steelwool
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The historical roles of men/women are getting us nowhere
steelwool replied to steelwool's topic in Dating Advice
What do you mean by "how do you behave like that"? I'll get back to you a little later in the morning. Need sleep. -
Men are ALWAYS supposed to make the first move, but people don't understand that there are alot of guys just as shy as women. Men want to be "wanted" as well, not just "considered" like some canidate looking for your vote. Then you have those females that get alot of attention and love playing cat & mouse/jump through the hoops games. She'll find that one guy who doesn't go for the games and gets upset/crazy over it. Understand alot of guys have just stopped trying even though they're interesed. play the chase game by yourself. It's a major headache trying to figure out if a female is interested or just being friendly without looking like a fool. The flirting skills are limited and they don't make their intentions/desires obvious enough. No one progresses because it's all just a big game of who has more control. You won't increase your chances for good relationships expecting guys to mind-read and than randomly jump on you. No matter what women say: Nice guys finish last
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What do you think is the absolute BIGGEST turn-off?
steelwool replied to kb109's topic in Dating Advice
Women that are too passive - If I have to initiate everything and she agrees with everything I say without her own opinion. Women that are selfish - Nothing is good/right unless she can benefit from it. Women that talk loud and/or use foul language for no reason - I sense someone wants some attention, but they're going about it the wrong way. Women with body ordor and sloppy/unkept clothing - We go out to chill, but she's dressed like she just got out of bed. Women that are conceited - Thinking just because you look pretty you can get away with acting like an * * *. Women that act jealous/insecure - Am I pretty? I don't feel pretty. Also "Relax girl! Put the knife down. That was my sister I was talking to. You know...the one you met the other day?" Women with a flat/sloppy butt and/or big stomach - Yuck! You don't look like a female. You look like a plumber or someone's grandma with that booty. -
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I feel that alot of women take men for granted. There's too much weight put on our shoulders to get things started. It's already difficult trying to read if a female is interested or just being friendly. Alot of women think just being noticed is enough to initiate some kind of connection. It's not. I mean if its two complete strangers. What is the guy supposed to do? Jump on her? Some women do that walk-by-you-so-you-notice-me without even giving any eye-contact. What are we supposed to do? I would really like to know what steps the ladies on this site take to get a guy's attention.
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There are so many of us in the world looking for good, healthy relationships. Unfortunately Most people in the world are unwillingly single, but why? Are men too dense to see the signals or are women too subtle in their showing of interest? Who's fault is it mostly? What can be done to make/get better results?
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Sometimes I'll see the prettiest women hand to hand with some crazy jerk. He'll be yelling/complaining about some nonsense and trying to make her feel bad. What I get from it is that the women, even though they're attractive have self-esteem issues. Alot of jerks get over because of this weakness. You can kind of blame women(themselves) for being weak(too subtle) at flirting and not making their interest actually noticeable. Nice guys are not going to blindly chase you, but an arrogant jerk will.
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Yeah. I like CURVY women. Women with no booty or hips look masculine to me. There's no real way to flirt online. I can give in-person tips if you want them.
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Your height? How tall are you?
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I hear it all the time. "Guys are so blind." "Why hasn't he asked me out yet?" I'm just curious as what do women do to get that guy of interest to take notice? When you see a stranger that catches your fancy, what do you do to let him know "come talk to me"?
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Pictures. I WANT to see PICTURES!!! Well I like women that are firm and thick. Thick being street slang for curvy/voluptuous. A flat stomach, small waist and round butt(without the support of tight jeans) is extremely attractive. Women just look more "feminine" when they have curves. Seeing women that wear tight jeans with no butt(trying to give the illusion of a nice shape) are a turn-off to the maximus. Like when they walk the loose flab back there sinks in. Ewww(keep your clothes on). Here's some educational reading for anyone that want to improve the booty or know the truth on being thick: link removed
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My brother and sister are 1/2 black and 1/2 italian. Means nothing to me. They're still human. I feel people shouldn't allow others to dictate who they associate themselves with.
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I remember reading an article in a music magazine about the R&B artist Amerie. She's black and asian. From what I read she speaks both languages, is very talented, intelligent and proud of who she is. I bet if she was around asian people she would get along just fine.....until she tells them she's bi-racial. I think being so worried that someone won't understand your family customs because of their race is wrong. My mother wouldn't care if I was with a white/asian/latin women. Just as long as she has a good head on her shoulders. "I be checking out mommies in the streets, malls and theatre lobbies/ loving the asian and caucasian girls with the black girl's bodies/ and the beautify black and latin ones knock me out like Muhammad Ali/"
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I went to this payed group discussion today(65 bills in my pocket) that talked about interracial dating. We got heavy into asian women/men being the most closed when it comes to dating outside their race. There were two asian people(women) there that said that their parents are extremely strict on who they should date/be friends with/marry. I see asian women all the time that seem interested in me, but I don't pursue because I keep thinking I'm not going to get anywhere(I'm black). They sometimes would be with an asian male and for some strange reason they look as if they don't want to be with them. Is it an insecurity issue? I mean I live in america where there are people of all different flavors. Why is interracial dating considered taboo?