    yes, what exactly do you want from this? its a good thing you didnt asnwer the phone, but if she calls a couple more times id say answer it, that is if you want to reconcile. who knows why she is calling, right? if she isnt calling to reconcile, tell her you dont want to talk to her unless she wants to reconcile, then go complete NC.
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    i think that although that may be true in some cases, thats extremely stereotypical and if you know so much, you'd know that not every 17 year old is moody. if you meant that teenagers go through mood swings and are finding their place, i can udnerstand, but arent most people in the world? anyhow, regardless, if dealing with that is worth the "relationship" then i think you shoudl continue. however, your posting here. thats a major sign that things are in trouble and that you arent happy. if you are no longer happy, and she doesnt seem very happy (the mood swings) then i think you should end it and find a woman who isn't always is moody who lives in your country.
  19. nicorette
    if you can, try not to stay in contact wtih them. try to keep busy and look for someone new
  20. nicorette
    what is this world coming to?
  21. nicorette
    i understnad that you want "revenge" or whatever it is out of this. but isnt that a bit immature? i think you should let it go. maybe he had good reasons for breaking up with you. let it go, it doesnt look good on your part, and probably youll regret it later on in life.
  22. nicorette
    are you on the pill or any other type of birth control? if not, do as the above posters said and do it IMMEDIATELY. after 72 hours it doesnt work, and every hour decreases your chances of it workign a little bit. do it ASAP
  23. nicorette
    well, i dont know what you should do. however, if i was in your position, i think id just go with it. its another 8 months right? ANYTHING can happen in between now and that time. maybe seh wont decide to move. something could happena nd for some resaon you guys may not be together in eight months. i personally think you should just go with it, but if you do that, make sure you know the consequences that if in 8 months you two are still dating and she does leave, that you will be able to have a logn distance relationship if thats what you want.
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    good. and i want to apologize for my misinterpretation of that. i honestly think it can lead to complications. i dont think its anything TOO bad, but if you try, will he know you only want to be friends? have you guys done it before? and does he have any sort of interest in you more than a friend? if he knows itll just be making out with no strings attached, and so do you, and you both want it, then wahtever. its not something i would do, and i dont really think its a great decision but i dont really see much wrong wtih it. if thats what you wanan do then i think you should do it.
  25. nicorette
    thtas awesome. being single is great as well! good luck
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