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    This is similar to what the other posters have mentioned in their threads . . . My advice would be that try to be a good listener and genuinely interested in what she has to say. Find out some common interets between you guys. Try to resist the urge of talking about yourself all the time. And DON'T try to act macho! lol I hate it when guys do that . . . like when they try too hard to impress you. Also, I'm a big sucker for chivalry!
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    Hi Jenn, Wow I'm on the same boat as you! Lately I haven't been feeling the need to have sex with my bf and we have gotten into an argument about this because he thought I was either not attracted to him anymore physically or cheating on him. Neither one of those is true but for some reason I just didn't really like having sex, couldn't explain it, I was just never in the mood! I think it's mainly because I'm bored with the same thing that we always do so we talked about being more *creative* to spice up our sex life. I don't think you should give up just yet. Like you said in your last thread, it seems like your relationship is worth a try to keep it going. Communicate with him and let him know what turns you on. Hope that helps! Good luck girl!
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    You always hear bad things about ppl's relationships in this forum so it's a breath of fresh air to finally hear something good! So happy for you, good luck!!
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    Hmmm perhaps you can help him become better?? Do you think there's hope??
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    You mean leaving town as in for good? Maybe he has some personal issues that he's dealing with that you are not aware of . . .
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    Oh wow, you're in a tough situation! This is why I vow to never date anyone from work! Hmm do you have any vacation days left? If so I'd recommend talking like a week off and go on a vacation with some friends or something. At least it will get you away from her. Or maybe you can try to get another position in another dept so you won't have to see her so often? But I know that might be kind of tough to do. I don't think there's really a *set* time span for NC . . . you take as long as you need to heal and forget about the person, everyone's different.
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    Waxing is seriously the only way to go! I wouldn't recommend shaving it because it will just grow back in all directions. You can try to trim it and see if that helps. I wouldn't use any of that Nair stuff because your skin is really sensitive down there . . . and you tried waxing yourself??? I don't think I'd never have to courage to do that myself!!! *cringe*
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    I get it done all the time and it's the best!! Since it will be your first time, I'd recommend trimming your hair before going in first. Because the longer your hair is, the more it will hurt! The lady that does mine is not allow to trim mine for me (salon policy?), so she will usually give me a pair of scissors and let me do it while she leaves the room. You only have to be half nude, you can keep your top on. It might be a bit embarrassing at first, but you'll get used to it. If you are really sensitive to pain, I would recommend taking a few tylenol first before going in, I find that to be really helpful. Good luck!!
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    Ew, I have friends that are like that too! And I HATE it when they do that . . . makes them appear so immature and shallow. But the other posters are right, they only do that because they feel insecure about themselves, so they feel the need to make fun of other people. I find the best way to shut them up to voice my own opinion. Next time when they make rude comments like that, just say something back to them.
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    I'm a pretty shy person so I find it hard to initiate conversations with people, at least you have the courage to do that! That's a start! I think in college the best way to meet people to join student organizations. I've met a lot of people that way. Also, at my college they had dorms where it's all freshmen residents so everyone is dying to talk to other people and make friends. The first semester when I was there I usually hung out with the people in the dorms.
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    Man I was in somewhat of a similar situation as you where I'd have two group of friends that didn't like each other . . . so I'd always have to hang out with them separately. It's tough being stuck in the middle. I don't think you did anything wrong at all. You were a good friend by inviting her to all your activities. It just seems like she's too dependent on you or something. Like she could always make the effort to call you up and see what you're up to, doesn't necessarily always have to be you doing that job. And if I were you, seeing how she acts when she's out with us, I wouldn't want to invite her back either. But even so, since you guys are living together, it would probably be best that you get this resolved so things aren't awkward. Just talk to her and ask her what is bothering her.
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    I agree with n83 that it's kind of shady that the girl would have his number in the first place. I think I would get bothered if my bf goes out and meets female friends and exchange numbers with them. It's kind of disrepectful to the girlfriend if you ask me. And his reaction of "don't worry about it" just makes it seem even more shady. If I were you I'd sit down and talk to him about this.
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    I know ppl that have used both and one couple is now married and one couple is in a serious relationship that's headed towards marriage.
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    lol I have the same problem I used to use bleach but it ended up lightening my skin as well so it looked kinda funny. Then I started using this hair removal cream from Sally Hanson and it works pretty well. The problem is that it leaves your skin really dry and irritated afterwards so make sure your skin is not too sensitive to the cream. I'm just too much of a chicken to try out waxing!!
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    Thanks for all the response everyone! I am currently on birth control and I've been on it for about 3-4 months now. I was suspecting that it might be the cause of the problem but was not sure. I don't really have that much stress in my life right now and am not depressed at all, so I don't think that's a factor. I am very much in love with my bf and am still attracted to him, but I just can't figure out what my problem is!! It's very frustrating. I just want to figure out what my problem is so I can fix it
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    I think you should invite him out to dinner or coffee and let him know how you feel. Just tell him that you really treasure the friendship but you've been feeling left out of his life and that you hope you guys can starting hanging out more. If he's a true friend he would try his best. But if he doesn't, there's really not that much you can do about it. He has to want to hang out with you on his own, and not have you try to nag him to come out. I've had friends who were like that . . . disappears when she gets a bf and once they break up she started calling us up to hang out again, it's just really lame. I haven't been hanging out with my girls as much as I used to since I have a bf now, but I make the effort to at least hang out with them 1-2 times a month (we all live about an hour from each other) because I'd end up feeling guilty or miss them.
