littlepinkpunk

I posted earlier about something i did while away at college(about 8 or 9 months ago). I put myself in a stupid situation with a guy i was attracted to and he kissed me. I didn't stop him immediately but it was like two kisses and i realized that i had to stop. i felt nothing. i didn't want to do anything with him. i Love my boyfriend and if i gained anything from the situation, i realized that i want him and i am sure we will get married and have a family and all that good stuff. a few days ago something reminded me of it and i've been feeling somewhat guilty. i feel like he deserves better than me. Will i ever get over this and move on?

I never had this problem, but i do have a sweaty armpit from time to time. I recommend wearing dark colored shirts or a sweater or jacket or something over your shirts. See a doctor or dermatologist. this is a common problem that they can help you solve. Also, since you are young, it is something people can grow out of. The crazy hormone changes you are probably having can make your body do things differently, and you may adjust to it. How long have you been having this problem?

i think telling him would cause an unnecessary uncomfortable situation. But it is hammered in our heads so much that we have to tell these things. i think i should keep it to myself. and i guess i just have to get over the guilt. but does that ever really go away?

this is a great idea! i'd like to see more healthy snack ideas... My Famous Chicken Salsa Dip! this is way easy, there is no way you can screw it up because it will always taste like something. two large jars of salsa (adjust hotness to taste. i like a medium and a mild.) Two large cans of chicken [chunks] one can chili peppers one can chopped black olives one can mushrooms. one large package of jack and cheddar cheese (mexican blend tastes great too!!) heat up in a crock pot or whatever, and go crazy. * if you're like me, then you prefer food that isn't from a Can. fresh food works Great, but that just gives you an idea of how much to use.

the man i'm with is the one that i want to be with forever. I can see us a long ways down the road.....(mostly because we're three and a half years down the road) But i did something stupid. I go to school away from home, and in the fall semester, there was a boy in my class that i thought was beautiful, and i really enjoyed talking to him after class. We decided to 'hang out' one day and we ended up at his house. one thing lead to another and he kissed me. I didn't stop him immediately, but it was like two littel crappy kisses and i realized what i was doing. I felt nothing. it meant nothing. But i've kept it a secret. I always felt that there was no need to tell my boyfriend just so he could get upset. I Love my boyfriend, and i care about our relationship. But this stupid thing haunts me. I'll still have to go to college with this guy (not that i'll see him much, but its inevitable) and it will always be in the back of my head. i wish i could just erase it all. i want it out of my head.

dont look into it. i really don't think it was a hint. That is something even I would say, but i wouldn' tmean 'i wanna have sex with out.' i think she was just talking and joking around. If you want a hint about 'the next step' see what happens when the two of you are together and kiss. Even if she's nervous and never done anything with a guy, she'll let you know when she wants more.

you see, i don't want to end this relationship. i love him and i love to be with him, i just don't look at him the same way without a shirt as i do some other people. i don't necessarily want to do anything with a person with a 'more attractive' body. In the bedroom i feel that its just..."in the way" and it would be better and less awkward if things were downsized a bit.

We are nearing the four-year mark together, and i am not really attracted to him sexually anymore. i don't think i ever was really. he's not a "big" guy....just has a...gut. I love fitness and going to the gym, and i've tried to get him to do these things with me, but it doesn't fit with his time-consuming job. I don't want to break it to him that i'm losing this attraction, i just want to work on it with him. I'm not even very picky about the appearance of guys, but i find myself eyeballing others all the time. how will he understand that this is important to me?

i live in a dorm while in college, but i'm not having any luck finding my own place otherwise. is there any way i could motivate him? i think he feels pretty...worthless (for lack of a better word). he's a highschool drop out with no GED at age 23, and working in fast food. he doesn't seem to care about getting to work on time, just so long as he keeps the job. getting fired will mean nothing, because he is probably the most valuble one they have.... i don't know. i just want to save my family. they all deserve so much better.

i wish it was easier to have confidence these days. I'm pretty comfortable with my body until someone ruins it for me. I try not to let it bother me..but it gets to you after a while. I don't look like "most girls." I really like the beach and whatnot, i don't want to be afraid to go.

thsi is what i hate about our society. Its not easy to get on your feet and there should always be someone to help. i'm sorry about your situation..and i really hope you can find someone to help you instead of taking on an extra load of stress.

i say do it, damnit. I'm young, but this is my view: You've been together for this long. And if you're on the verge of breaking up then what is there to lose? normally i would advise to hold off on popping the question. but for some reason when i read this i felt a very instinctive "go for it" but hey, that's just me.

i live with both parents, my brother, his girlfriend, and their 10 month old baby. we all try and have tried to be so supprtive, but my brother and his girlfriend are just lazy. this house has been cramped with us all even before she was pregnant. he works in fast food and she makes excuses to avoid getting a job (21 and can't drive? she avoids learning!) serisously, her excuses are endless. i love them all, and i love the baby, but they are driving my parents insane. They all always fight about who needs to do what, and i don't think they will do anything to help themselves anytime soon. It took my brother until after the baby was born to get a job... we can't really tell them what to do, that's not our place and they won't listen to anyone. and you can see, this isn't the most functional family. I live here on the weekends and the summer, when i'm not in school. and its so cramped. so many mouths to feed and people to keep up with (you think her parents would help..) i hate for my parents to feel this way. and i'm doing my best to cope, but its driving me crazy!! i don't know what i'm asking for. maybe i just need to vent, but i want some kind of advice.

i think the summer coarses would burn me out. I am unemployed, so i will spend summer getting a job and logging volunteer hours. and catch up to what? i don't think i am behind. i don't think its all that possible to be behind. and dovetail, i'm with you ^_^ I'd never give up yoga and i'm looking forward to t'ai chi.

thank you all. you will be please with my new thread.