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wow. this thread seems to be hitting some on a personal note... maybe next time i will keep my opinions to myself.

like previously mentioned, this was a one night stand. Both he and I were aware of that. We're not looking to start something off from this.

not worried. amused.

silly me for thinking..hot guy= hot sex. in a perfect world.

I think if he apologizes...he's bad thus it was bad.

FYI it was a one night stand, meant to be kept that way. Physical attraction was most definitely there and our personalities clicked instantaneously. He just lacked bedroom skills.

He was devastatingly handsome but bad in bed. How sad...so unfortunate. My fav quote from a friend who I told my story to the very next day... "I just think that sexual prowess is something that is somewhat natural. Like dancing. Some people are born good, some learn, and some never figure that * * * * out."-Lana hahaha...still cracks me up.

Sweet story really... Through a mutual friend. I was throwing a bday bash and called on my dj friend who then suggested a band. Contacted the drummer (my ex) who agreed to have the band play (strictly business/professional at first). Due to unforeseen circumstances the band couldn't play but he came anyway. I was flattered and smitten. Blossomed from them on out. Though the flower is now dead.

which is why I will not be attending..i'm sure his pride has alot to do with the fact that i haven't been told the devastating news. Yes, maybe we weren't related (his grandfather and i) but 6 years with the ex is 6 years spent with his family and I was very good at maintaining it. i've already given my condolences via email and don't expect a response. I just wanted him to know that I was sorry for his loss and hoped that he was okay.

I'm not going to the funeral. the stares/gasps and whispers would be something I would not like to encounter.

Catch 22: breaking up means breaking up with the whole entire family, even though i loved them. I probably should just keep to myself. it was obviously posted for people (even me) to see. Doubt it was for his friends to be aware of (since he see's them daily) or as an electronic archive... just think it was posted as a head's up to me, an FYI. ???

hello everyone! I have not been on the boards in a few weeks now and may I say NC has worked wonders and life has finally felt likes it's moving along. I no longer feel dependant on the other half and life has never shown brighter than it has now. I hope everyone out there is doing well. Hang in there it DOES get better! Anyway, this is probably posted in the wrong discussion group but it ties in with the healing process for me... My ex bf's (of 6 years) grandfather just passed away, someone who i built a very loving and respectful relationship with (matter of fact with the whole family). Although my has ex has moved on with someone else I can't help the fact that I feel like I should say something, give my condolences to he and his family that were practically considered my extended family for 6+ yrs. He did not officially tell me of the news (blame it on myspace and snooping-he know's i read his blogs and i know he reads mine. It's a pathetic and sick game we play*still healing and shifting away from that. i didn't say i was completely well). So question is...do I give an ounce of concern and sympathy? I must admit I did cry when I heard of the news. ______________________________________________ a free bird. no longer caged.

I didn't. besides I'm sure he would rather hear it from his current gf not an ex. He is the past afterall...

Oh I did forget to mention that when notifying me of the deposit he did apologize for the delay of payment...and yes, it was in that afternoon. Thank goodness....I'm actually happy that we have nothing connecting us, not a single reason to contact one another. ...moving forward...

Hello and good afternoon to everyone! I just wanted to share my experience and get some insight and input on it. So my ex owes me money and he called me on Friday to "let me know." Here's our conversation: eX Vee. Just wanted to let you know that I'll be depositing the money into your account. It should be there this afternoon. Y: Great. Thanks. eX know what sucks? Y: what's that? X: We've been outsourced. Y: What do you mean? X: Our company has been outsourced. Today is my last day. Y: Oh, when did you find out? X: Yesterday. They're going to make the official announcement this afternoon. Y: Oh I'm sorry to hear. Are you okay? Do have anything else lined up? X: No I don't. I could be better but what can you do? Y: Yeah. We'll I'm really sorry to hear. Uh you may be able to apply for unemployment in the mean time. That should hold you up a bit..... Well, good luck with everything and the future. X: Umm okay I guess. Bye. Y: Bye. Well for one he really didn't need to inform me of the deposit. I bank online frequently and would have found out eventually. Secondly, I'm wondering why he told me about his lay-off. Was he looking for some sort of positive uplifting, words of comfort, etc?....That's not my role anymore. He should go to his current GF. That news sure caught me off guard and I didn't know what to say. What could I say?? I tried to make the conversation all about the deposit and cut it off ASAP but from the sound of his voice and the comment I think he wanted to keep A conversation going. I had a strong feeling that we both knew this was the end, that nothing was connecting us. I hope I didn't sound insensitive to the situation cause truth be told I truly am sorry that he or anyone has to go through that. But what was he expecting if anything?