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    This is a bit embarrassing to share . . . but I think I'm starting to lose my libido! And I'm only 25 years old!! It's suppose to be my prime! And I can't figure out what is wrong with me I've been with my bf for about 1.5 years, and at the beginning of the relationship, we used to do it all the time! We only get to see each other on weekends, so usually we'd do it 2-3 times a day! Now a days, it's more like, 1-2 times in the whole weekend. It's mostly me though. I don't know why I just don't have the desire anymore. I mean, I'd be perfectly fine with just cuddling, but just not sex. My relationship is taking a huge hit because my bf is a very sexual person and he gets really frustrated and depressed because he thinks that the problem is him, like I'm no longer attracted to him physically or something, which is not true! He even suspected that I was cheating on him, which I don't blame him for questioning, but that's also untrue. I'm starting to think that maybe I am just bored with sex so I suggested doing different things. But he doesn't think that's the "long term" solution to the problem because you shouldn't have to always do something "different" when you have sex. I think he's still convinced that I'm just not into him anymore. Help!! I just don't know how many times I can explain to him that it's not him, but me. Is this normal?? Or could this be some sort of condition that I should be taking some sort of supplements for? So confused!
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    My hair tend to grow out very fast . . . so usually I would have to shave my armpits and legs everyday or it will be stubbly. The excessive shaving is making my legs really really dry, especially during the winter time. And when it's dry it itches and I end up scratching my legs to death and sometimes can't even get a good night of sleep because of this. I've tried different kinds of body moisturizers but none of them seem to work. Does anyone have any good suggestions on any brands of moisturizers??
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    Wow, I actually just had something similar happening to me, except the situation was reversed. I live with two other roomates and I recently noticed that she's been overcharging me on our utility bills (her name is on everything). When I confronted her she told me that it's because my bf stays over on weekends. BUT, my bf only stays over maybe two weekends out of the month, and NOTHING more. I got very upset when I found out that she would actually make me pay for 1/2 of our total utilities when it should've been split 3-ways. Unlike you and your roomates, she was not very nice about it when she had told me. Anyways, I got into a huge argument with her and finally I cooled down and went to talk to the other roomate (they are a couple). I sat down with the nicer roomate and we went over all our bills and we agreed on that I pay for 1/2 of our water bill (which still isn't very fair considering that he only stays over two weekends). Your situation is a little bit different though cuz your roomate's bf is over practically everyday. And it's only fair that you ask her to pay 1/2 of the utilities. I don't see anything wrong with that. Cuz he's basically living over there! I probably wouldn't get the bf involved, instead, all three of you guys need to sit down and decide on a fair way of dealing with the utilities. If you guys can't reach an argument then I'd say that once the lease is up that you kick that roomate out and find someone else.
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    I get that on my face too! But only after I wash my face before I go to bed. I usually just put on some facial lotion (oil free) so my face doesn't feel so tight!
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    What types of exercises do you do at the gym?
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    You betcha!
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    Yeah, my boyfriend has friends that are exactly the same way! They'd always be down to hang out but once they are involved in a relationship, forget about it! The only time that they'll come out again is when they eventually break up. My boyfriend and his buds used to pick on him all the time, but he didn't change. Seriously though, I don't think there's much you can do here. If he's a good friend he should try to make the effort to spend more time with you. The decision is really up to him, and if he's not willing to change, there's really nothing you can do.
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    Hi Sherri, This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I saw some major red flags! - He flat out told you at the beginning of the relationship that he still his heart belongs to his ex - He got you preganant, persuaded you to get an abortion, and then dumped you so he can pursue his ex once again Either of those things would be the deal breaker for me personally. And from what I've read, it seems like he wants a piece of the cake and eat it too! He's stringing both of you guys along and it's not right! You listed some positive aspects of the relationship, but do they honestly outweigh the negatives? Like Momene said, I don't want to tell you that you should stop seeing this guy, but do you honestly think you will be happy in this relationship?
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    My brother and bf gained weight by drinking protein shakes after their workouts. You should also eat of lot of lean meat such as grilled chicken, lean steak, fish, etc. I was told that you have to be very consistent when you're working out. My bf told me that if he doesn't go to the gym for more than a week or two, that his strength will go down. If you don't have too much experience in weightlifting, I would suggest that you get a trainer at the gym to start out with. You just want to learn the proper techniques so you don't hurt yourself. You can usually negotiate the price with them and they are usually pretty affordable. A trainer at my gym costs about $35 for a 30 min session, but it could get cheaper depending on the type of plan you have (it might be as low as $20).
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