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I would send him another just regular email on asking "how he is doing" and talk about my week. But, I have a bad feeling he won't reply because he didn't reply to other emails on my upcoming birthday when I told him what my plans where. I even ask what he was doing that weekend, if he had any plans? And no reply.. Don't bother sending him anything he's not worth it honestly, just block his email from now on. He's obviously only out for what he can get as raykay said. I'm sorry he's made you sad but its best you dind out NOW what an uncaring selfish pig he is than get even more emotionally attached and find out later. Stick with your REAL friends from now on. Best of luck, I hope you had a nice birthday anyway
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but how do I know if he was just really busy with something? or if he doesn't care? how much time and effort does it take to hit the reply button and type 'hope you have a lovely birthday?' 10 seconds if that! Stop making excuses for the guy he's a pig.
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I have been in situations like this before with some of my friends where I was always putting so much effort in and never really getting anything back. My best friend forgot my birthday a few years ago so I called him and went to town on him about it, he has never forgotten since! Don't bother sending this guy anything if he can't even be bothered to say happy birthday then he isn't worth the effort! Either that or send it to him with a posty saying - thanks for the birthday card, enjoy sticking this CD up your ***! I find that quite a few men are like this with birthdays and such, they see it as being 'okay' to forget the birthdays of others because they're 'men' but woe betide anyone who forgets THEIR birthday!
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Umm the dude lives in another country! I wouldn't waste time in a relationship with chances of meeting are extremely small, as in thousands of miles separated by oceans. Just make sure you don't put 4 years of your life in a relationship built throught cyberspace and in the end, it turns out to be a mistake. So? I am british and met my American husband online! I am now living happily with him in the states - don't be so negative, it CAN work! My advice is to meet up as soon as you can and see how you click face to face and if it works go for it!
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i'm jealous of his exwife even though he calls her witchypoo
Dannysgirl replied to cinderelly's topic in Jealousy
Or even better if he doesn't like what you cook him, tell him to sod off and cook it himself! -
Husbands Co-worker perhaps trying to move in
Dannysgirl replied to miracle29's topic in Relationship Advice
Personally miracle, if I were you I'd be having a little chat with this cow in the ladies room. Intuition is a powerful thing and if you suspect she's after your man she probably is... Thats not to say that will will succeed, but just to make sure tell her that you know her game and find it laughable that she thinks she's got a ghost of a chance with him! Don't continue to bring this up with your husband afterall he has no designs on her! Just have a quiet word with her and tell her she's got about as much chance of getting with him as she has of waking up and actually being attractive! I personally have had to do this in the past with girls who were throwing themselves at my boyfriend right in front of me! most of the boyfriends I have had since I began dating were very attractive guys and I found that because I am very tiny some arrogant women who thought they were 'better' than me just because they were taller would think 'well why is he with HER, as soon as he gets a load of me, he'll forget all about her.' Obviously that never worked but they would keep trying so I ended up having to have that ladies room chat with quite a few girls... I made one of them cry once because I called her 'an ugly scrog' after she pushed between my boyfriend and I on the dancefloor and started putting her hands all over him! Trust your instincts and tell this woman to get booted. -
You shoud, its a very good site, I've never seen one troll on here which is suprising seing as people are posting with their problems. You would expect at least one or two idiots posting 'boo hoo' or something like that. As for myspace, I've heard of it but never checked it out. I spend far too much time on the internet when I'm supposed to be working anyway....
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the rest of your post i felt i was being stabbed at.. Well I certainly didn't mean to give you that impression, thats the difficulty with messageboards you can never hear a person's tone..... its interesting you mentioned my husband and I meeting online. He always used to accuse me of attacking him when we IMed but I was doing no such thing!!! Only when I said the same thing over the phone did he get what I meant... Regardless I hope you manage to sort your marriage problems out. Keep us posted
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'You also should be with somebody who makes you happy, life is too short to be married to somebody for years because you are scared of breaking their heart - we don't get long on this earth you know!' How is this bashing you hepcat? You said YOU would get over it quickly that gave me the impression that your heart wasn't really in it, thereforeeee you might BOTH be happier if you broke up alltough I would certianly go for counselling first to see if this can be fixed before you go that route.
