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    Uh Oh!!

    Dannysgirl replied to brahman's topic in Pregnancy

    That has happened to me plenty of times. Sometimes I'll start my period and it won't start again for a couple of days so I wouldn't worry, sometimes it only lasts two days max! Don't get stressed about it because your hormones can be affected by the slightest thing and if you worry it could delay your period even further.
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    Hmm what are the reasons you are given for being fired? Before you apply for jobs you need to ensure that your resume and cover letter is absolutely brilliant - the experience you have had doesn't need to be great but it should be worded in way that makes it seem that you have benefited either intellectually or professionally from each experience that you have had. Research resume/cover leter writing online to give you ideas on how best to sell yourself and make sure you draft it a couple of times to get it just right. Secondly you have to make sure you conduct yourself in an articulate, informed (read up on the company you are applying to work for so you can ask intelligent questions at interview) manner during interview. Unfortunatley it doesn't apear that you are geting to that stage if you are not getting a call back, that may well be because of racism or it could be the fact that your resume is lacking in some way. I doubt very much that EVERY company is going to turn you down because of your race and if your resume and cover letter are both in order you should call them back and ask for feedback on your application (i.e why you didn't receive a call back - you are perfectly entitled to ask and don't let up before you get a proper answer) Finally when you do go for an interview ensure you are dressed appropriately preferably in a smart suit of some description and your hair is tied back out of your face - prospective employers like smart and understated. Good luck!
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    I wouldn't bother with her at all, she sounds like she is stringing you along as 'insurance' in case her other guys don't work out. The 'you are pouty' comment was extremely immature and if anything THAT comment was pouty because she is realising that she cannot control you and have you at her beck and call all the time. If somebody doesn't make time for you, return your emails, and do not put any effort into the relationship then basically there IS no relationship - unless of course its convenient for HER. You don't need this kind od treatment she is not worth all of this - I would begin NC and not bother with her again.
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    I was just about to post again to warn her of the same thing RayKay. You do have to be careful sending those kinds of images out as they could potentially be very embarrasing for you if they fall into the wrong hands, if not damaging to your future career or relationships.
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    I don't think you're being a snob, Ive been in the same situation myself, when its not right, its not right. You will be much happier with someone on your level. Good luck
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    I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbation at all its completely normal to be exploring your body and finding out what you like before you have sex. I started exploring my body at a very young age too and believe me I am reaping the rewards now! As long as you are not putting yourself at risk by meeting these different guys you send pictures to, to have unprotected sex then thats fine. Just be careful that you keep this in the realm of fantasy and don't agree to meet with any of these guys as you could regret it later.
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    I agree WildChild, I think there are deeper issues here than just 'hair extentions.' Notmyself, think about the negative way you think/speak about your boyfriend now and then times it by a hundred - that is how you will feel when you move in with him/get married. If you were truly happy with this person and could see yourself being with him for the rest of your life you would NOT be having these thoughts, its that simple. To stay with somebody you feel is beneath you and clearly has very different ideals about a lot of things, out of insecurity is unfair to the both of you. He should feel like he is 'good enough' for the person he's with and you should feel that the person you're with is 'good enough' for you. Believe me I've been in this situation a lot too, I would date people who were totally unsuitable, uneducated, ect and I KNEW going into the relationship that they weren't on my level in a lot of ways but instead of doing the decent thingand ending it for bothg our sakes I carried it on until something happened to bring things to a head. A lot of these guys proposed etc while I was with them but I could never bring myself to do it because I just KNEW it wasn't right. The only person I have ever felt really did deserve me and was completely on my leve in every way is my husband - I'm glad I waited for him. Believe me, if you move in with this guy you will later regret it. Not because he's a bad guy but e's too different from you for it to work.
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    I think these comments show that you should not be with this person. You clearly don't think he is good enough for you and if you continue this relationship more and more resentment will build up inside you because you in your mind think you 'can do better' you said as much in the above comments. Okay, that may not be a very nice way to feel about the person you supposedly love but I get the impression that you feel that you are dating 'below your station' but you are too insecure to end it because you are worried that you won't find somebody better. If I am right about this you should definitely end it and find someone you feel derverves you and allow him to find someone who IS happy with him.
