flyinghigh

hello everyone..my b/f broke up with me a month ago..at first i thought he was having second thoughts about the whole thing so i was contacting him to see if i could get him to open up and tell me more...i think that might have been a mistake and what i did later was worse...i contacted him about 15 times in a months period and now i feel like a complete idiot...last time i went to go see him i was really rejected and he told me i needed time to accept it and gain my sanity back...oh god! i guess he was right. the thing is he was giving me mixed messages and that's why i felt it was ok to see him..should i feel like an a** or is this normal after a break-up?..what should i do now?

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hi..i just wanted to tell you from experience that if you contact her..your making your chances of getting back together slim..and she needs to miss you...she can only find this out without NC....my boyfriend broke-up with me about a month ago and now i feel like such a loser..because i contacted him too much..15 times..ugg!! thinking that he would see things and come to his senses..well i lost my senses!! that was stupid of me and now i'm really embrassed about the whole thing...one day i would tell him i loved him..the next day i would tell him to take a hike..etc...don't make the same mistake i did...just try to stay strong and calm