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well again i might get beaten up for this.. but, i think it has to do with mind over matter.. When you date you can walk away @ anytime.. is it right.. no but it does not break any sanctity. Married.. well, a divorce over the size of ones chest or the lack of pleasure in intamicy is a bit worng and extremly heart breaking .. I might be alot of things but i would never want to break my wifes heart. and although we have brutal arguments and both say things we shouldnt and we threatin with seperation, i do love her and could not bring myself to it.. If she were to divorce me .. yea it would hurt but ive been independent for so damn long that id get over it quickly.. but not so the other way around .. it would destroy her, and thats something i just could never bring myself to do .. Oh dear, this doesn't sound right at all. So you're saying you would never leave her because it would break HER heart? and YOU would get over it quickly? That doesn't sound like the stance of a loving husband to me, it sounds like you couldn't care less. If that is the case then you really should break up because she deserves to be with somebody who WANTS to be with her because he loves her to death rather than out of a feeling of obligation. You also should be with somebody who makes you happy, life is too short to be married to somebody for years because you are scared of breaking their heart - we don't get long on this earth you know! If you're really not happy and don't think that these issues can be resolved it might be better to break up now while you are still both relatively young, better that than cheat on her with a big breasted woman later down the line.
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Well i agree with the Lot of you that there are men who never grew out of the Neanderthal stage. and that is worng.. its Disgusting what that man said to you Bella Donna .. but please do not class me as sleazeball, as you do not know me. If in fact you were referring that to me because i admited to fantisizing.. I wasn't referring to you Hepcat. I really hope you can sort out these problems you have with your wife as it would be a real shame if you can't work it out. Maybe you should sit down and talk to her about the issues you have about her attitude to your friends, maybe that is what is bothering you most of all but you as focusing on her breast size? Tell me, why didn't her breast size bother you so much when you were dating?
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(I quote) "oooo I'd be suckin' on those! I only mean that about the oranges, ya' know" I know what you mean Bella I once got the 'you don't get many of THEM to the pound HAR HAR!' You'd think I was wearing major padding or something!
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I think some men tend to look whether a woman wears a turtle-neck sweater or a v-neck with cleavage showing. All I can say is I tend to wear low cut tops because I like having larger breasts, they're part of my sexuality, and I don't feel the need to hide them from anyone, in fear of being looked at. However you'll never see me wear anything revealing to work, etc. But some men can be quite obnoxious sometimes. Example: Last week I was at the super-market with my husband, but he was in another aisle. I had a tank top on because it was very warm out. I was putting oranges in a bag and some "old dirty man staring" actually came up to me and said (I quote) "oooo I'd be suckin' on those! I only mean that about the oranges, ya' know" My reponse to him contained far too many profanities to even attempt to post on this forum. It's a good thing my husband didn't hear the incident- I only told him after we got home. Depending on levels of alcohol and stupidity, some men also have the tendency to make suggestive tongue motions. They've done it to me while driving (sticking their heads out the window), etc. So the concept of the old dirty man is definitly alive and well. I don't think wearing a low cut top is justifies piggish and classless behavior like that. BellaDonna I know what you mean BellaDonna I hate the 'oh you love it really' argument that some guys make in response to this kind of thing, okay SOME do but don't put us all in that category! Not all of us want to be undressed with your eyes...
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Thats the reason I married him, he's not a total sleazeball unlike some men out there.... Not all men are the same you know.
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I don't know really I just think they're too big and I hate the fact that sleazy guys stare at them... Here's a clue: Men will stare at any good looking girl and take any opportunity to check out breasts -- big or small. Many times women will overexagerrate the "old dirty men staring" stuff because, honestly, they WANT that to happen. Sure, you say you don't here, but being attractive and knowing you can grab a man's attention is a power trip for many women. They will turn around and say "ew, I don't want men staring at my breasts" and then walk out the door with a light blouse that shows huge cleavage. Gotta love the double talk You're right SOME women do that, and there's no denying that some get off on it, but personally I find it disgusting especially when they are old enough to be my father. I much preferred it when I was an A cup, the instances of having my chest eyeballed were much fewer then! Hepcats wife should think herself lucky... Think about it guys, if somebody stared at your groin constantly when speaking to you wouldn't it make you rather uncomfortable?
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I don't know really I just think they're too big and I hate the fact that sleazy guys stare at them...