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    Great! If he does eventually start texting you saying 'its me' etc I would just not text back at all, otherwise he might start waxing lyrical and you might let yourself get drawn into the whole thing again. Don't let it get to that point just ignore him completely from now on. So glad you can see what an idiot he is..
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    In that cause I would continue NC and not pick up those calls. I think he's probably just looking for a booty call again and wants to see if he still has power over you. If he's single right now it would probably be a huge boost to his ego to learn that you still care - so don't give him the satisfaction! He said he never loved you but now he's coming at you with this 'hugs and kisses' BS? and he won't even acknowledge that its HIM who's calling? What an idiot, you are well rid of him. In my opinion all this is, is him feeling a bit lonely and wanting sex and sympathy and afterall, you loved him and are 'a sure thing' aren't you? Ignore him and play dumb, he'll get bored and start bugging someone else. Besides all this at least you will have the satisfaction of knowing that you didn't give in this time and he will know he ended up looking stupid.
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    Who ended the relationship and why?
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    Notmyself, your boyfriend doesn't have a say in what you want to do to your hair unless you are expecting him to pay for it - in which case he can quite rightly say no as its his money. Why do you need to get his permisson to do it anyway? he doesn't seem to require yours about the lipo! As some guy said tell him he's being a hypocrite and use the lipo example to back it up. If he still doesn't like it well just get it done - there's not much he can do then is there? Whats he going to do break up with you?
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    If you're going to be using your own money to do this then why not?
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    So does that mean that your sister will get into trouble for telling you? If she doesn't know what was in the letter how does she know it was a 'nasty' one? Did you mother confide in your sister about this? I think your best bet is to contact your father and tell him what happened and tell him you would like to be friends.
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    Can you find out what was said in this letter? I get the feeling that although your father did not approve of you marrying this person I'm sure he would have gotten over it eventually.. Please try to talk to your mother and ask her why she did that and more importantly what she said. Can you call your father and expain that you didn't know about this letter?
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    Possibly but he may have had a change of heart later on, and did not get in touch because of the letter. Who knows what was said? I can understand her mother's concern and can even understand why she wrote a letter to him but what I don't get is the signing of HER name on the letter without her consent.
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    Why on earth would you mother send a nasty letter and sign YOUR name on the bottom of it? If I were you I'd be having some very cross words with her right now! Perhaps your mother did that as a way of getting all of her own resentment towards your father out of her system without taking any responsibility for it. I would confront HER about doing such a thing and demand she tells you exactly what was in that letter. Then I would get in touch with your father and explain the situation and ask if you can meet to talk things over. Why have you only recently found out about this? If you mother had your best interests at heart then she would at least have told you as soon as the letter was sent or if she had any sense before she put it in the mail. However the fact that you've only recently found this out suggests that she sent this letter for her own reasons.
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    Unfortunately it seems to me that his inability to be intimate with you and his protectiveness of the other woman illustrates the fact that he as you said 'hasn't got the guts' to end it with you. Maybe he truly is torn but if he can't even talk to you or be intimate then its clear that he either can't be bothered to try to save your marriage or he's just not into it anymore. The fact that he calls the other woman of all people to talk to about your relationship is a huge red flag - he obviously feels he can talk to her and not you for some reason and we all know that communication is key in any relationship. The fact that he screamed at you to stay away from the other woman seems to show where his loyalty truly lies. She's the one who ruined your marriage and yet he's protective of HER???? If I were in your shoes I would be laying his clothes out on the lawn as we speak. If he really wanted to work things out with you and be a family he would allow you to do anything you felt necessary to gain closure after the betrayal and he certainly would NOT still be communicating with her! There is no way for you to keep them apart if its her he really wants to be with. I think you should talk to him honestly and ask him if he REALLY wants to be with you, its not fair to you if he doesn't really want to be there.
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    What kind of ceremony was she going for?
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    I agree Hope, the most common of STD's to get at that age especially is Chlamydia which can be symptomless for years and for women it is especially damaging as it can eventually lead to infertility. Puccie, if you do go to a clinic try to get examined by one of the doctors there and ask to get tested for STD's while you're there. You won't regret it, I went for a one off exam about five years ago and found that my boyfriend of two years had given me chlamydia, even though I felt fine - it turned out he had been carrying it for quite some time without any symptoms. Had I not been treated when I was I could be infertile now. So you see, it never hurts to get checked and to protect yourself better.
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    What you tell a doctor is confidential, he/she is forbidden by law to tell anybody what is said in the examining room. Make an appointment to see a doctor if you can and explain the situation. What is the age of consent in your state? In Britain it is 16, I always thought it was 16 everywhere but it is probably higher in the bible belt states. where do you live puccie? If you can't face going to the doctor or think you can't see him without your parents finding out then I would go to a clinic and get free condoms as a last resort. Good luck to you dear. PM me if you need to talk.
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    I think you should still see your doctor and get checked out properly and thenstart using a less risky method of contraception. Contrary to what your boyfriend says you cannot 'kill' the sperm in pre-cum by peeing before sex, that is just not going to happen. You should definitely use condoms from now on or go on the contaceptive pill to avoid pregnancy but if I were you I would use both as the pill does not guard against sexually transmitted diseases.
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    I beg to differ Hassie, most fat people CAN help being fat. A fat person can always lose weight - what can a short person do? Nothing! However I usually find that when a fat person has a go at me for being short they usually do so out of jealousy/insecurity about their own size. Believe me I have no qualms about giving at good as I get! If somebody comments nastily about my height I will usually respond with 'given the choice I'd rather be pretty and petite than fat and ugly any day of the week, besides I can always wear heels what can you do about your face? You'll need more than botox to straighten that.' That is ONLY when somebody is being nasty though, if its an innocent remark I let it go.
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    Hi Sheyda - The point In was making is that there is always somebody who has it worse that you do so allthough you're under 5'5 you're a giant compared to me. Thats not to say that I'm unhappy with my height - far from it. My height is part of who I am and without it I wouldn't be me. My husband would not have been interested in me in the first place if it weren't for my height as he has never dated anyone taller than he is - despite being a successful jockey at one time and having women of all heights throwing themselves at him! His reason for that is because he says it is human nature for women to want to feel they are protected by their man and for the man to feel like the protector, he personally thinks he wouldn't feel like 'the protector' in the relationship if he dated someone taller than him. Obviously thats not the ONLY reason I am happy with my height, I find it sets me apart from the crowd quite a bit and that people apart from the odd 'you're short' comment seem to treat me in a more respectful/careful manner which is something many people have told me they envy me for. I also find I get a lot of women who are of average height or taller telling me they would like to swap sizes! The other big plus is that when you are short people tend to underestimate you a lot and I find it rather amusing when this happens and I can stun people by doing something 100 times better than they thought I would be able to. The only thing really that bothers me about being the way I am is my obvious vulnerability and physical weakness against potential predators. I tend to get a lot of perverts twice my age sexually harassing me - which is only to be expected really as they are probably thinking (despite the fact thet there is no mistaking me for a woman) 'well she is tiny - she looks young BUT she's legal' You know what I mean? I have been very lucky up to now, a paedophile tried to abduct me when I was 16, he later served time for raping his own daughters! I've also had problems with various pervs since then but nothing serious. I can't help feeling sometimes that I'm on my ninth life and that something terrible might happen to me one day.
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    LOL I find this thread so funny, you all say that you are short but not one of you is below 5ft! I'm 4'8, how's THAT for short? (and no, before anyone asks I'm not a dwarf - just extremely short) However far from having difficulty getting boyfriends etc I never had any trouble in the slightest. The tallest I have dated is 6'5 and the shortest 5'1 - who is now my husband. Prior to meeting my husband, height was never a factor where dating was concerned I just didn't care about it. As an insecure teen I probably gravitated towards much taller men as I fet they could understand how I felt as a tiny person in society where nobody can ever speak to you without pointing out your height or in my case how short you are; 'You're really short! -'No! really? I thought I was 6'5 thanks so much for telling me.' This still irriates me to this day although it rarely happens these days as I am much more confident and nobody would dare say anything so ridiculous. How many of us would go up to an overweight person and say; 'Gosh you're really fat aren't you? Not many I don't think. But then apparently its okay to point out someone's height as if it were a flaw but its RUDE to point out any other flaw (weight, looks) isn't it? Since meeting my husband who is only five inches taller than me I don't think I could ever date a tall guy again, it would just feel too weird.
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