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I'm a B cup and I've never had any desire to get implants, in fact I wish they were smaller!
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Likening you wife to a 13yr old boy does not really bode very well for the future of your relationship does it? As for looking at other women's chests, since when is that acceptable? My husband NEVER looks at other women for any reason and if he ever did I'd belt him one. Now I know you wil probably say that he I must have him under the thumb or something but I really don't, he simply doesn't want to stare at other women and has told me himself that had he wanted to do that he wouldn't have married me in the first place. This whole well I'm a man' excuse is just that in my opninion, would you find it acceptable for your wife to stare at the groin area of other men? I don't think you'd like that would you? From what you have said it really doesn't seem that you and your wife are very compatable in a number of areas so you might want to talk to her about going to marriage counselling so you can discuss your differences without it getting too heated and if its still not working out you might have to go for separation. Good luck
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If she doesn't do anything for you sexually why on earth did you marry her? Sexual chemistry is an important part of any relationship, if its not there it could cause problems later on. Please do not tell your wife that her breasts are too small that is a horrible thing to say, why should she get breast implants just to satisfy your craving for bigger breasts? This is HER body you're talking about! How would you feel if she told you your penis was too small and she wanted you to have an extension?
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What on earth are you doing dear? How can you expect to experience good sex with somebody who treats you like dog dirt? To experience good sex you have to be with somebody who respects you and cares about you and your needs. The man has demonstrated time and time again that he does NOT care about you or your needs, all you are to him is somebody to have sex with when he is out of other options. The reason he calls you and promises you this and that is because he wants to keep you hanging on and its working isn't it? From your description of him it also sounds like he enjoys having this power over you so stop letting him have his own way. Waiting around for some guy who couldn't care less about you (believe me when I tell you he doesn't care, men who care DO NOT treat you like this) and treats you like an object when he DOES feel like giving you attention is just silly. You are young and you should be going and and having the time of your life at university, please don't wait around for this sleazeball any longer. Erase his number and begin NC, he has torured you enough. Its time to be strong and tell him to get lost. You will find love and happiness with somebody else, don't for one moment think you won't but while you are wating for this guy to realise your worth how is anybody else going to see it? Stop selling yourself short, go out and start meeting new people. You can do it!
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Lil R, I am the same height as you and have a very tiny frame - (my husband calls me the tiniest baby in the world for a reason lol) and I had the same problem when I first started having sex in fact I absolutely HATED doggy for a number of years and it was only when I met my husband two years ago that I was actually able to enjoy it and the reason for that I believe is that my body has matured from the body of a girl into a body of a woman (I am now 27) your body continues to mature up until you are about 25 or so I wouldn't worry about it too much for now you're only 16 afterall. Its clearly hurting for a reason at the moment so I would avoid it for now.
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What do you think? Do YOU think he is messing you around? Intuition is a powerful thing. If you suspect he's playing you for a fool, he probably is.
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If its definitely over between you and he has requested that you don't contact him anymore I would respect his wishes and not contact him even if it is his birthday, hearing from you might upset him all over again and ruin his birthday. Continuing NC is the only way that you will both be able to heal and move on regardless of whether its his birthday or not. Unless of course you want to get back together?
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Hi confusedgrl, I don't think L8riser was trying to tell people how they should live their lives, he was just giving advice based on his own experience. Two of my closest friends are gay and they BOTH said they were bi for a time before they said they were actually gay. In fact most of the gay people I have known (and I have known A LOT I studied media & performing arts! ) have said that before admitting they were gay, perhaps saying you're bi first softens 'the blow' a bit? Thats not to say that Bi people don't exist or that there is anything wrong with being bi but in my experience many gay people tend to go the 'Bi' way first.
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my bf refers to his self as a single guy....
Dannysgirl replied to SeaBisquit's topic in Relationship Advice
I agree Beec, it seems pretty obvious that this relationship is not going to end up as a happy ever after, its far too unstable for that. The guy has already broken up with her before and is talking about other women as well as referring to himself as 'single' so he really doesn't appear to be very emotionally invested in the relationship and he certainly isn't meeting her emotional needs. Do yourself a favour dear and get rid of him before he messes you around and causes you even more needless heartache. Feel free to PM me if you want to. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.